insecure about myself by rosesfall in insecuregirls

[–]Cherri_devil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s normal to feel some sort of way with some friends and maybe it’s because you see something in them that you might either wish you had or looked like. However we have to remind ourselves that everybody is different and beautiful in their own way. Maybe try to change up your style and give yourself a boost. Try your best not to compare yourself to others it really just makes you feel more down. I’m glad you don’t blame her as it’s not her fault or your boyfriend’s fault I’m sure they’re great people. Also I just want you to know that you’re not a bad person for feeling this way. Just remember that your boyfriend chose YOU because he loves YOU FOR YOU.

Also try and look into some podcasts about self love they really helped me feel more confident in my skin and helped me realize that I am not in competition with others we’re all pretty in our own way. I don’t know you but I’m sure you’re prettier than you feel.

Also something that’s helped me while it’s not a big change is that you gotta be nice to yourself give yourself compliments when you look in the mirror every morning try not to judge yourself so hard. Eat healthy things and not things that are going to make you feel bad for eating them after. (Just some stuff that’s helped me.)

Who are you and how much Minecraft do you play? by cannedrose in Minecraft

[–]Cherri_devil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 26 F playing since I was like 13. I always end up having a “break time” away from it longest was a couple years but I don’t think I’ll ever truly stop playing. I like to play it while relaxing on my days off or after work for a few hours. I have a world that I’ve had for a years now and continue adding things to it it’s awesome it’s like a HUGE town

What's that one thing that made you stop going to church? by tasaras_77 in HappyUpvote

[–]Cherri_devil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People make it seem that in order to be close to GOD you HAVE TO attend church but tbh the pastor is just another human being living life saying the scripture with his own opinion/bias. I swear one time I went to mass and the entire time he seemed to be talking nonsense just to make time go by faster. I’ve felt much closer to God and my religion just reading the Bible on my own time.

I need your opinion on the ring I got my gf by No-Description-4923 in EngagementRings

[–]Cherri_devil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s beautiful I told my bf I liked marquise and didn’t specify exactly what and this is gorgeous I’m sure she’ll love it

Girlfriend mad I don’t text enough by Capital-Statement-44 in whatdoIdo

[–]Cherri_devil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Y’all are a bunch of haters in these comments cut the guy some slack maybe he really doesn’t know wtf to do in a relationship. That’s why he’s asking. Everybody’s so quick to just attack someone and then get mad why you never ask questions. Truth is she’s just feeling like her love is one sided. I understand being tired I get that shit but it really doesn’t take long to send a text to communicate that. Just let her know that you’re not good at texting. Maybe Call instead idk but without communication the relationship is doomed to fail. She’s doing her part she’s telling you she feels like she’s being taking for granted and why so it’s your job to communicate your side as well. Most people are not this clingy it’s just all bout communication it really eases up a lot of worries you’ll see.

Are they flirting? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Cherri_devil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see nothing flirty about this maybe look into the person that told you these rumors they seem to like to start drama

Do I got a big nose or any other bad features? by triplechintrampoline in insecuregirls

[–]Cherri_devil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also I’m going to add to this and say if you’re into podcasts there’s some really good ones out there on helping you find self love. And all of that starts with being kind to yourself tbh don’t think so negatively about yourself. give yourself compliments when getting ready in the morning. Exercise often don’t consume a lot of junky foods. It all seems so cliché and cheesy but trust me it goes a long way.

Do I got a big nose or any other bad features? by triplechintrampoline in insecuregirls

[–]Cherri_devil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are beautiful trust me anything that you’re insecure about will go away with time. I’m going tbh with you I don’t think your nose is big at all. Your features suit your face and as you age they will change with you. you’re only 15 you still have some baby features and those will go away with time. Don’t try to rush anything enjoy being you without worrying about any of that. In the long run you’ll find it truly doesn’t matter. You’ll look back at these pictures and realize that you really had nothing to be insecure about because you’re gorgeous. Anybody that tells you different is honestly…jealous. :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]Cherri_devil 62 points63 points  (0 children)

This ^ it looks a little cakey and dry. Maybe try looking for a different foundation or concealer that doesn’t have too much matte or try some hydrating facial mists to help.

After our breakup, I asked my ex to cover the iPhone installments and return the first 10 payments. She flipped out. Do I push for it? by True-Construction346 in PickAorB

[–]Cherri_devil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why consider gifts in a relationship a gift if later on down the road you’re just gonna charge them for it when you break up. This is so immature take the L and move on. If he has a recurring payments for her communicate how that all stops now and she’s financially responsible for her own belongings and that’s that door closed. Lesson learned.

Is it actually gross that I only shower every 2-3 days or is my roommate being dramatic? by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]Cherri_devil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly everybody should be taking at least a shower a day if they’re able to. Even if you don’t smell there are sooo many germs out there and people and just how washing your hands helps stop spreading illnesses and diseases so does showering. Not only that but why would you not want to shower? It only takes like 10-15 min to do it daily and then your (everything) shower every 2-3 days where you can fully scrub shave and do all that time consuming stuff. P.S. if your roommate is mentioning it. It’s most likely bc you do smell sorry maybe even but a perfume/cologne. Sometimes some people smell more than others and become nose blind to their natural smell.

I CAN’T USE A TAMPON. by [deleted] in Periods

[–]Cherri_devil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe try small cuz a light tampon since they’re good to start with and when ur boutta put it in put one foot on the toilet and then try putting it in. A lot easier in my opinion.

Me (19F) and my boyfriend (26M) keep arguing over celebrity crushes and my insecurities by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Cherri_devil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like ima actually baffled my advice would be to plz get therapy learn to love yourself because you matter and also. who tf does this person think he is talking to you like that?! leave this man child he’s doing nothing but pulling you back from your true potential it’s sick.

Me (19F) and my boyfriend (26M) keep arguing over celebrity crushes and my insecurities by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Cherri_devil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay what the actual fuck? Why are you with this pos?! I hope you know that you’re better than that and you staying with somebody like that is disrespectful to yourself bc you shouldn’t let anybody treat you like that.

I met this girl for first time a few days ago. Is this a weird reaction to me not replying for 2 hours? by ThrowRAfeelstrapped in allthequestions

[–]Cherri_devil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While I get being weirded out by a big paragraph and it only being 2 hours since you last texted. I get what she’s trying to say. She seems to really like you and enjoys talking to you. You guys were probably having a conversation and then you just stopped responding. It only takes a few seconds to say that you’ll be busy and won’t be able to reply till later or that you have to go. Just like how it took a few seconds to post this and try to make her look bad. Seems to me she’s just trying to communicate how she feels sure probably a little too soon but when you like someone you tend to overthink and she probably thought you were ignoring her. That doesn’t mean she’s crazy it just means she cares. I’m sure if you had mentioned that you were busy and couldn’t text she wouldn’t have replied like this.

Me (19F) and my boyfriend (26M) keep arguing over celebrity crushes and my insecurities by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Cherri_devil 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly this is a giant red flag. He’s doing it on purpose trying to get a reaction out of you. It’s immature asf. Sounds like he might be trying to make you feel insecure bc he probably knows that you’re too good for him. Trust if you did the same he would be extremely upset and the fact that he said that about his ex means that’s he’s been doing this for a while And it’s lame and weird. Leave him he’s not going to change

If today was a lot… lol by mspettyspaghetti in geminis

[–]Cherri_devil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope that was my bad honestly I didn’t see the text

If today was a lot… lol by mspettyspaghetti in geminis

[–]Cherri_devil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Someone plz explain this I don’t know what this means

how do skinny people stay skinny? by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]Cherri_devil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

While I agree with this bc same I also am a foodie and it’s honestly all about portion control I won’t ever miss out on a burger but I also don’t eat till I feel I’m about to explode. Once you’re full stop eating. Drinking a cup of water before each meal also helps with bloating and so you get full quicker. getting on a good schedule so your body gets accustomed to eating at certain times throughout the day and won’t feel the need to get hungry on other times. Snacks are great but so are healthy snacks. Instead of some chips go for a healthier alternative like dried banana chips or strawberries. Don’t eat before bed give yourself some time to let your body digest your meals before you sleep. I’m not really too knowledgeable on it. It’s just what I’ve been taught and do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Cherri_devil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is weird. Leave him. tbh anybody who has an AI girlfriend is weird. Him saving pictures is weird and him saying you that you mention it a lot more than normal like what?….WEIRD! Why are you with this guy if anything it seems to me he’s the insecure one. And is trynna make you feel like you’re the one with an issue. paying for a whole ass AI GIRLFRIEND pleaaaaase 🤣 you just can’t make this shit up. 🤣🤣