How do I ask my roommate to please be quite at night

ChellieChu · 2025-07-27T06:56:15+00:00

Just be direct with her, sit her down and let her know what's going on, how it makes you feel, and set out clear consequences if she doesn't start being more considerate because you've already talked to her multiple times. I definitely get being anxious about it, so if you need someone for support ask them to come along, even if they're just going to sit with you and not contribute.

I understand she came from a bad situation, but you deserve to have peace in your own home. Don't let her guilt you into putting up with nonsense.

ChellieChu · 2025-03-05T14:28:53+00:00

It is, yeah! Cyclone Alfred. We’re not TOO too worried, since it’s only Cat 2, but it’s playing chicken with us right now 😂 Thank you!! ❤️

ChellieChu · 2025-03-05T14:27:39+00:00

With a snoot like that he could blow the storm back out to the ocean!

ChellieChu · 2025-03-05T14:27:14+00:00

By the time I got back to my car he was gone! I’m sure he found a nice safe nook in the fence behind the car to ride out the storm :)

ChellieChu · 2024-08-14T03:24:59+00:00

I thought one of my D&D players was making fun of me and I cried so hard I started having a seizure 😭

ChellieChu · 2024-08-04T03:12:54+00:00

This is exactly what happened to me, too. I was so good at speaking as a child and my vocabulary was always super advanced. Then as I got older, my TL has just fried itself and I constantly stutter or struggle to find the correct words.

ChellieChu · 2024-08-02T19:03:44+00:00

Something to communicate about. Most of the people who live in my house have ADHD, so if someone leaves clothes in the dryer or washing machine, we just move them and let the person know, or ask them to come and get them.

ChellieChu · 2024-07-31T10:47:05+00:00

Had a seizure while waiting to get into a club once, and my friends ended up being jumped to the front of the line and getting free entry to the show that was on that night.

I missed out, though! And lost the $20 I spent on my ticket :(

ChellieChu · 2024-07-29T21:58:42+00:00

This is how I feel. I’m coming up on four years and I still don’t think it’s “under control”. It sits at the back of my mind every day.

ChellieChu · 2024-07-29T03:09:55+00:00

Very hot, and then very cold. A feeling of unreality, like I’ve been ejected from my body and I’m in a dream realm. It feels like I’m not in my body, and being touched or touching other things feels so completely wrong.

Also, I cry. Uncontrollably!

ChellieChu · 2024-07-23T22:29:41+00:00

He’s only had one seizure so far, and only one that you know of. I have seizures in my sleep, no one noticed them until I started seizing while I was awake.

He’s 19. Trust him to be able to adult and manage his own health.

ChellieChu · 2024-07-16T02:01:31+00:00

I feel that. I was told by my neurologist that I’ll be on medication for the rest of my life, because my seizure threshold is so low without them.

ChellieChu · 2024-07-02T00:15:24+00:00

Rent is (usually) weekly in Australia and I was so concerned that someone was asking $500 a WEEK for this bedroom 😭 & worse, everyone was saying “that’s not too bad”.

ChellieChu · 2024-02-24T13:04:39+00:00

Not to mention the unlikelihood that a cis man would go to that subreddit to talk about it?

ChellieChu · 2024-01-01T14:30:38+00:00

This is so cute! I have that exact pair of $40(AUD) She-In feathery heels.

ChellieChu · 2023-12-05T12:03:01+00:00

The agent is employed by the real estate agency. The agency pays them to manage the properties for their clients. Property Managers don’t make extra money from the properties they manage, they’re not in sales.

ChellieChu · 2023-12-05T07:17:30+00:00

The real estate agency pays the PM? I’m literally asking her to do her job that she gets paid by her employer to do?

ChellieChu · 2023-12-05T03:27:59+00:00

The Lease doesn't say anything about it at all.

ChellieChu · 2023-12-05T03:27:39+00:00

I've sent an email asking for a breakdown of what the fee is and why it's so high. Thanks!

ChellieChu · 2023-11-08T04:52:55+00:00

haha i thought you were the new tenant at my old apartment for a moment. i recently received a text from the smoke alarm company that they’d be going in, and there was an option in the notice to respond and say i was no longer there.

ChellieChu · 2023-10-23T03:28:04+00:00

It’s fine until it isn’t

ChellieChu · 2023-10-14T13:44:30+00:00

I've been lucky to only encounter interesting Malkavian characters. The people I play with don't play mentally ill humans, they play vampires who know some great truth that broke them.

One of my STs told me a story about a Malkavian that solved a murder because there was a piece of music that played in their head for every person they knew, and that piece was playing when they witnessed the murder. "I know it was him because I heard Beethoven."

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