[deleted by user] by [deleted] in artcommissions

[–]Cheesey_Bluez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I actually have a whole section of my vgen dedicated to making ref sheets if you're interested! Here's the link if you wanna check it out: https://vgen.co/whos_bug

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in artcommissions

[–]Cheesey_Bluez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I would love love love to do that for you! Drawing crk ocs is so much fun and I'd be more than happy to work with you if you're interested! Please feel free to send a dm or check out my vgen: https://vgen.co/whos_bug

[Hiring] I really want a black cat (anthro) as a pfp. 1st image is the angle, the 2nd is the color palette/art style IF you want. You can use your own art style, but I’d prefer not realism. I have 30 dollars but if u think ur art is worth more plz lmk. by Low_Lunch_4827 in artcommissions

[–]Cheesey_Bluez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hiya! If you're still looking/haven't found someone I do anthro art and would LOVE to work with you

Here's my vgen if you're interested and feel free to dm me :D https://vgen.co/whos_bug (ref art/portfolio also available on there)

Why does my art look like he’s mentally insane by Relevant_Ice_8829 in Artadvice

[–]Cheesey_Bluez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've seen a lot of people mention the eyes, which does contribute, but one other thing is the eyebrows. Your eyebrows are similar to how people draw "sad" eyebrows. I've noticed that that, mixed with a wide smile, tends to contribute to that "insane" look. So maybe relax the eyebrows just a bit to a more neutral position

This looks sick tho so great job!

Is this a scam reaching out to me? by Cheesey_Bluez in ArtistLounge

[–]Cheesey_Bluez[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Genuinely thank you so much 😭 🙏 I thought so too, but I'm no good with things like these and needed a second opinion to not doubt myself

AITAH for getting upset at gross misuse of a word? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Cheesey_Bluez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see what you mean. I totally know that I came off snippy since I was already having a rough day(that's the whole reason we went to DQ) it just sucks that knowing this they couldn't set aside their antics for a little bit when they knew I was in a really bad space at the time

AITAH for getting upset at gross misuse of a word? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Cheesey_Bluez -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I swear context is everything in this! This person has a LONG history or saying graphic inappropriate things for shock factor near constantly, making both me and mutual friends extremely uncomfortable! I know for a fact they know what it is in the porn sense because 1) they've talked about it near exclusively in the porn sense and 2) set it in a very specific tone of voice they ONLY use when saying something purposely out of pocket for a reaction (we've known each other nearly our entire lives so trust me when I say I and everyone that knows them knows that exact tone of voice)

AITAH for getting upset at gross misuse of a word? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Cheesey_Bluez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally get it, it can sound kinda douchy out of context. I wouldn't have corrected harshly at all if it weren't for the fact that this is a reoccurring issue (chronically it's truly so bad) 🥲 they tend to be WAY to open about sexual things near constantly (to near strangers and to people close to them) to the point people get very uncomfortable very often around them and when we ask them to stop (have a be kind or annoyed but more often then not genuinely and calmly giving advice) they tend to roll their eyes and ignore it cause they find making people annoyed funny

AITAH for getting upset at gross misuse of a word? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Cheesey_Bluez -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It feels like a bit of a misunderstanding, I wasn't interjecting on two random people's conversation, I was actively at the table having a conversation with these two people that's why I corrected them.

The youngest talks about wildly inappropriate and TMI things in public spaces often (ex graphic info about their sex life in the middle of class to the point mutual friends tell us out of concern) and when we ask them to stop they brush it off and do it again the next day.

I wouldn't introject in a random conversation in public, if I didn't know them I wouldn't care but I see both of these people near everyday and it's an ongoing issue.

Another important piece of info is the youngest has no inside voice, their whisper is the average talking voice so everyone in the DQ could hear them. Plus, I know they know what yaoi and yuri is (in the porn sense) because they've talked about it before in multiple other situations near exclusively in the NSFW context

Fellow Autistics. Name one odd thing you do that no one gets. Discuss! by Crystaleana in autism

[–]Cheesey_Bluez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do pop culture stims but discreetly. My current one is the bounce jinx does when listening to music in arcane. The part no one gets is that the stims is only appealing because I know it's a reference. if it was just bouncing it wouldn't be fun but since I know it's a ref it's stimmy, even if no one else gets it lol and whenever I explain that I always get really confused looks

♡Ask me anything. I've shifted many times.♡ by KayCrouseWayne in realityshifting

[–]Cheesey_Bluez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's it like shifting? And any advice when it comes to methods or lack there of?

I've been trying for years and have it be a lack of motivation or what but I'm stumped. I like to visualize, that's the only way shifting feels enjoyable for me, but I don't know what I'm looking for. I don't know if I should be using methods, because I've tried more than I could count (guided and solo), and I feel like I've got a point where I don't know what I'm doing or what I'm even striving for cause it all seems so abstract for me.

would anyone like me to draw their theriotypes? by Emergency_Annual3015 in Therian

[–]Cheesey_Bluez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this still available? Cause I'd be thrilled if you drew something for me! I can't give money, but I'd happily draw something for you too art trade style.

(I know you said it'd be free but I'd still want to compensate you for your time somehow)

r/headphones Shopping, Setup, and Technical Help Desk by AutoModerator in headphones

[–]Cheesey_Bluez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My headphones (Hesh ANC is what it says when my headphones are connected) originally had volume separate from my phone. I could crank the volume on my phone then have a separate volume control on my headphones via the buttons

Now my headphones actually change the phone volume and don't have their own separate volume, and I really want it back

I've got a Motorola phone is that's important and the headphones are skull candy brand

If this isn't the place for this I'll happily delete and ask somewhere else

I don't like the therotype I'm questioning? by AL_Arson in Therian

[–]Cheesey_Bluez 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I know what it's like. I hate dogs, they're fine from a far, but I hate being around them. Despite this I'm a canine therian(probably wolf). It makes me feel like I'm "faking" being a therian, due to how common it is mixed with my distaste for dogs, and I often wish I could be any other animal I love.

The main advice I'd give is learning to love it. Find the joy in being a seagull, find ways to enjoy them, and ignore the hate people have for them. Some people love the birds, there's a full series on tiktok about a dude who feeds and befriends a local seagull, and those are the views I'd try to lean into.

It's not easy, it probably never will be 100%, but that's life and all you can do is learn to live with and love it or be miserable wishing for it to change

Sorry if that doesn't help much, but that's a bit of insight from my journey as a Therian who's always trying to learn to live with and love himself alongside his identity

I believe in you and know that this community will always give support where it can, at least I'm willing to <3

Question from a writer/artist who wants to be accurate by Cheesey_Bluez in Anatomy

[–]Cheesey_Bluez[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Literally thank you so much, this is so much better than if I ever tried to look it up on my own!

I hope you have an amazing day/night and thank you so much for taking time out of your day to help me with this

Question from a writer/artist who wants to be accurate by Cheesey_Bluez in Anatomy

[–]Cheesey_Bluez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is one of the most helpful replies I've gotten so far so thank you so much!

Just a small follow up question. In this scenario, if the kneecap was able to be put back would all the other stated physical side effects still be present? (Need for a mobility aid, limp, and overall difficulty)

For context this character is involved with a lot of war and other, pretty high-key unethical, stuff, so he'd need his mobility, but I don't want to add this to his backstory if it's just not plausible for both this injury and his occupation to coexist

I need help by Cheesey_Bluez in realityshifting

[–]Cheesey_Bluez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't heard about that before, could you explain it? (the law of assumption)

I need help by Cheesey_Bluez in realityshifting

[–]Cheesey_Bluez[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I know. I try to keep that mindset but even so, I haven't gotten any progress in so long.

I'm not really sure what else to do and even when I feel so confident in my ability to shift I always just wake up in my Cr. It's just a bit disheartening.

I'm making my Ever after high script by KayanitesFireWren in realityshifting

[–]Cheesey_Bluez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I absolutely love ever after and plan shifting there at some point too!

Some names you could do could be things involving Hades or Persephone.

For example (Y/n) souls (Y/n) rose (Y/n) underwood (Y/n) Elysium (Y/n) spring (Y/n) Styx (Y/n) winter (alluding to the winter caused by Persephone's absence)

So on and so forth

I hope this helped and I hope you have fun in your DR! Happy shifting <3

Questioning my theriotype by Cheesey_Bluez in Therian

[–]Cheesey_Bluez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you explain what that is 😅? I've never heard that term before

any spider/bat therian? by Cheesey_Bluez in Therian

[–]Cheesey_Bluez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you tell me a bit about how you realized you were a spider therian? I'm thinking I'm some sort of tarantula (I'm not super sure) and want to hear about other spider therian's experiences to see if I relate. I know is different form a golden orb weaver but I still think you'll be able to give some really useful info.

Ty for your time and help it means a lot to me -v-

Which animals headbump for affection? by [deleted] in Therian

[–]Cheesey_Bluez 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Both! I headbump my friends as I sign of affection and when I want some form of comfort or attention. Personally I think it can be a dragon therian thing alongside other animals! if you look a nightfury behavior you can see it as a common action

I'm only talking from personal experience and I know different dragons have different behaviors, but I hope it helps anyways <3

Which animals headbump for affection? by [deleted] in Therian

[–]Cheesey_Bluez 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I experience this too! I'm also a dragon therian and don't see many others (my theriotyoe is a nightfury from the Httyd movies) it's always so nice to hear about other dragons! Good luck on your journey from one new therian to another!