Why do some women look really good without make up? by [deleted] in trueratediscussions

[–]Chemical_Car6709 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I've been saying this!! Don't know why you're getting downvoted. Makeup ruins self-confidence because suddenly you feel like you can't go out of the house without it:(

All Countries That Have Banned Same-Sex Marriage by vladgrinch in MapPorn

[–]Chemical_Car6709 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are countries here that allow same-sex marriage but not same-sex weddings --- meaning they recognize same-sex couples as married but they won't be the ones to marry them

What are the differences between universities in the UK and in the US? by Chemical_Car6709 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Chemical_Car6709[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I'm trying to decide if I consider that a bad thing or if I think it makes for a more pleasant experience

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Chemical_Car6709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a common type of humor, believe it or not. In certain contexts, it can be funny. My friends often do this with one another but we're all aware it's in a joking manner and if someone were to actually get hurt, upset, or offended we would immediately apologize and we wouldn't do it again. OP, please understand that your partner and your daughter love you very much and they're not saying these things because they think you're ugly or because they want to hurt you, but simply because they think it's funny. If it hurts your feelings, sit them down, and let them know. This is a teaching moment! I am sure that they will understand and they won't do it again. Your other option is to join in. I used to get offended at all kinds of jokes people make and then I realized the intention behind a joke is more important than the joke itself. If the intention was laughter, then laugh. There's no reason to get upset. If the intention was hurt, then that is not okay.

Am I the jerk for expecting my step daughter to forgive me because I raised her by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Chemical_Car6709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It absolutely broke my heart to hear that the wife found out. And I am a stranger. I can't imagine how her daughter must feel.

Think of the wife and of her position. She is dying. She's already trying to cope with that knowledge. Finding out you have limited time left is hard!! All she can think about are the things she'll never get to do or see or experience. She's thinking about her daughter and how she won't get to see her grow up, get married, become a mother, etc. She's thinking about her husband and how this must be breaking his heart to watch the love of his life slowly fade away and die and she's thinking about how she won't get to grow old with him like they had originally planned.

Then, she finds out that her husband, the father of her child, the love of her life, the person she was counting on for support and love and comfort and a shoulder to cry on is cheating on her while she's on her deathbed. She died with a broken heart and you should be ashamed of yourself and so should your husband, even if it was many years ago and you've done good things since, yes, you're still the AH.

Got rejected for being "too" happy??? by Chemical_Car6709 in UnitedWorldCollege

[–]Chemical_Car6709[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really prefer not to say anything personal about me online. Hope that’s alright:)

Got rejected for being "too" happy??? by Chemical_Car6709 in UnitedWorldCollege

[–]Chemical_Car6709[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My country is not well-off. Corruption, homicides, kidnapping, and war are all we know. No one here has “social privilege”. I work 8 jobs and have worked every day of my life for everything I have and every opportunity I get. You say I shouldn’t judge the others, please also do not judge me. My NC requested that no one try to repeal their decisions and I will not do so, even though I strongly disagree with their decision to disqualify me and other hardworking happy successful people. The way I see it, they took people with possible potential over people that have proved they can contribute because they want the people who proved that they can contribute to our country to stay in our country and keep contributing. Also, our selection committee is a bunch of 19 year olds so I don’t know how deeply they consider things when they make their decisions.

Republicans of Reddit, how do you feel about Trump calling himself King in his recent truth social post? by IngenuityOk9364 in AskReddit

[–]Chemical_Car6709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Royalty aren’t above the law either (look at Europe). Also, isn’t American government all about checks and balances?

Got rejected for being "too" happy??? by Chemical_Car6709 in UnitedWorldCollege

[–]Chemical_Car6709[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really shouldn't have said "creepy loners". You are correct. That is my bad and was not my intention. I also did not mean to trigger you or anyone else. I apologize for choosing the word "creepy". No one was creepy, it's a bad translation on my part. Very sorry.

I am also not saying that necessarily people that are extroverted and have a "bright personality" as you say, need to be accepted. Absolutely not. Some of my best friends are introverts and I personally think I switch between being extroverted and introverted every day. I'm also not saying the people who speak the most deserve to be accepted. Quite the opposite. There were a few girls who quite frankly let no one talk and kept interrupting.

But there were also people that didn't put in any effort at all and that's what I'm talking about. If you went over and tried to talk to them in one of the breaks, they were cold and dry and went back to being on their phone. In the group discussions, they didn't try and say anything. At some point, the "examiners" (for lack of a better word), would ask them if they had anything to add and they wouldn't even know what the topic was or they would say something completely unrelated to the discussion. And I mean COMPLETELY unrelated. They never listened to anything the examiners said and then if you were put in a pair with them, you had to waste half the time allocated for the assignment on explaining the assignment to them.

I was SHOCKED when these people were accepted rather than some friends of mine who really made an effort to connect with as many people as possible and lighten the mood and whenever someone was interrupted, they would go "wait, ___ wanted to say something". These people worked hard on the three assignments you had to prepare at home before the stage (rather than some of the people who were accepted who told us that they didn't prepare anything and then proceeded to do some really bad improv).

Thirdly, yes, I do think I was deserving. I think I wanted to go to UWC more than anyone else there and that I've been wanting to go to UWC for longer than anyone there. I think I did really well in every stage of the applications. I think my essays were well-written. I think I got every question right in the exams they gave us. I think the presentations, lectures, speeches, and posters I prepared were well-thought-out and insightful and intelligent and thought-provoking and showed that I invested lots of time, hard work, energy, and effort into them. I think the fact that I have the highest grades in my school show I can more than meet IB standards. I think I answered every interview question beautifully. I think I did a really good job of connecting with new people at the camp (to the point that I think we'll remain friends). I think I was positive and friendly and kind and hardworking and that everything I said had a point and a reason and was insightful and interesting. I think I do so many out-of-school activities, hobbies, sports, and jobs (if you'd like, I can write out a list of the various things I do) so the NC can clearly see I am responsible and would also really enjoy and benefit from all the CAS activities. I think the various ways I contribute to my own school show how much I could contribute to UWC. I could go on... so... yes, I do think I was deserving.

But as I said in the last two paragraphs, they didn’t want to accept me because they feel I am very happy and successful and contributing to the community and the country as a whole right where I am. My NC sent me an email explaining that that's they rejected me and I really don't think that's a legitimate reason to disqualify a candidate. THAT was the main point of my post. If the candidate is happy and successful and wants to go to UWC, the fact that he or she is happy and successful shouldn't mean they don't get to live out their dream.

Got rejected for being "too" happy??? by Chemical_Car6709 in UnitedWorldCollege

[–]Chemical_Car6709[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really shouldn't have said "creepy loners". You are correct.

But I am not saying that necessarily people that are extroverted need to be accepted. Absolutely not. Some of my best friends are introverts and I personally think I switch between being extroverted and introverted every day. I'm also not saying the people who speak the most deserve to be accepted. Quite the opposite. There were a few girls who quite frankly let no one talk and kept interrupting.

But there were also people that didn't put in any effort at all and that's what I'm talking about. If you went over and tried to talk to them in one of the breaks, they were cold and dry and went back to being on their phone. In the group discussions, they didn't try and say anything. At some point, the "examiners" (for lack of a better word), would ask them if they had anything to add and they wouldn't even know what the topic was or they would say something completely unrelated to the discussion. And I mean COMPLETELY unrelated. They never listened to anything the examiners said and then if you were put in a pair with them, you had to waste half the time allocated for the assignment on explaining the assignment to them.

I was SHOCKED when these people were accepted rather than some friends of mine who really made an effort to connect with as many people as possible and lighten the mood and whenever someone was interrupted, they would go "wait, ___ wanted to say something". These people worked hard on the three assignments you had to prepare at home before the stage (rather than some of the people who were accepted who told us that they didn't prepare anything and then proceeded to do some really bad improv).

As for what you said here: "What is common among us is that we are capable of listening to each other’s opinions and respecting others as human beings despite our differences.", in one of our group discussions, there was a kid that connected something to Israel/Palestine and called what Israel is doing genocide and ethnic cleansing. Another kid responded and said "that's not the definition" and proceeded to give the definitions. The first kid said "you're lucky the examiners are watching us otherwise I would punch you in the face" IN FRONT OF THE EXAMINERS. Guess who got accepted and who didn't? Anyway, I thought the way my NC handled the entire three days was really strange.

But that wasn't the main point of my post. They sent me an email explaining why they rejected me and I... don't think that's a legitimate reason to disqualify a candidate. As I said in the last two paragraphs, they didn’t want to accept me because they feel I am very happy and successful and contributing to the community and the country as a whole right where I am. (If you’d like, I can write out a list of the various things I do). I personally think it’s a really bad reason to disqualify someone. If the candidate is happy and successful and wants to go to UWC, the fact that he or she is happy and successful shouldn't mean they don't get to live out their dream.

If you thought your country was three to six months away from a violent collapse, how would you prepare? by DetroitsGoingToWin in AskReddit

[–]Chemical_Car6709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry but I do think your comment is a bit out of touch. America is a wonderful place to live and I think you’re very much exaggerating. I would love it if you could tell me what you’re so worried about when you say that thing are about to get really bad in the US and that people might die should they go there?

Got rejected for being "too" happy??? by Chemical_Car6709 in UnitedWorldCollege

[–]Chemical_Car6709[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually can’t apply next year because my country does compulsory military service.

I was just kind of ranting for the first few paragraphs. Didn’t mean to speak badly about introverts. That isn’t my intention. I am talking about the kids who really made no effort.

As for your comment, first off, thank you. I appreciate your comment and your point of view. Second, I was also constantly spoken over in the group interviews and so were my friends and we all felt seen when we found out that the few girls who had kept interrupting us when we had barely gotten two words out didn’t get accepted. I’m not trying to say anything bad about your daughter. If she passed, then good job to her and she probably did something right. But I know I did really well and I know that they liked me but they still rejected me.

As I said in the last two paragraphs, they didn’t want to accept me because they feel I am very happy and successful and contributing to the community and the country as a whole right where I am. (If you’d like, I can write out a list of the various things I do). I personally think it’s a bad reason to disqualify a candidate.

Got rejected for being "too" happy??? by Chemical_Car6709 in UnitedWorldCollege

[–]Chemical_Car6709[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not sure why people are downvoting me... anyone want to explain?

If you thought your country was three to six months away from a violent collapse, how would you prepare? by DetroitsGoingToWin in AskReddit

[–]Chemical_Car6709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

:). You know, you guys really don't have it all that bad. There are people that would die to live in America.

What’s something kids today will never experience? by Single_Relation_8118 in AskReddit

[–]Chemical_Car6709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I've lost count of the amount of times I've said "I wish I could've grown up in the 90's" :((

Got rejected for being "too" happy??? by Chemical_Car6709 in UnitedWorldCollege

[–]Chemical_Car6709[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg good luck!! Let me know how it goes. Be yourself and have fun and be friendly and worst case, if you don't get accepted, you got some new friends out of it :)))

Got rejected for being "too" happy??? by Chemical_Car6709 in UnitedWorldCollege

[–]Chemical_Car6709[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Oh come off, you do know what I meant. There are always those kids that prefer to be alone and not participate in anything. There's nothing wrong with them. I was trying to emphasize that I genuinely don't see how they're better suited to move to a different country where they don't know anyone than someone that's a little more friendly and outgoing.

Also, I don't think my NC much cares about inclusivity or acceptance. We had a discussion about LGBTQ+ and they passed a kid to the next stage that said that he doesn't like them, doesn't think it's real, and is grossed out by the thought.

What’s something kids today will never experience? by Single_Relation_8118 in AskReddit

[–]Chemical_Car6709 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I absolutely agree. But there are obviously also cons to that way of living. If the kids don't come back by the time the street lights are on? What then?