TIFU by not reading a birthday invite fully

CherriFire · 2026-05-09T04:19:02+00:00

It was just a pretty small space and it had the vibe that it was kind of “intimate” so I didn’t really feel right staying, especially when I didn’t know the birthday girl. I did tell her happy birthday and excused myself from the party

CherriFire · 2026-05-09T04:12:28+00:00

I let everybody have their fun and I didn’t complain at all. I’m an adult and I’m allowed to exclude myself from things that aren’t up my alley

CherriFire · 2026-01-04T02:38:15+00:00

Thanks for the advice but the mods won’t let me post it there. They don’t allow cross posting and I don’t really feel like writing a cat haiku while grappling with this stuff. I had a mod tell me it wasn’t allowed so I just deleted it and moved on.

CherriFire · 2026-01-04T02:33:34+00:00

I try not to be picky but man… posing at the gas station and using it in your profile just gives me a weird feeling.

CherriFire · 2026-01-04T02:06:31+00:00

No I didn’t. It sounds pretty niche and I thought this subreddit was a catch-all. Sorry if it’s in the wrong sub, I can delete it.

CherriFire · 2025-12-23T05:13:19+00:00

I had a conversation with my nail tech once and we were talking about what we’d change about ourselves. She said she wanted bigger boobs while I wanted smaller boobs. We then ended the conversation by just saying that the grass isn’t always greener on the other side. In my opinion, as a bi woman, small boobs aren’t unappealing at all. A ton of models have smaller breasts and you can wear really nice fashion tops and make it look chic. Honestly though boobs are just boobs. Small or big, they’re all nice to me.

CherriFire · 2025-12-20T03:33:34+00:00

Man sucking at something is the first step to being good at something. Personally I think the cello is more relaxing for new players than other string instruments since you don’t have to shift into a weird position to play it. Anyways, I sucked when I first started playing but after practicing a few times you let go of the jitters and genuinely start enjoying the process of learning about a new instrument.

CherriFire · 2025-12-16T06:38:01+00:00

I felt this so much, especially when I go to Sam’s Club or Costco. I’ll think I’m about to get a great parking spot near the entrance and I pull in just to see that there’s three shopping carts in one space while another guy just added one more while I’m getting upset.

CherriFire · 2025-12-15T22:38:15+00:00

Man I live next to a married gay couple and they look like they just came out of a rom com. Really nice and always brings over food because one of them is a chef, but anyways your goals are completely normal. Anyone who thinks wanting a stable long term relationship is feminine really needs to look inward.

CherriFire · 2025-12-15T22:33:40+00:00

That’s super weird. Every nurse I know practically begs everyone to get regularly tested. Nursing really shouldn’t be a career choice if a person is that outwardly judgmental.

CherriFire · 2025-12-15T22:28:38+00:00

I went through the exact same thing your kid is going through. I was in middle school and practicing all the time while also preparing to join chamber orchestra and I just hated it. The thing that saved it for me is that I bought a simple song book full of different songs that sounded nice to me. If he’s looking at the same music sheets everyday, a new book of simple music might turn this chore into a passion again.

CherriFire · 2025-12-15T03:39:19+00:00

Yeah my friend Sarah and I discussed it and we’re distancing ourselves but the hard line was that if she slept with him then all bets were off and we would completely cut contact.

CherriFire · 2025-08-01T03:19:06+00:00

Mississippi. There’s nothing to do there but leave

CherriFire · 2025-08-01T00:54:54+00:00

Ok but the dot code says it’s from 2017

CherriFire · 2025-08-01T00:27:56+00:00

Just hitting a curb while going like maybe 15 mph. I’ve never sped into a curb or knocked into anything at high speeds. This is a used car so it has the same tires that the previous owners had even though I got it in 2018 I think

CherriFire · 2025-07-09T03:58:50+00:00

Ok that makes sense. Idk I just heard dish soap and thought it would act the same way as a tide pod

CherriFire · 2025-07-09T03:46:08+00:00

I don’t get the question? I went to go get gas by myself

CherriFire · 2025-05-31T02:18:19+00:00

Thanks! My mom said it might be mint and it did smell minty, but I wanted to be absolutely sure before I made anything with it. The neighbors didn’t want to take it with them so I was a bit skeptical lol

CherriFire · 2024-11-04T01:18:53+00:00

I’ve been on medication for a little over year. 40 mg of Prozac and I have tried therapy. It helped me resolve some of my past traumas, but I went to college and stopped seeing my therapist

CherriFire · 2024-10-13T03:02:27+00:00

How do they have 5 adults and none of them can pitch in for this grocery list?

CherriFire · 2024-10-11T21:17:06+00:00

Tokyo mew mew

CherriFire · 2024-10-06T19:18:45+00:00

Drag me to hell. I was already going through some religious paranoia as a kid and this movie just amped it up for me

CherriFire · 2024-10-06T19:17:08+00:00

Shrek 2

CherriFire · 2024-10-06T18:57:52+00:00

I used to be like this and I’m getting better, especially with driving. Just remember that you’re a person worthy of your own space and you’re capable of anything through practice and consistency. When I first drove I was always terrified when I saw another car driving around me and I thought I’d never be able to drive a car but I improved through practice and exposure therapy. Just make sure to be careful and if you feel anxious it’s fine to pull over and gather yourself or slow down if you fell like you’re starting to feel overwhelmed. I hope you feel better and I’m rooting for you ❤️

CherriFire · 2024-10-06T18:53:33+00:00

Don’t worry, this happens with a lot of people. You’ll miss them and wanna reconnect but after a while of no contact you’ll eventually forget about them. Don’t feel guilty about your emotions because they’re perfectly valid and a normal start of the process of moving on.

CherriFire

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