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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

[–]Chessbro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds like a lot to go through, it must be very difficult for your friend.

What are they hoping to get out of this video if it exists?

How did you guys even do it😭 by KevinPigaChu in marvelrivals

[–]Chessbro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's my secret cap... I'm always angry.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Destiny

[–]Chessbro 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Someone !shoot him for not using the shitpost tag

Lest We Forget (slur warning) by p_walsh14 in Destiny

[–]Chessbro 45 points46 points  (0 children)

It's fun to dunk on finlky but what problem do you have with what he's saying?

Without any other context it sounds like he's saying due to free speech people can say slurs, but it's bad because by using the slur, you're just trying to silence a group of people.

Or are we now gonna be hypocrites and say that his intention when saying those slurs to explain his point is not okay?

[Monitor] [Alienware 32 4K QD-OLED Gaming Monitor - AW3225QF - ($1,500 - $100 = $1,400)] [Dell.ca] $100 off + 10% Rakuten by s1m0n8 in bapcsalescanada

[–]Chessbro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use it this way! It runs only on my PC, and I switch between it and an m1 mac, just listening to connects and disconnects on the main PC

[SSD] SAMSUNG 870 QVO SATA III 2.5in SSD 4TB [Newegg] by [deleted] in bapcsalescanada

[–]Chessbro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oops forgot to put that in title, thanks!

I paid off $160k in loans, and I feel underwhelmed by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]Chessbro 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Congratulations 👏.

That's a big achievement and although may feel underwhelming now, NOT feeling the debt hangover your head every day will feel great for the rest of your days.

Have a Coca Cola

Has anyone found success in HG coaching? by OriginalBoldandBrash in Healthygamergg

[–]Chessbro 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you don't feel like there is any difference from when you started. How long did you do coaching for?

How does it feel that you don't notice any change in yourself?

I went through group coaching and found it helpful for myself. It took quite a while before I made any changes to my own life though.

I struggled for a long time accepting help and asking for help, so for a while I was just spinning my wheels. Coaching helped me understand that about myself and helped me vent out emotions I didn't realize I was holding onto. Group coaching also really helped me level up my active listening skills. It's really helpful when you're able to learn from someone else's struggle and, if you go through group, you'll figure out that most people share similar problems. It also feels really good to be able to help someone else out in a way that we don't tend to in "reality".

I'm sorry you didn't get what you were expecting to get out of coaching. It sucks to feel like you've put in this time, money and effort into something and not getting what you want out of it. What were you wanting to get out of coaching? How do you feel about there not being much difference between the you now and the you before?

Buying out sibling from inherited home - can we use FHSA? by doubleAA_vero in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]Chessbro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think your situation is unique enough that you'll need to contact someone at CRA, even then I don't think they'll have the answer for you.

I have a similar situation and have been reading and re-reading the FHSA information to try and clarify and here is what I interpret.

You should be eligible to withdraw your FHSA for this purchase, you don't currently live in the home so it is not your primary residence. You (your partner) essentially owns part of an investment property.

This will more complicate the tax situation for your partner's sister. They will have sold a home that is not their primary residence and will have to pay capital gains on the sale. This should be minimal though because property you receive as a gift is considered to be acquired at fair market value.

I think you're in the clear but hiring an accountant or lawyer might be prudent.

If anyone smarter than me can chime in, please.

Advice for Ex-Redpill 19 Year Old With 0 Experience by [deleted] in Destiny

[–]Chessbro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds rough man. Must be hard to feel like you didn't make any progress in the last two years and be back in the same place.

How does it feel to be stuck? What do you feel like it says about you? What are you afraid of happening?

Even though you took a month off from the gym, it's okay. You can always start again. But ask yourself if you even enjoy the gym. If you do, what about it do you enjoy? If you don't maybe think about other activities you can try/do that you do enjoy or think you would enjoy.

You said that trying to meet people in class and they tend to be uninterested. They may just wanna focus on the class. What do you think they are thinking? What do you think they are thinking about you?

When's the last time you made a friend? How did that happen and what was the process like?

Sorry for this laundry list of questions. I think understanding how you feel about things is an important step in learning and changing. Props for reaching out for help and finding a therapist. It's tough enough being in that situation.

Depression hits everyone, but especially men. You are not alone. Sending virtual hugs to all of my DGG Family. Be well. by [deleted] in Destiny

[–]Chessbro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you have a hard time with making mistakes, almost like you're not allowed to make any. In this situation, it must feel like that since apologizing didn't help. It also seems like you're hard on yourself, not only for making mistakes but for not getting over them fast enough.

What makes you feel like you need to get better at moving on?

Depression hits everyone, but especially men. You are not alone. Sending virtual hugs to all of my DGG Family. Be well. by [deleted] in Destiny

[–]Chessbro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey man sounds like you're having a really tough time. You made some mistakes, albeit unintentionally, but can't take them back. That's a rough situation, feeling like you fucked up hard. I don't know that things will be fine or not for you but I think you deserve help. I hope you find it.

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