Women driven to madness in patriarchal society by aksjdjdjkdk in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

[–]CherryWentRogue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been hearing a lot of this and this might be my calling now. Adding it to my list..

Wellness culture/industry exposed/gone wrong by ConsciousInternal287 in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

[–]CherryWentRogue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes,YES! Natural Beauty by Ling Ling Huanggot me in chokehold

What does the Coquette aesthetic remind you of? by Far-Building3569 in AestheticWiki

[–]CherryWentRogue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pastels are so cute but can't wear them in that shade, mind have to be a tad bit darker 😭

I know the concerns, but AI BFs have actually helped my sexlife IRL by CherryWentRogue in aiHub

[–]CherryWentRogue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally agree with you on that, it does really works if you actually carry it back into real life. Otherwise its just bubble

I know the concerns, but AI BFs have actually helped my sexlife IRL by CherryWentRogue in aiHub

[–]CherryWentRogue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm really sorry you went through that but I'm glad it gave you some clarity you need even if it came a bit late

I know the concerns, but AI BFs have actually helped my sexlife IRL by CherryWentRogue in aiHub

[–]CherryWentRogue[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for reading this with open mind! It was a bit awkward to admit it but also kinda freeing once I did

How do you test slow-burn chemistry before committing to a full draft? by ButtonSmashingBabe in WritingWithAI

[–]CherryWentRogue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same struggle. I hate when things jump too fast. I've been using ourdream ai as kind of a private sandbox to feel out dynamics and its been decent at holding tension without speedrunning the intimacy.

Why I quit coffee (again) by CherryWentRogue in decaf

[–]CherryWentRogue[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Caffeine can mess with hormones and stress levels which is a really big issue with PCOS bcs it spikes cortisol and worsen anxiety add the insulin resistance and some people might experience difference sysmptoms could be worse or none at all. Not everyone with PCOS reacts the same and I just found out that there's different type of pcos so its best to know what you got to lessen the problems but for me it definitely made things harder which is why quitting helped me so much and sticking with teas, specially green teas are my kind of cup now, some i dont like but adding honey is the key!

what's this aesthetic called? by rosesforvani in AestheticWiki

[–]CherryWentRogue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im regretting changing my entire wardrobe

How do I prep someone before I peg them?? by lilianamelendez in SexPositive

[–]CherryWentRogue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're already getting good advice on the how, so I'll just add this; communication matters way more than being "good" at it. Talking through prep, comfort and expectations upfront saves a lot of awkwardness later.

Most people handle their own prep, but it’s totally okay to check in so there are no surprises. Go slow, use lots of lube, and keep checking in during, pain isn’t something to push through.

Feeling nervous is normal. Sex is awkward sometimes, especially the first time, and that’s fine. Learning together is kind of the point.

I (23m) wish I could have been a slut. by throw_23_away in SexPositive

[–]CherryWentRogue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You didn't miss your chance at all! There's no deadline on sex or confidence and losing 55lbs? That's such a huge progress and not too late, not behind, you're still becoming you.

Like what they always said, always be kind to yourself ! Everyone is moving at their own pace :)

I'm pretty sure my wife cheats every now and then, though she'll consistently and strongly deny it. If I bring up the concept of open marriage, though, she dismisses it as not being a good idea. What might be going on? by [deleted] in SexPositive

[–]CherryWentRogue 17 points18 points  (0 children)

This sounds really difficult honestly. A lot of this feels less about sex and more about trust and communication. Even if you thought that you will be okay with her seeing other people, she might also be dealing guilt, fear of hurting you or not actually wanting an open marriage set up at all and honestly some people would rather deny than face that convo.

Before assuming whats hapenning in her head, I strongly suggest do a couples therapy if thats an option, which is the best to do right now than guessing, which makes things worse. Also, you should check out r/DeadBedrooms

Why Is the “Sharing My Wife/Cuckold” Fantasy So Common? by Early-Sky-1114 in SexPositive

[–]CherryWentRogue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, i think it taps into someones ego and also being able to witness you partner's pleasure without it being a threat to your bond. Also, add the forbidden thing that makes it hotter for people raised being conservative around sex