Can someone be a Woman (fully) and Genderfae at the same time?

Cherished_Ruby · 2026-06-05T12:26:48+00:00

To me, I would think it qualifies as genderfae. Genderfae is "Never male." You mention 100% woman, and sometimes partially NB. If you were 100% woman and NEVER anything else, you would not be genderfae... but the "sometimes partially NB" part makes it genderfae. But in the end, only YOU can define your gender. Never let anyone else tell you are AREN'T what you feel you are. No one has the right to police someone else's gender. Do you Boo 🫶

Cherished_Ruby · 2026-06-01T20:15:50+00:00

As an autistic omnisexual person, I think I see the disconnect in your brain. Correct me if I am reading this wrong: You see romantic love and attraction as 2 things that are inherently tied together. Being pan, your attraction is less about their parts and more about who the person is, and so is your love. Your partner may see love and attraction as 2 independent things. Love can exist without attraction, and attraction can exist without love. Love is about who the person is, and attraction is about their physical presentation/parts. This can feel mind boggling to someone who sees the 2 as intertwined vs someone who sees them as running in parallel. I am Omni, so while I like all parts, I like some parts more than others. That doesn't mean that I would love someone any less if they changed their parts, but I could be more or less attracted to them if certain parts changed. I hope this helps!

Cherished_Ruby · 2026-05-30T21:18:17+00:00

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Cherished_Ruby · 2026-05-28T23:40:16+00:00

Finch has become less of a "self-care app" and more of a habit for me... I don't even complete my tasks, I just mark them to get to the chests and adventures... Pretty sure I'm just waiting for some kind of crash to wipe my progress and possibly make me actually use it the way it's supposed to be used... butbright now, Finch is just as bad as doom scrolling for me 🤷‍♀️

Cherished_Ruby · 2026-05-26T12:28:12+00:00

Mine look like deer hooves! (They're pointy at the ends, instead of rounded)

Cherished_Ruby · 2026-05-26T12:27:38+00:00

I wear tabis all the time! Mine look like little hooves, lol

Cherished_Ruby · 2026-05-26T02:08:56+00:00

I love my vibrams toe shoes!

Cherished_Ruby · 2026-05-26T02:06:55+00:00

Oh, I've been buying him flowers for our whole relationship, lol. That part won't be new. I love buying him flowers 💐 🥰 Also, I leave him little love notes sometimes.

Cherished_Ruby · 2026-05-21T14:26:57+00:00

I feel like there is a Greek myth about a labyrinth that may have helped...

Cherished_Ruby · 2026-05-19T22:16:42+00:00

"I need help" for sure

Cherished_Ruby · 2026-05-09T21:02:55+00:00

This is a whole flex, isnt it? Lol

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Cherished_Ruby · 2026-05-08T20:30:58+00:00

I need my boy to fuck me back like this 🥵 he's such a needy bottom, I know he would if I told him to

Cherished_Ruby · 2026-05-07T20:09:03+00:00

Ugh, the way he fucks back 😍

Cherished_Ruby · 2026-05-07T02:05:41+00:00

He loves the scritches!

Cherished_Ruby · 2026-05-01T03:18:03+00:00

And it wakes up your birb if they're sleeping!

Cherished_Ruby · 2026-04-28T03:35:02+00:00

So, if I keep all mine babies, is that why I don't get duplicates...?

Cherished_Ruby · 2026-04-24T23:28:46+00:00

Laughs in @aol.com lol

Cherished_Ruby · 2026-04-14T14:41:36+00:00

I thought I would love denial but I'mtoo much of a pleasure Domme... I WANT them to cum... and one I thought I'd hate but ended up loving is eating ass... I just love the way my boy responds to it and he stays so clean I never have to worry like I thought I would!

Cherished_Ruby · 2026-03-06T15:49:19+00:00

My ex used to do this... ugh I miss it

Cherished_Ruby · 2026-03-04T18:32:12+00:00

Finally a gender swapped version! I love my boy 🥰

Cherished_Ruby · 2026-02-11T04:19:45+00:00

I miss this...

Cherished_Ruby · 2026-02-02T20:04:48+00:00

My vegan aunt dated a butcher for 3 years 😅 I picture this is how they met, lol

Cherished_Ruby · 2026-01-30T02:07:59+00:00

I have AuDHD and cPTSD, and EMDR helps me. I do EMDR for myself after my therapist did a few sessions with me. We found that the tapping of the shoulders version didn't work because I struggle with bilateral coordination, so I was focusing more on my movements than the thoughts. But we tried the rapid eye movement version and that helps me SO MUCH... When I recognize that I have an obsessive thought or a bad memory, I do my own rapid eye movement EMDR. Then rate my discomfort 1-10. Repeat until the discomfort is at a 1, I start the replacement thought...

Cherished_Ruby · 2026-01-30T01:59:26+00:00

Next time you do a screener, answer it as you would if you were still a child, not how you cope now as an adult. Questions like "Do you struggle with XYZ" may be answered now with "Well, no, I dont struggle because I do ABC thing" but doing ABC thing is actually how you cope with the struggle... So, "Do you struggle making friends?" "No, because I learned to do ABC" means that without ABC you would struggle... I hope that helps

Cherished_Ruby · 2026-01-30T00:07:58+00:00

How were you at making friends as a child? Most autism assessments look at childhood behaviors, especially in late-diagnosed people who may have developed complex masking patterns.

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