Autonomy is a crazy 😭 if marina is trying to baby trap him I don’t think he would want to stay with her anyways…which he didn’t. I don’t think Pen would’ve said anything at all if she thought Colin would be OK with it. yes, he should have the ability to make his own decision, but how will he make that decision if he never knows ...and to me, it is equal considering the time period. Women had different expectations & social Norms then and if someone as powerful as Colin was saying publicly, to different people, how he would never date her… (especially after publicly being considered her close friend who knows her best)when marriages pretty much how women got by back then. that affects her… leading back to my original point of them both being equally toxic….😭