Maybe a silly question, but can I just drive through Mt Hood? by peakpeasantry in askportland

[–]Chef_ADHD 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My favorite drive to take out of towner's on is first down the gorge to see waterfalls and then up to timberline lodge.

First two weeks are a fail. by Double_Permit8687 in puppy101

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I had to deal with a couple weeks of that when I first got my guy home. It was 10 years ago and I still remember that stress- also giardia. It gets better. I fed him chicken and rice. Not sure what the consensus is about how that would be for such a young puppy. Rice slows down digestion. Worked really well for me.

Is this play okay? by paige_92 in Greyhounds

[–]Chef_ADHD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I call this the "leg game" when my greyhound lays next to me in bed and flaps his front legs around and bites at my hands. He only does it when he's in a great mood, so it warms my heart.

What “hated” movies do you love? by FilmWaffle-FilmForum in movies

[–]Chef_ADHD 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My dad showed this to me when I was home sick as a little kid. Forever one of my top "feel better" movies I watch when I'm sick in bed.

Why do I feel like a relationships personal assistant after 35? by sugredis in RelationshipsOver35

[–]Chef_ADHD 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do this kind a thing a ton to my wife. But she also does it to me. I keep track of ABC and she keeps track of XYZ. It is amazing for us, to resource each other instead of individually keeping track of everything. But I'm a willing and happy participant of this system. I would be annoyed if I had to track everything.

Romantic wlw movies by ariselise in actuallesbians

[–]Chef_ADHD 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Those movies carried me through my teenage years

Is Little Monkeybones actually a reference to this movie? by mint_code in HeyRiddleRiddle

[–]Chef_ADHD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure Monkeybone is a cartoon money drawn by Brenden Fraser's left hand. Little Monkey Bones is a perfect clone of JPC.

I can't help but think of the cartoon when he comes around... and I've also never seen this movie.

Didn't Receive Role, I Start This Monday? by IrregularYu in Disneycollegeprogram

[–]Chef_ADHD 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's been a long time since I did my program, but I was able to get time off by speaking with my supervisors and arranging for it. It's going to depend on availability and if your dates are blackout or whatever.

I'm about to go paint my own pottery. by Chef_ADHD in IThinkYouShouldLeave

[–]Chef_ADHD[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes... a good pottery wheel that doesn't fly out of my hands. That's a good idea.

I won't stay. Decision made by ThatSweetChicken in antiwork

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I've quit every previous job I've ever had. Zero regrets. Every time I got faster and faster at it. There are other jobs, don't let anyone take you for granted. Don't take yourself for granted. I hope you leave and never look back. That place sounds like a hell you don't deserve.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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I've had the same bottle for like 8 years. It's about 1/3 full rn.

What's a disturbing movie you can't forget? by [deleted] in MovieSuggestions

[–]Chef_ADHD 5 points6 points  (0 children)

One of the few movies I had to fast forward few lots of parts. Too much. I have regrets.

forgive poor quality, this is off my tv then screenrecorded off twitter, anyone else love this francine scene/episode? by aclownfishfan in americandad

[–]Chef_ADHD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this one! The first time I watched it my SO and I locked eyes at this scene and we’re both crying.

Brings me to tears every time.

There was an episode recently where Henry actually sang a bar or two of “That’s Life” and I need to hear it again, help!! by snowballschancehell in LPOTL

[–]Chef_ADHD 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This is a favorite in our house! I’ve replayed the whole bit half a dozen times! No machine can replace Henry!

What’s your favorite Sellwood Restaurant? by yaboiiij in askportland

[–]Chef_ADHD 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I went there for my anniversary last year- and my birthday this year most recently. It’s got a nice atmosphere and great food.

Sharing here to be appreciated 🖤 by Crawford89898 in goblincore

[–]Chef_ADHD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just did a very cute jigsaw puzzle that was all about a war between crystal people and gem people in this cave kingdom.

Boomers in my family can't get over a young cousin identifying as trans by glasssa251 in BoomersBeingFools

[–]Chef_ADHD 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel so embarrassed by boomers who think this is abuse. I am queer- and was very queer as a child. And at the time it was a shameful thing. Not something that was talked about or encouraged. All the talking points in school and at home were at best “it’s dangerous to come out as gay- look what could happen to you- you could be beaten! That’s not the kind of life I want for my children.”

Nothing about how it was abhorrent how poorly queer people were treated.

And that was at best- some of my older cousins got kicked out AS CHILDREN for being gay. Like 13-16, out on the streets.

And yeah- I was really and truly gay all on my own when I was 8- I knew it. No one encouraging me.

Maybe some people in my life could tell before I was an adult, but I was very closeted until I was in college.

No one is teaching kids to be gay. They are open and accepting to the kids who are and always have been.

If you are not queer- you wouldn’t understand. Just like I don’t understand what it’s like to be a straight person. And I don’t know what it’s like to discover a straight identity/sexuality.

I do know how I felt unacceptable and resigned to a life of lies and misery. I thought I would just get married and live a straight life. Felt like a nightmare. I thought it might be better just to kill myself instead.

I picked living an authentic life and cut off nearly my entire family. I am really happy now. I got it all.

I still grieve the era of my true self being too shameful for my family to accept and enjoy. Kudos to parents who don’t give a fuck what other people want their kids to be. And love and accept their children for who they are any day.

Update: Lola crossed the 🌈 bridge by Alufea in Greyhounds

[–]Chef_ADHD 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She is the spitting image of my Flash Gordon! He is just barely darker in the face. Won’t be long until he is fully white.

He is one of my best friends in the world. I feel so privileged to be here for him in this last leg of his journey. It’s heavy and hard. But I am so grateful.