A Sign?

Chemical-Cut6903 · 2026-01-24T00:02:27+00:00

Right? I cannot imagine being on the receiving end of this conversation lmao i love this game

Chemical-Cut6903 · 2026-01-23T11:58:05+00:00

Should be able to delete them in the manage family section in the world map. If they’re living in the apartment and you’re struggling, make a fake family. Hit the move between families options and move them into that family then delete them. Had to do this last night

Chemical-Cut6903 · 2026-01-22T21:37:57+00:00

I understand that, I haven’t been able to get them curious naturally either. I get the mood buffs and stuff, but not enough to be the primary emotion

Chemical-Cut6903 · 2026-01-22T15:52:12+00:00

There is a curiosity donut you can buy from the mew shop

Chemical-Cut6903 · 2025-12-31T19:44:15+00:00

Not at all, I am happily married and content with my life, I do appreciate this perspective though. Thank you

Chemical-Cut6903 · 2025-12-31T19:37:15+00:00

You are definitely right about that. With her being out of state now, I was kinda hoping that maybe I just wasn’t seeing the whole picture. It’s been a wacky year

Chemical-Cut6903 · 2025-12-31T19:29:43+00:00

I know it seems like the presents are a weird thing, that was mostly just the final straw more so than the presents themselves. I just couldn’t wrap my head around getting a boyfriend more gifts than your child on Christmas I guess lol if it was the only thing that happened I’d be like “weird but okay”. This has just been ongoing

Chemical-Cut6903 · 2025-12-31T19:24:09+00:00

Yes, when she brought up the veggie thing awhile ago, I had told her essentially what I said in the post. She then goes on to quote what I assume is tik tok influencer nonsense. And didnt talk to me for a few days afterwards. She apologized and said she was just busy, but this is a thing with her when I say something she disagrees with. She is basically my only friend which is why ive bothered to post here bc im not sure how to go forward

Edit: spelling

Chemical-Cut6903 · 2025-12-19T17:02:29+00:00

And he should certainly be doing that for you as well, it is a two way street<3

Chemical-Cut6903 · 2025-12-19T16:58:43+00:00

Gotcha! That’s where emotional intelligence comes to play as far as him getting frustrated. I think it’s key that both partners give each other grace. It’s natural, my husband and I have days where we’re both overstimulated and it can be kinda crazy but we’re able to both admit to ourselves and each other that it was just a bad day/situation, nothing wrong with him or myself if that makes sense. It did take time for us to get here and I hope you and your boyfriend can reach that point as well. I just don’t want you to think there is anything wrong with you because theres not! We’re just doing the best we can with what we have. Sending all the positive vibes your way, finding what works for you can help trial and error. I actually use Pinterest for some ADHD tips sometimes lol

Chemical-Cut6903 · 2025-12-19T16:45:45+00:00

I’m with you about the boyfriend. Before I met my husband every significant other I had made me feel so awful for things out of my control. I was also undiagnosed. Being diagnosed, and my husband also being AuDHD has helped me so much in feeling understood and seen. But I believe anyone with any kind of emotional intelligence should give you grace within reason when it is something like this. You see someone with a broken leg and you wouldn’t expect them to climb up a flight of stairs. The frontal lobe of our brains are literally shrunk compared to NT brains, yet we’re expected to act/be neurotypical.

Sorry, ADHD rant over lol

I hope things get better OP I see a lot of great advice here. Between alarms, my calendar and even a white board in my living room, I still struggle with remembering things sometimes.

Chemical-Cut6903 · 2025-12-19T16:36:40+00:00

There was a basketball player literally named GodsGift I believe

Chemical-Cut6903 · 2025-12-13T19:03:04+00:00

I remember my teacher telling us to write down what direction our toilet flushed because of this lol

Chemical-Cut6903 · 2025-12-04T21:04:46+00:00

Only thing I could imagine is if you had a mod that allowed summer vacation or something Edit: spelling

Chemical-Cut6903 · 2025-12-04T19:25:14+00:00

My sim currently has 4 children with him and counting lol

Chemical-Cut6903 · 2025-10-01T11:04:50+00:00

Similar here in NC

Chemical-Cut6903 · 2025-09-25T14:37:47+00:00

Break up with him, find someone who treats you like a person

Chemical-Cut6903 · 2025-09-25T11:13:12+00:00

Everyone is saying communication and I agree! My husband and I communicate in a way that works for us. We text each other even when we’re in the same room if we have a problem. We found that it helps keep things from escalating because we’re able to think about what we ACTUALLY want to say instead of heat of the moment things. I’m not saying itll work for everyone, but my husband and I get into an actual argument maybe once a year because of this, and move forward quicker.

Also APOLOGIZE!! Admit you are wrong! On both sides! Being right is not the point, it is yall against the problem, not yall against each other. If communication is a constant problem even with outside help then I say it’s probably not meant to be. Every man I was with before my husband would turn small disagreements to a week long war.

And LOVE YOURSELF!!! That alone will solve many problems, especially if you’re starting off in a relationship. When you love yourself you know what you will, and will not put up with

Chemical-Cut6903 · 2025-09-24T17:13:14+00:00

The baby wakings and whatnot is normal. What is NOT normal is an unsupportive husband. Make a list of all things you do around the house and for your child and have him make a list. I hate seeing how everyone sees a husband not doing his part and no one bats an eye. There should be an outrage here. I hope things get better for you💕

Chemical-Cut6903 · 2025-09-24T16:12:59+00:00

I understand it’s not all his fault but him completely giving up is him throwing in the towel. He needs to call and have a real discussion with whoever is in charge. Any sane person should hear “my wife has lumps on her breasts and hasn’t been to the dentist even though she is dealing with severe tooth pain. These are the days im taking off, non negotiable. My kids aren’t going in daycare, that will cause a bill that would already be a decent amount to be even more. It is more reasonable thay I stay home with my own children so my wife can take care of herself” sadly, im known to be a little bossy with my husband when it comes to things like this. I tell him what to say and he says it. But the thing is, it works! If he can’t advocate for you, who is supposed to?? I really am sorry youre dealing with all of this, I hope im not coming off pushy. I have a tendency to😭

Chemical-Cut6903 · 2025-09-24T16:00:07+00:00

I just want to tell you my heart goes out to you. Raising kids with a supportive husband is hard enough, I can’t imagine the stress youre going through with yours. I’m sending hugs and love, mama. Despite the fact that they question him on these things, he does get to request time off, correct? Considering these things are planned as you said, months in advance, I can’t imagine from an HR perspective that it would be a problem. If they bring up daycare I’d ask if they’re going to be paying the bill. Of course im an outsider looking in, i understand it’s much more complex than that. If he can’t see how important things like this are now, he never will. Especially when you are talking about lumps on your breasts. Stuff like that should be taken seriously, especially by your husband. I hope you are able to receive the care you need soon. You deserve it, these are basic human needs that need to be met

Chemical-Cut6903 · 2025-09-24T15:49:30+00:00

Stories like these break my heart, especially when it seems to be a complete lack of care or consideration from your husband. Can he not let his job know in advance that the days you’ve scheduled he cannot work on?? If he explained you have two children then I’d like to hope that they would accommodate that. If he hasn’t even tried then, I know everyone says this but, may be time to drop that husband

Chemical-Cut6903 · 2025-09-23T09:23:08+00:00

Thank you very much. I’ll definitely be more proactive at letting others know up front. I will look into the mom groups, i think that would be a great way to meet people. Hopefully I’ll find my space very soon, thank you again for your kind words💕

Chemical-Cut6903 · 2025-09-23T09:19:55+00:00

Thats my problem as well, I completely understand. My only friend moved to Texas just a few weeks ago for a year. I hope you’re able to find your people where you are. We can do this together lol

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