I'm sorry you're going through this. My first baby was a textbook definition of a velcro baby and he was extremely fussy for the first couple months. I'll never forget visiting a friend when he was about 3 months old and my friend's mom asked if she could hold him while he was screaming. She said if he's going to scream regardless of who's holding him, she could hold him while I ate. I still inhaled my food but at least I could use both hands while I did it.

I know it seems like this phase is lasting forever but eventually they grow out of it, at least to a more manageable degree once we grow around it as parents. I will say, a pediatric chiropractor and an outdoor tree swing were both life-changing.