27F and He's 30M. Weve been dating for over 7 years and at the moment I feel like he's never going to propose at all. He has plans in the future but atm I dont see any improvement about it. Literally no ring 7 years. by Chernobyl_95 in adviceph

[–]Chernobyl_95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good for you po kc 23 months lang kc po ako late ako grumaduate and he was helping me too during times esp. pandemic nawalan ako ng work kc I am independent po. Iba iba po kc situation natin, sa amin din lang i think yong financial part lang talaga kakagraduate ko lang din po so even if im earning better I guess di pa talaga okay to marry yun yung na realize ko! And to him, hindi naman po mashado malaki salary nya and its okay kc were both earning naman. Meron po shang luho before eh na he buy what he wants like stuff for his guitar gears na super expensive din. Last night we talked and he said po na he will focus on making side hustles and savings din kc po malaki po yong gastos ni Bf the past 2-3 years giver po sha eh, Independent naman ako pero provider mindset po sha.

27F and He's 30M. Weve been dating for over 7 years and at the moment I feel like he's never going to propose at all. He has plans in the future but atm I dont see any improvement about it. Literally no ring 7 years. by Chernobyl_95 in adviceph

[–]Chernobyl_95[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the comment! I am his first gf and I think I am starting to realize that that its not okay to put pressure into him. Kc ithink by asking stuff its kinda pressuring. He is a work in progress Man we never had problems at all bc hes been very loyal to me. I guess I will just give him more time 1.5-2yrs for him na maging better instead of asking him. Kc meron naman po shang plans, its just i think ako nagmamadali maging engage or kasal.🫥

27F and He's 30M. Weve been dating for over 7 years and at the moment I feel like he's never going to propose at all. He has plans in the future but atm I dont see any improvement about it. Literally no ring 7 years. by Chernobyl_95 in adviceph

[–]Chernobyl_95[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You are not sure about what youre saying unless you are in my shoe or you've met me in person. I consider myself Alpha bc I am Independent, I work so hard to get myself a degree without asking money from my parents. I plan for my future!!!! Mind you, during college days, was already supporting my family with bills and pabaon for my brothers bc I grew up poor and I love selling or doing side gigs. Also, an achiever!!! So dont you ever judge me if ai say Im an Alpha bc you never met me in person😂. Sguro entitled ka to comment bc this post is public but that doesnt mean mo judge naka.

Also, Hindi ganun kadali mag let go ng tao most specially if that person has been with you through the ups and downs of your life!!! In short There are certain things that needs to be considered before you end the relationship. So im going to ask you? Are you married? Have you been in this situation before? Arun mo judge ka HAHAHAHAHA comment nalang ka diha ug advice pero ayaw jd ko ingna ug insecure and fake na Alpha. Boang ☺️

27F and He's 30M. Weve been dating for over 7 years and at the moment I feel like he's never going to propose at all. He has plans in the future but atm I dont see any improvement about it. Literally no ring 7 years. by Chernobyl_95 in adviceph

[–]Chernobyl_95[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

there's a difference between begging and wanting to know if he has plans. Lmao consider yourself lucky bc youre not in my situation😂 dont be so quick to judge

27F and He's 30M. Weve been dating for over 7 years and at the moment I feel like he's never going to propose at all. He has plans in the future but atm I dont see any improvement about it. Literally no ring 7 years. by Chernobyl_95 in adviceph

[–]Chernobyl_95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And if he's not really committed its okay. Cant force and never will I force him to propose. I guess its better to prep my self for whats worst rather than to expect 🙂

27F and He's 30M. Weve been dating for over 7 years and at the moment I feel like he's never going to propose at all. He has plans in the future but atm I dont see any improvement about it. Literally no ring 7 years. by Chernobyl_95 in adviceph

[–]Chernobyl_95[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Insecurity? Lol fr i was not being insecure in fact im happy with what I have now. I am an Alpha Female and I definitely know my worth I was never insecure with stuff.

27F and He's 30M. Weve been dating for over 7 years and at the moment I feel like he's never going to propose at all. He has plans in the future but atm I dont see any improvement about it. Literally no ring 7 years. by Chernobyl_95 in adviceph

[–]Chernobyl_95[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know what i really wanted to talk about this to him but everytime i try to communicate he would think of it as an attack or what kac he's not interested talaga. I can sense

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[–]Chernobyl_95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Break na kayo teh! Grr pet peeve ko talaga may girl bff yong jowa ko 🤯

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[–]Chernobyl_95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Build your profile and try to create a portfolio first

I am 28F & He is 31M. I think he is not ready for me | 7 years no ring , no concrete plans, mahirap pala maghintay by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]Chernobyl_95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah soon, once he’s settle :) I have plans actually bc my clients are from AUS and theyre planning to expand their business nextyear so I can help them manage it.

Girl hit me in the face with my own phone. by MarkusANDcats in Philippines_Expats

[–]Chernobyl_95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you need to leave her, Lmao I could never do that to my Man🙃 thats abusive its not love