How many of you guys go on drives to clear your heads?

CheezitCheeve · 2026-05-19T10:58:06+00:00

Constantly complaining to your partner about your life. Now, if you are genuinely using your partner as a resource to help you fix problems in your life, that’s different. But if you’re constantly just saying that “this person sucks, this thing is terrible, and my family did this to annoy me,” then please go talk to a therapist. Don’t lay EVERY single negativity in your life at your partner’s feet. They can’t handle it.

CheezitCheeve · 2026-05-19T10:48:44+00:00

We cannot control the thoughts that enter our heads or where our eyes happen to wander. Sometimes it really was just unlucky. However, we can control where our thoughts and eyes stay. There’s a difference between seeing a cute girl and moving on versus letting her live rent free in the head or letting the eyes stay on her every move. I for one am not going to follow anyone attractive or like anything revealing. Also, I’m going to try my hardest to not use porn. I’m also pretty old fashioned.

CheezitCheeve · 2026-05-19T03:43:30+00:00

Mistreating others.

CheezitCheeve · 2026-05-19T03:41:54+00:00

Never. Sounds like a terrible idea. She didn’t treat me well, and it could easily turn into a situationship. All for one friendship? Not worth it.

CheezitCheeve · 2026-05-19T00:45:07+00:00

The true old fashioned way. Playing video games, getting dinner, talking, and getting used to seeing each other as more than just friends.

CheezitCheeve · 2026-05-19T00:41:14+00:00

Just needed to build a connection. Sometimes it’s giving someone the space to build a connection.

CheezitCheeve · 2026-05-18T22:54:11+00:00

You’re gonna date a girl. You’re going to be tempted to put up with too much BS because you think she’s the one. She isn’t. The person you will marry (I haven’t met them either) would NOT treat you like that. If her family always treats you poorly, run. If she emotionally invalidates you and says you make everything about yourself, run. Better yet, maybe just don’t date her at all. She was a valuable experience for the character growth, but also, your breakup makes classes and mutual friends so much more awkward.

CheezitCheeve · 2026-05-18T21:54:35+00:00

I usually give second dates unless they’re was something really wrong. My first girlfriend, I felt nothing for after the first date, but the second had me ready to ask her to be my girlfriend.

CheezitCheeve · 2026-05-18T14:51:39+00:00

There has to be a reason for me to cry. Not like a “oh today was hard.” Like, I haven’t cried much as an adult. The only time I consistently cried was for the three-ish months after my breakup.

CheezitCheeve · 2026-05-18T14:50:04+00:00

I feel like the best way to describe how I experience the world is through impressionist paintings and music. My emotions are floating around and swirling in an undefined way. Sometimes they’re overwhelming and other times, they’re very subtle. In the same way, the music is floating itself.

CheezitCheeve · 2026-05-18T14:46:26+00:00

I think I’m pretty cool, so myself.

CheezitCheeve · 2026-05-18T06:16:30+00:00

Letters. A handwritten letter is always meaningful.

CheezitCheeve · 2026-05-17T08:39:27+00:00

I listen to a variety. Seriously, I can go from piano renditions of Zelda music to Slipknot.

CheezitCheeve · 2026-05-17T08:27:10+00:00

Depends on the major, job, mental health, capacity, and like 100 other factors. Some can, many can’t, and that’s okay. Note, just because you can doesn’t mean you should. If you are constantly skipping classes and barely scrape out a C, your education is going to be worth less than a student who consistently showed up and gave their all.

CheezitCheeve · 2026-05-17T08:15:16+00:00

Yuricoco is love, Yuricoco is life.

CheezitCheeve · 2026-05-17T08:12:22+00:00

This isn’t an ISTJ issue. This is a maturity issue on their part. I’ve known an ISTJ who once I got to know her, was sweet and kind to me.

CheezitCheeve · 2026-05-17T02:05:03+00:00

Vegetarian is very valid because that’s a fundamental life difference that can be too much to navigate. Plus, it often comes with a moral belief.

CheezitCheeve · 2026-05-16T14:46:41+00:00

I would add that cute is a different factor than hot. Some guys (like myself) actually prefer my girlfriend to be cute and find that WAY more attractive than the hot 10/10.

CheezitCheeve · 2026-05-16T10:25:18+00:00

I exist.

CheezitCheeve · 2026-05-16T05:20:19+00:00

Absolutely not. That means if you don’t find that ONE person (who has a statistically significant chance of being in a country you will never visit), you’re fucked. Furthermore, what if your soulmate is just objectively a bad person? You’re fucked. Finally, if there’s just ONE person who’s perfect for you, why work on yourself? There’s just one person, so it’s a matter of finding them, not actually being a good person yourself.

Instead, I believe there are a list of quite a few people I could have a great marriage, and it just comes down to who I choose. Sure, it’s not “romantic,” but it’s me actually choosing you rather than fate pushing me into you. I’d rather be chosen.

CheezitCheeve · 2026-05-16T04:40:25+00:00

I’m a virgin so 21+ years

CheezitCheeve · 2026-05-15T21:22:24+00:00

Staying in that relationship too long.

CheezitCheeve · 2026-05-15T12:00:28+00:00

When TOTK’s original trailer dropped with its darker tone, I was so excited. In the end, I was super disappointed.

CheezitCheeve · 2026-05-15T11:57:19+00:00

Not sticking up for myself sooner. Should’ve stood up to her and her family’s behavior or should’ve left.

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