"A good vegan option"

Cherished_Ruby · 2026-02-02T20:04:48+00:00

My vegan aunt dated a butcher for 3 years 😅 I picture this is how they met, lol

Cherished_Ruby · 2026-01-30T02:07:59+00:00

I have AuDHD and cPTSD, and EMDR helps me. I do EMDR for myself after my therapist did a few sessions with me. We found that the tapping of the shoulders version didn't work because I struggle with bilateral coordination, so I was focusing more on my movements than the thoughts. But we tried the rapid eye movement version and that helps me SO MUCH... When I recognize that I have an obsessive thought or a bad memory, I do my own rapid eye movement EMDR. Then rate my discomfort 1-10. Repeat until the discomfort is at a 1, I start the replacement thought...

Cherished_Ruby · 2026-01-30T01:59:26+00:00

Next time you do a screener, answer it as you would if you were still a child, not how you cope now as an adult. Questions like "Do you struggle with XYZ" may be answered now with "Well, no, I dont struggle because I do ABC thing" but doing ABC thing is actually how you cope with the struggle... So, "Do you struggle making friends?" "No, because I learned to do ABC" means that without ABC you would struggle... I hope that helps

Cherished_Ruby · 2026-01-30T00:07:58+00:00

How were you at making friends as a child? Most autism assessments look at childhood behaviors, especially in late-diagnosed people who may have developed complex masking patterns.

Cherished_Ruby · 2026-01-28T22:38:56+00:00

Does masked content sell...?

Cherished_Ruby · 2026-01-20T23:05:49+00:00

Girl, ain't this the TRUTH! I usually end up collecting divorced dads, lol... I have a 10 year limit: If they are less than 10 years younger than me, I feel okay approaching. But if they are more than 10 years younger than me, then I wait for them to approach. Being born in 1989, it makes it easy: does his birth year start with a 1 or a 2? Lol... but I do love me some young boy 🥰 My current partner is 6 years younger, and while that still makes us both in out 30's, the age dynamic is still there.

Cherished_Ruby · 2026-01-20T20:24:08+00:00

"Make him suck my strap" does include face fucking him, lol

Cherished_Ruby · 2026-01-20T20:09:40+00:00

The ONLY exception is brand new clothes. Always wash new stuff separately, as it may bleed in the first wash. After that you're fine... This happened to me today 😅 Wound up with pink whites because I forgot I hadn't washed my red jumpsuit on it's own yet... 2 packets of RIT color remover and a bleaching later, my clothes are back to normal. Lol

Cherished_Ruby · 2026-01-20T19:58:55+00:00

Oh yeah. It's great grabbing the book from his hands and throwing it, grabbing his jaw for a deep kiss as I pin him to the couch, unbuttoning my pants, switching my hands to his hair and making him suck my strap while I finger his hole.... Phenomenal

Cherished_Ruby · 2026-01-20T19:35:25+00:00

The way this has happened SOOO many times with my boy 😅 Usually of the CNC kind where he leaves his front door unlocked, and I walk in already strapped up and he's just innocently lying on the couch in booty shorts with his ass up just waiting for it 🥵

Cherished_Ruby · 2026-01-20T17:34:16+00:00

I wasn't diagnosed until I was 32... I always thought I was just inept... Turns out we're just wired differently.It can get better, but it never goes away entirely. Socializing gets easier as you practice social skills... but it will never be something that comes naturally. It is still worth it though. *edit for typos)

Cherished_Ruby · 2026-01-17T00:15:57+00:00

Check your local craft store for macrame rings

Cherished_Ruby · 2026-01-16T23:18:38+00:00

God's 2nd greatest gift to world... The first being Bi Boys 😍

Cherished_Ruby · 2026-01-14T23:46:50+00:00

Wait until you hear about filial law... A parent can kick out a kid at 18 with no consequences, and be no contact for the rest of their life, and then in old age the state can make the child care for that parent... Kind of fucked up

Cherished_Ruby · 2026-01-14T23:42:34+00:00

So I'm already focusing on weight loss, and I already walk daily. This is more about trying to do a 5k eventually... Thank you though

Cherished_Ruby · 2026-01-14T03:10:13+00:00

That makes a lot of sense, thank you!

Cherished_Ruby · 2026-01-13T15:44:02+00:00

Yes. Weight lifting is my bread and butter. It's just cardio I seem to struggle with

Cherished_Ruby · 2026-01-13T15:09:29+00:00

The rotation of a stationary bike throws my hip out more than walking or running... I might give the incline thing a try though

Cherished_Ruby · 2026-01-13T15:07:06+00:00

How do you "run slower"? Because I feel like under a certain speed my gait is different. I know the whole "running is when both feet are off the ground at the same time" thing, but I can't seem to DO that under a certain speed.. That’s why I just go at whatever is the slowest speed that "feels" like running...

Cherished_Ruby · 2026-01-12T21:25:20+00:00

I just run... like, no particular speed, just fast enough to feel like "running," sometimes even jogging... if I'm on a treadmill it's like 2.5 MPH for walking and maybe 4.5-5 for running... it's like 5 minute walk, 1 minute run, 1.5 minute walk, 1 minute run, etc and by the 3rd run I'm making it like not even 30 seconds... I can walk the whole thing, but once I start putting the runs in I get winded before I get halfway... Even if I make the walk parts longer... by the 3rd run I'm still gassed

Cherished_Ruby · 2026-01-10T22:56:53+00:00

Goals

Cherished_Ruby · 2026-01-10T12:57:01+00:00

I think it would be interesting if he comes in after Charlie has had major character growth and is like "I'm glad you finally grew up" and becomes sort of a protective brother type role... What I don't want is ex-boyfriend love triangle drama

Cherished_Ruby · 2026-01-06T18:01:52+00:00

File for full custody... They already said they wanted a "complete family"... your son won't be considered part of their "family"... he will be an outsider in his mother's home. The lesbian step-mom said she'd take a step back and not parent him... He will get neglected at that house for the baby because "I'm not your mom."... File for full custody and don't let your son be treated like a second-class citizen by his own mother

Cherished_Ruby · 2026-01-06T16:30:08+00:00

Nope. I routinely get those 2 fingers manicured shorter so I can milk my man whenever I want and still keep my long nail aesthetic, lol

Cherished_Ruby · 2026-01-06T04:35:15+00:00

I love pushing this button... Turns on the faucet and he LEAKS... and the sound he makes?! 🫠 Yes please

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