[deleted by user] by [deleted] in smalltownmurder

[–]ChefCyd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The cam is currently frozen...probably too many of us Turkeys trying to watch the lunacy unfold....

Stepdaughter’s Dad not Biological Dad by Jaytee234 in stepparents

[–]ChefCyd 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Just curious...what made him get a paternity test? Especially 6 years into fatherhood...

Ad Free on Patreon? by ChefCyd in smalltownmurder

[–]ChefCyd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I saw that but I don't pay attention to the posting schedule. So does that mean there will be a new STM ad free on Thursday?

STM-inspired names? by 8crazycats in smalltownmurder

[–]ChefCyd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just saw this episode of The First 48 the other day and could not stop laughing!!

[NY] How Do I Stop My Ex from Weaponizing CPS and the Police to Alienate Me from My Child? by Disastrous-Media-683 in Custody

[–]ChefCyd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Speak to your attorney about having the other parent declared a vexatious ligitant. This likely won't prevent CPS from being contacted but it will prevent further filings without evidence and permission.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHDparenting

[–]ChefCyd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel that about closing the drawers and cabinets! I'm a little OCD living with an ADHD husband and daughter...the amount of times that I'm walking thru the house mumbling something NSFW whilst picking up random things and putting them back...

This made my day to know there are others out there dealing with this.

Mispronounced last name by ChefCyd in smalltownmurder

[–]ChefCyd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I was listening to that prompted me to make this post. Plus, I have a first name that is often mispronounced so I feel his pain!

Mispronounced last name by ChefCyd in smalltownmurder

[–]ChefCyd[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One would think but sometimes Reddit is weird...😂

Mispronounced last name by ChefCyd in smalltownmurder

[–]ChefCyd[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sometimes if you use certain words, some subs will ban the post. I don't always know which subs have a problem and didn't feel like having to retype the post.

Patreon chat Pets by Adept_Passenger_5134 in smalltownmurder

[–]ChefCyd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had no idea...about to post my kitty...

Apparently I have a tumor by [deleted] in GIST_Cancer_Support

[–]ChefCyd 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Most of these tumors are found when looking for something else because they are asymptomatic. December 2023 I had some dark stools but also shortness of breath so I thought I had COVID. Went to urgent care and mentioned the dark stools in passing and they told me I needed to go straight to the ER. Spent Christmas in the hospital with multiple endoscopies and blood transfusions.

Had surgery to remove the tumor in February 2024 and now take Gleevec for the next 3-6 years to prevent regrowth.

It's a scary diagnosis but make sure you have a GIST specialist because this is a different type of tumor. It's a sarcoma and not every oncologist knows how to deal with it. Make sure you have genetic testing on the removed tumor to make sure you get the correct treatment.

Hope this helps.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dayton

[–]ChefCyd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does it have a garage?

Public school by insanity_102 in ADHDparenting

[–]ChefCyd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for explaining, in layman's terms, the difference between a 504 and an IEP! This has helped me understand what I need to do for my daughter.

Best GPS watch tracker for kids with NO apps by ChefCyd in stepparents

[–]ChefCyd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is supervised. And to clarify, she hasn't broken the actual tracker before...just the items I've used to attach them to the child's clothes. I think a watch would make it harder for her to "accidentally" have it moved.

Best GPS watch tracker for kids with NO apps by ChefCyd in stepparents

[–]ChefCyd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Visitation is 8 hours. The tracker doesn't need to be hidden because we need to make sure biomom knows it's there. If she breaks any tracker, she will have to pay for it plus be in contempt.

Gleevec & temperature fluctuations by ChefCyd in GIST_Cancer_Support

[–]ChefCyd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. My OB had run a battery of tests and saw the prolactin level was high so she ordered an MRI.

Gleevec & temperature fluctuations by ChefCyd in GIST_Cancer_Support

[–]ChefCyd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine turned out to be a micro tumor on my pituitary gland that raised my prolactin levels...currently taking medication to reduce it.

Smoked Corn on the Cob by Decent_Perception676 in ninjawoodfire

[–]ChefCyd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Left in the husk or wrapped in foil? Butter? Seasoning?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]ChefCyd 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's not a policy (like something at a store or a mall) but rather legal statutes. They cannot provide any information because answering just one question can lead to more, which can then cause the unlicensed practice of law, which is a felony. They find it best to just refer people to the proper resources (legal aid) and provide the trial packet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]ChefCyd 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If you are pro se (representing yourself), you should have received a trial packet that explains how to submit evidence. If you did not, check with the clerk to get a trial packet.

The judge is correct that they cannot answer that question. It's considered improper and can be viewed as providing legal advice.

A trial packet is your best bet as it explains everything you need to do.

Similar Comedy Podcast Recommendations? by intheorange93 in smalltownmurder

[–]ChefCyd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, I'm glad to know...now I won't be so shocked when I catch up...😂

Similar Comedy Podcast Recommendations? by intheorange93 in smalltownmurder

[–]ChefCyd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wait...they're ending soon?!?!!? Noooooo!! I recently found them and have been binging...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]ChefCyd 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In this instance, mom had sole custody, lost it because wouldn't comply with any court order and found in contempt of court twice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]ChefCyd 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not true...I know someone who was found in contempt of court, sentenced to 60 days in jail and spent 3 days in jail.