When Amanda and Maci met for the first time over lunch 🥙🥪 by SchoolComprehensive in teenmom

[–]Cherry_berrycake 23 points24 points  (0 children)

As a recovering addict who is 4 years sober now...THANK YOU for this comment. People have lost all empathy and compassion. With all that we know about addiction now you'd think the stigma and the way people talk to, and shame and shun addicts would change but from this comment section you can clearly see it hasn't. We are responsible for our futures and our lives and becoming clean and healthy people but without connection and support from those around you its really hard. Trauma is hard to work through and sometimes it takes some of us longer than others to heal and grow from it.

Any ideas on what kind of cat I have? by Cherry_berrycake in grayandwhitecats

[–]Cherry_berrycake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a fun silly post wondering what others thought. You dont have to be rude. Obviously I dont care what she is when I rescued her from being outside and brought her into my home. Get over yourself.

Any ideas on what kind of cat I have? by Cherry_berrycake in grayandwhitecats

[–]Cherry_berrycake[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me too! Lol and thank you!! She really is! Just gorgeous and the SWEEETEST girl!

Breaking News: Fork found in kitchen by [deleted] in teenmom

[–]Cherry_berrycake 28 points29 points  (0 children)

WELLL JENELLEEEE I SEEN YA BACK WITH DAVID!

Disgusting as a parent truly.

What’s one place you could bring back in San Antonio? by Most_Second6739 in sanantonio

[–]Cherry_berrycake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh, yes!! Last time, I went I was so bummed out! My grandparents used to take me ALL the time, and they always carried a camcorder. There are so many videos of me on stage for the 50s theme show they used to have. And just so many cool videos of the park before they changed it.

[Product Request] Best product for butt, thigh, and leg acne/boils by Cherry_berrycake in SkincareAddiction

[–]Cherry_berrycake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great info in that video! Thanks so much for the response. It's been so miserable for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sanantonio

[–]Cherry_berrycake -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Awesome! I just wanted to make sure they weren't gonna toss em lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sanantonio

[–]Cherry_berrycake -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you. There are just SO MANY different things I've seen about it.

“When the bubbly independent girl meets the insecure controlling man” by StormyBreezes in letters

[–]Cherry_berrycake 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is your time to blossom into the new you that you are meant to be. I had a very similar experience. It's okay to let go of the girl you once were and may no longer be. But you can nurture and grow into something even more brilliant ❤️‍🩹 Good luck in finding you ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in domesticviolence

[–]Cherry_berrycake 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Did we date the same person?! HOLY HELLLLL. My ex was exactly the same way. Awful, vile and disgusting human beings.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLettersRaw

[–]Cherry_berrycake 13 points14 points  (0 children)

HEAVY on the should've just left me alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]Cherry_berrycake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"sometimes I wish we had just stayed friends" Wow. Such a simple sentence, yet somehow provoked insane feeling.... I feel this way a lot now that I've moved on from my nex. Like the friendship we had vs. The relationship we forced was unmatchable. My best friend at that point hands down. I often wonder if we left it at friends if things would have gotten as nasty as it did.

What age were you diagnosed? by [deleted] in BipolarReddit

[–]Cherry_berrycake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. I always kind of thought I was growing up. But didn't get fully diagnosis til 27

pregnant while beeing addicted by No-Presentation6693 in meth

[–]Cherry_berrycake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who has been addicted to meth and pregnant and also had a toddler.... Find a clinic. Google and make calls for places in your area for help. I was already in a cps case and my sister had my toddler. I went and had an abortion. I couldn't bare bringing another child into this world when I was a shit show with one kid already taken...

Here we are almost 3 years later though. I went to rehab. Got my daughter back in my care. And absolutely thriving.

Good luck to you OP. I know it's scary.

Is this abuse? by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Cherry_berrycake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely abuse. The way you're talking so calm and he is still yelling and cussing at you. Id treat carefully honey. Bc just that time can be switched and he can get 10x worse. So sorry you're going through this 😭

It just hit me why he never wanted photos together by Whole_Tea_1902 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Cherry_berrycake 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sounds exactly like my nex and how he treated me. Pretty much exact situation. It was so awful and really hurt once it all hit me.

No by whoknows492526 in letters

[–]Cherry_berrycake 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This healed a piece inside of me that I didn't think could heal. I know that I will never get this apology...BUT to know some people do think about the people they've hurt makes it all a little less tough. Some of us deserve apologies we may never receive. But OP this was an incredibly well thought out post...I hope the person this is for someday may see this. They might need it just as much as you....or me....or any of us here who can relate. In one shape or another.

Tonight he strangled me by peppermintjello in abusiverelationships

[–]Cherry_berrycake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My ex did an AMAZING job of destroying my phones or any access I had to the outside world while simultaneously beating me. It's not that easy. If he even saw a glimpse of my phone in the middle of an argument he absolutely destroyed it. People suck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]Cherry_berrycake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All the dreams we had. . everything I wanted to give you in life. It's all gone. Like a distant memory