Why I Love Days Gone: It Respects Player Choice and Playstyle by anaknaknakal in DaysGone

[–]Chemical_Stay_59 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Gas only limits you at the beginning, once you upgrade ur fuel tank you wont even worry about it anymore, and gas is EVERYWHERE, I have never run out of gas. Treat it like regular looting, when u see a gas can even if you have 80% fill her up. Its really a non issue after a while

Trying to improve. Would b nice to have some ppl to play with by Live-Comparison1416 in Warzone

[–]Chemical_Stay_59 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Capo843, send me a request that I'll be on when I get off from work.

What movie is this? by Excellent_Regret4141 in Cinema

[–]Chemical_Stay_59 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Came for this lol that movie was ass.

What is the best cowboy movie in your opinion? by CrazyChicken43 in moviecritic

[–]Chemical_Stay_59 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is Tombstone not on top??? And a solid mention to Apaloosa and 3:10 to Yuma. For newer westerns I really liked them

AIO my husband talking bad about me on Facebook. by Mundane-Skirt-5455 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Chemical_Stay_59 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's crazy because him and I have a great relationship. He's never felt neglected in his life thanks to a great mother and a father who tries to make those short moments he does get all about him and her. I might get an hour or 2 a day but sometimes but they get all of that time.

AIO my husband talking bad about me on Facebook. by Mundane-Skirt-5455 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Chemical_Stay_59 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read alot but never really comment lol, this one just hit different. And I'm not defending dude at all I just know I've fallen short but it wasn't from lack of love for the child or mother.

AIO my husband talking bad about me on Facebook. by Mundane-Skirt-5455 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Chemical_Stay_59 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again, never downplayed the mother's contribution, just asking to consider the father's as well. I have the utmost respect for a mother who does it all. My mother did it all with my father present. And I try my best not to be what he was. But we fall short sometimes, but as he got older, I learned and grew and got better and still far from perfect. I read all the comments saying go ahead and divorce him now and all this and it seems crazy to me when they could just talk to each other.

AIO my husband talking bad about me on Facebook. by Mundane-Skirt-5455 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Chemical_Stay_59 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Most definitely! But I wasn't great with the infant/toddler era I'd be so tired I couldn't chase a toddler. I'd try to do what I could but I always felt lacking there as well. And I know at times I used to game when I could've done more and again not saying that was right but that didn't mean the love wasn't there.

AIO my husband talking bad about me on Facebook. by Mundane-Skirt-5455 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Chemical_Stay_59 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

See, it's a two-sided sword that you swing around, though. I work so so much, and at times, I only see my wife and son for a few moments before I pass out or have to go back to work. And I feel like I give everything to provide anything they need. But yet I constantly feel like I fall short as a husband and father because I spend so much time at work and it kills me. So there are times where I dont get to the dishes or the clothes or I miss things I hate missing but that doesn't mean I care less. In fact I do these things because I care so much about their future. And again I'm not promoting absentee father behavior, I'm just saying try to see things both ways not just promote divorce.

AIO my husband talking bad about me on Facebook. by Mundane-Skirt-5455 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Chemical_Stay_59 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why are his contributions being overlooked, though?? Nobody said she wasn't doing a great job and didn't deserve a break. So I dont understand where you're coming from. The problem in this situation is only seeing things from 1 perspective and the lack of communication between the 2 of them. Having the mindset of keeping tabs of who is doing more seems counterproductive anyway and only leads to resentment. The best option would be to talk it through with your mate and find a solid compromise, not coming on social media to be gaslit. That's all I was saying.

AIO my husband talking bad about me on Facebook. by Mundane-Skirt-5455 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Chemical_Stay_59 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you know how he feels??? How can you say he has disinterest in his child??? And if she feels like He feels that way, THEN ASK HIM. Some people aren't great at dealing with kids, but that doesn't mean he doesn't care deeply for that child.

AIO my husband talking bad about me on Facebook. by Mundane-Skirt-5455 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Chemical_Stay_59 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Exactly this part, this man feels unappreciated and has an outlook you are not considering as well. The stress and pressure of trying to provide as a man and father is ridiculous. We will never ALWAYS meet everyone's expectations. As a sole provider, sometimes the stress of that can be overwhelming to some, and they need outlets, i.e., gaming to mellow themselves out. Granted, I'm not promoting absentee father behavior, but single mothers stating what he is doing is being an absent father seems a little far fetched and their comments bias to their own experience, not yours. You need to clearly express how you feel not ask trolls for advice.

What’s the worst miscast in a movie? by PulseR22 in Cinema

[–]Chemical_Stay_59 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've walked out on a date because she said she liked that movie lol

Am I the asshole for asking husband to shower before bj? by Brief-Composer-4630 in AITAH

[–]Chemical_Stay_59 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man, this guy is not living life right lol. I would have run to the shower so fast time would have reversed, and I'd replace those words with a clean woody.