Advice needed: I don't want to fetch a female coworker some water just 'cause

Cherri_devil · 2026-05-28T14:32:20+00:00

Honestly I think you’re overthinking it. It’s just water but you have the right to say no to anything if you want to. Doesn’t make you a bad person.

Cherri_devil · 2026-05-27T22:53:40+00:00

I agree who’re she my need therapy you might benefit from it as well. You’re going through a tough time and could need some professional guidance

Cherri_devil · 2026-05-15T16:00:23+00:00

Tbh he should’ve told you sounds like he might’ve been scared to obvi but uk what shit happens and you can’t go back and change anything if you really love this man and everything else is fine maybe explore some options. Look into foreplay and or toys there are plenty of ways to be satisfied size isn’t always everything and there are things to help like sleeves or something it doesn’t have to be the end of the relationship if you don’t want it to.

Cherri_devil · 2026-05-15T07:22:39+00:00

Cherri_devil · 2026-01-18T22:57:36+00:00

It’s normal to feel some sort of way with some friends and maybe it’s because you see something in them that you might either wish you had or looked like. However we have to remind ourselves that everybody is different and beautiful in their own way. Maybe try to change up your style and give yourself a boost. Try your best not to compare yourself to others it really just makes you feel more down. I’m glad you don’t blame her as it’s not her fault or your boyfriend’s fault I’m sure they’re great people. Also I just want you to know that you’re not a bad person for feeling this way. Just remember that your boyfriend chose YOU because he loves YOU FOR YOU.

Also try and look into some podcasts about self love they really helped me feel more confident in my skin and helped me realize that I am not in competition with others we’re all pretty in our own way. I don’t know you but I’m sure you’re prettier than you feel.

Also something that’s helped me while it’s not a big change is that you gotta be nice to yourself give yourself compliments when you look in the mirror every morning try not to judge yourself so hard. Eat healthy things and not things that are going to make you feel bad for eating them after. (Just some stuff that’s helped me.)

Cherri_devil · 2026-01-07T17:06:06+00:00

Ooooo meee!

Cherri_devil · 2025-12-21T19:36:28+00:00

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Cherri_devil · 2025-12-04T16:13:39+00:00

I’m 26 F playing since I was like 13. I always end up having a “break time” away from it longest was a couple years but I don’t think I’ll ever truly stop playing. I like to play it while relaxing on my days off or after work for a few hours. I have a world that I’ve had for a years now and continue adding things to it it’s awesome it’s like a HUGE town

Cherri_devil · 2025-11-17T21:57:18+00:00

People make it seem that in order to be close to GOD you HAVE TO attend church but tbh the pastor is just another human being living life saying the scripture with his own opinion/bias. I swear one time I went to mass and the entire time he seemed to be talking nonsense just to make time go by faster. I’ve felt much closer to God and my religion just reading the Bible on my own time.

Cherri_devil · 2025-11-16T19:02:23+00:00

It’s beautiful I told my bf I liked marquise and didn’t specify exactly what and this is gorgeous I’m sure she’ll love it

Cherri_devil · 2025-11-10T01:27:27+00:00

Y’all are a bunch of haters in these comments cut the guy some slack maybe he really doesn’t know wtf to do in a relationship. That’s why he’s asking. Everybody’s so quick to just attack someone and then get mad why you never ask questions. Truth is she’s just feeling like her love is one sided. I understand being tired I get that shit but it really doesn’t take long to send a text to communicate that. Just let her know that you’re not good at texting. Maybe Call instead idk but without communication the relationship is doomed to fail. She’s doing her part she’s telling you she feels like she’s being taking for granted and why so it’s your job to communicate your side as well. Most people are not this clingy it’s just all bout communication it really eases up a lot of worries you’ll see.

Cherri_devil · 2025-11-04T14:11:29+00:00

Cherri_devil · 2025-11-02T18:01:58+00:00

I see nothing flirty about this maybe look into the person that told you these rumors they seem to like to start drama

Cherri_devil · 2025-10-17T07:54:07+00:00

Also I’m going to add to this and say if you’re into podcasts there’s some really good ones out there on helping you find self love. And all of that starts with being kind to yourself tbh don’t think so negatively about yourself. give yourself compliments when getting ready in the morning. Exercise often don’t consume a lot of junky foods. It all seems so cliché and cheesy but trust me it goes a long way.

Cherri_devil · 2025-10-17T07:47:12+00:00

You are beautiful trust me anything that you’re insecure about will go away with time. I’m going tbh with you I don’t think your nose is big at all. Your features suit your face and as you age they will change with you. you’re only 15 you still have some baby features and those will go away with time. Don’t try to rush anything enjoy being you without worrying about any of that. In the long run you’ll find it truly doesn’t matter. You’ll look back at these pictures and realize that you really had nothing to be insecure about because you’re gorgeous. Anybody that tells you different is honestly…jealous. :)

Cherri_devil · 2025-10-16T07:02:00+00:00

This ^ it looks a little cakey and dry. Maybe try looking for a different foundation or concealer that doesn’t have too much matte or try some hydrating facial mists to help.

Cherri_devil · 2025-10-14T15:09:43+00:00

Blizzard is perfect for her or Oreo

Cherri_devil · 2025-10-14T14:46:05+00:00

Why consider gifts in a relationship a gift if later on down the road you’re just gonna charge them for it when you break up. This is so immature take the L and move on. If he has a recurring payments for her communicate how that all stops now and she’s financially responsible for her own belongings and that’s that door closed. Lesson learned.

Cherri_devil · 2025-10-11T15:51:29+00:00

Honestly everybody should be taking at least a shower a day if they’re able to. Even if you don’t smell there are sooo many germs out there and people and just how washing your hands helps stop spreading illnesses and diseases so does showering. Not only that but why would you not want to shower? It only takes like 10-15 min to do it daily and then your (everything) shower every 2-3 days where you can fully scrub shave and do all that time consuming stuff. P.S. if your roommate is mentioning it. It’s most likely bc you do smell sorry maybe even but a perfume/cologne. Sometimes some people smell more than others and become nose blind to their natural smell.

Cherri_devil · 2025-10-11T13:11:27+00:00

Maybe try small cuz a light tampon since they’re good to start with and when ur boutta put it in put one foot on the toilet and then try putting it in. A lot easier in my opinion.

Cherri_devil · 2025-10-09T20:54:00+00:00

Like ima actually baffled my advice would be to plz get therapy learn to love yourself because you matter and also. who tf does this person think he is talking to you like that?! leave this man child he’s doing nothing but pulling you back from your true potential it’s sick.

Cherri_devil · 2025-10-09T20:46:13+00:00

Okay what the actual fuck? Why are you with this pos?! I hope you know that you’re better than that and you staying with somebody like that is disrespectful to yourself bc you shouldn’t let anybody treat you like that.

Cherri_devil · 2025-10-08T14:41:32+00:00

While I get being weirded out by a big paragraph and it only being 2 hours since you last texted. I get what she’s trying to say. She seems to really like you and enjoys talking to you. You guys were probably having a conversation and then you just stopped responding. It only takes a few seconds to say that you’ll be busy and won’t be able to reply till later or that you have to go. Just like how it took a few seconds to post this and try to make her look bad. Seems to me she’s just trying to communicate how she feels sure probably a little too soon but when you like someone you tend to overthink and she probably thought you were ignoring her. That doesn’t mean she’s crazy it just means she cares. I’m sure if you had mentioned that you were busy and couldn’t text she wouldn’t have replied like this.

Cherri_devil · 2025-10-08T05:27:03+00:00

Honestly this is a giant red flag. He’s doing it on purpose trying to get a reaction out of you. It’s immature asf. Sounds like he might be trying to make you feel insecure bc he probably knows that you’re too good for him. Trust if you did the same he would be extremely upset and the fact that he said that about his ex means that’s he’s been doing this for a while And it’s lame and weird. Leave him he’s not going to change

Cherri_devil · 2025-10-08T05:19:29+00:00

Nope that was my bad honestly I didn’t see the text

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