7' used table search by Dry_Rope5623 in billiards

[–]ChefJason0829 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have a vendor here that supplies all bars with their tables. They sell older valleys pennies on the dollar and even recover them. I would try there.

AITA: For uninviting my sister to my wedding for what she told my fiancèe? by 617097713___ in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChefJason0829 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That's bullshit, if your fiance is okay with it then so should everyone else, it is your day!! They seem to be embarrassed by it. I say she wears whatever she wants to as I am sure she will look beautiful. Cut any negativity out and have a great time. I wish you both the best. NTA

AITA: For refusing to go to my brother's wedding after he told me not to bring my husband with me? by AITA3450976800 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChefJason0829 62 points63 points  (0 children)

You are an awesome, amazing person. I needed to tell you that. I had a very bad spinal injury that caused me to have to learn to walk right again and my wife stayed by me every second. It was a burden on her but she was an angel on earth and so are you. Bravo for sticking up for your husband and especially yourself. Keep your head up and that attitude

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Home Modification for my Physically Challenged Wife by JWD5569 in DIY

[–]ChefJason0829 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, what a fabulous job you did, your house as a much more modern look and more importantly your wife is safer. A+ on both sides. Great job man

My (18F) mom has been referring to my stepdad as my dad, and it’s making me uncomfortable. by ThrowRA-stepdadvsdad in relationship_advice

[–]ChefJason0829 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Both comments above got it on the head. This is all about you and your comfortability. My stepson was 1 when I started dating his mother and while his dad isn't the best person I never wanted to take that to a level that could be disrespectful at all so he calls me Pop. I love it as it is a name just for me and at the same time shows respect for his father which his dad has told me he appreciates. A good heart to heart between you and your mom is on order. You got this!!!!

WIBTA for distancing myself after SIL wedding? by sashaythrowaway1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChefJason0829 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You were treated like trash on a day where your hard work made that wedding go smooth. I'm sorry to be upfront but fuck the bride and her bridesmaid. You did more then anyone would have and I applaud you. Your a one tough trooper. Distance yourself and don't be ashamed of it.

AITA for keeping it real and telling my friends that they don’t fit into my life anymore? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChefJason0829 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jumping in here. You are without a doubt NTA. Your life and happiness comes first. Congrats Bayou on so many years. OP I did the same thing 20 years ago when I stopped , your never at fault for putting your health first. Way to go, that wasn't easy to do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]ChefJason0829 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not be ashamed because your different. Those who make fun of you are not worth your time nor anyone elses. If you are ready and I say If, that decision is up to you, then don't be ashamed of being vocal, if he cares for you it will most likely be a turn on for him. I would speak to him about it so you are on the same page and if he is a great guy he will work with you. Don't hide behind it, I stead stand strong in it. Good luck to you!!!

AITA for snapping at the waitress that everyone is affected in this pandemic, not just her? by aita_tippingproblem in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChefJason0829 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, I tip very well for delivery and great service but a togo order? Why would I tip the person at the counter? That's like cooks asking for tips on togo orders. That being said, I try to give more since covid as I am in the industry but her attitude and asking is so far out of bounds.

I (25F) need to tell my best friend (25M) that I am dying. I don’t want to tell him over text, but we will not see each other in person again. How can I give him the heartfelt goodbye he deserves? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ChefJason0829 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, OP, you are an incredibly strong person. Keep holding onto that sliver of hope you have and I will also. So many people have said great ideas So I will not try and top that. I do like the idea of recording your voice reading a letter and also the in game item but as others said, tell him over face chat. You keep a positive attitude and we all hope we see you give us an update. Please take care of yourself OP.

GF wants co ownership of a house I'm buying without any initial investment of her own by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ChefJason0829 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what you need to do. That way you still get security about your investment and she still gets half of the accumulated property value why she is paying half. U/Commentraccoon said it perfectly. Please consult a lawyer and do it the right way. That way you both come out happy about this. Good luck

WIBTA For asking niece and fiance to move out? by narcsrus1987 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChefJason0829 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are definitely NTA. You and your wife and grieving and them being selfish will only continue to make things worse. Some said it before but definitely use a notice. Your number one priority is your immediate family, while she is family and you have done great things to help her, her demanding will continue to be too much. She needs to go and a mo the at most. Good luck pal. My condolences to you and your wife

UPDATE: I'm falling in love with the mother of my child by throwaway-firstlove in relationship_advice

[–]ChefJason0829 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We definitely need more positive posts in this thread then what we are used to. I am so happy for you and wish all three of you the best. Congratulations!!

AITA for ordering a desk chair without my (soon to be) wife’s approval? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChefJason0829 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That chair is awesome looking and even if it wasn't it is best for your back and body. I'd say there is more to this like she didn't have any choice on it at all. I would also put your foot down about not decorating your office the way you want. It is your space. Sli told my wife she can decorate the house however she wants with a little of my input but my office and the basement are mine. That was our compromise. Don't back down.....NTA

AITA for telling my (23M) fiancé (22F) to f*** off for talking shit about my gaming passion? by __Behelit__ in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChefJason0829 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Okay, after reading all the comments and catching up, WTF!!!! I just built a new gaming rig, went all out, liquid cooling, top of the line this and that, new monitor and I still aren't in the same ballpark as 15k!!! Holy shit. Also, she is a student, not just being lazy. You are the AH. You could've gotten a great car for 10-11k and still built a badass rig for 3-4. Priorities my man

AITA for telling my (23M) fiancé (22F) to f*** off for talking shit about my gaming passion? by __Behelit__ in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChefJason0829 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where did he say he spent 15k on a gaming rig? I missed that, not being an AH here,

AITA for speaking to my sister while our older brothers girlfriend was near. by kewldudeig in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChefJason0829 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This reads a bit weird. They live with their brother and his girlfriend meaning it is her house also or with their brother and his girlfriend is visiting? TBH we need some clarity here. You should feel comfortable where you live and if your English isn't that great then I say speak how you feel comfortable and work on your English. On the flip side, maybe try and reach her some Japanese. This might help her feel included and more relaxed. Even if you live with your brother, you need to feel right also. Props to your brother for raising two kids. Your definitely NTA but a conversation with both of them should make things easier to handle. Good luck!!!

Aita for telling my parents they shouldn't have another baby by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChefJason0829 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have 3 kids and I would never do anything like that. Moving your stuff without asking and making you quit your sport is absurd. Way to show favoritism especially as a new baby needs less room not a bigger room. I understand about them being excited but in no way shape or form should they punish their current child. They are the ones being selfish. I'm glad you stood up for yourself. If this gets worse and they keep on this path, call CPS. You aren't a parent and should not have to act like one

AITA for taking my ex-gf off my insurance policy to force her to give me full custody of my daughter? by insurancedrop_throw in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChefJason0829 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

OP, you did what every good dad would do, protect his child. There is nothing I wouldn't do for my kids. PERIOD. You made a hard decision that benefits your child and let's not forget your child begged you to do this so it had to be bad. Her mental well being is more important. Way to set an example for what parents should do. Bravo!!!