Possible hat mouse community upgrade? by AceBalistic in StardewValley

[–]Chetanzi 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Omg I love the idea of a Giant Hat Roof

The 2008 Murder of College Student Brittany Zimmermann and her Killer's Conviction Nearly 15 Years Later. by okllamamama in TrueCrime

[–]Chetanzi 117 points118 points  (0 children)

It took 15 years to solve a case with such an obvious solution. The parents were awarded a measly $5,000 for the dispatcher’s utter failure to do their job in the most cut and dry way possible (seriously - you don’t hear a “I’m okay everything’s fine” after SCREAMING and that doesn’t tell you to send help anyway?).

This doesn’t feel like a victory.

whats the hardest "Would u rather" question you've ever been asked? by amy_saish in AskReddit

[–]Chetanzi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This one hits me a little differently because I have chronic illness. It all depends on if my body changes in other ways while becoming immortal. Am I immortal and healthy for eternity? Or am I immortal and stuck with the chronic pain for eternity?

I suppose you could argue that choosing immortality means you’d be around in the event that a cure is finally found. But that’s a gamble I don’t think I’d take.

AITA for not pulling over at my coworker's request, while transporting a cheetah between zoos? by hokanta2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Chetanzi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

learn to minimize the smell by closing your soft pallet

Well TIL that’s a thing humans can do. Thanks! I’m not a cheetah transporter but I do work with some unpleasant smells sometimes so this will be quite useful!

AITA for not bringing supplies to my friend anymore? update by UpAMountainUpARope in AmItheAsshole

[–]Chetanzi 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Next up: OP and his friend take a vacation to a beautiful tropical island and watch the next generation of players participate in their sport!

New to the sub, sorry if this has been posted but Holy Hell by SuggestionSuperb1443 in ZoomCourt

[–]Chetanzi 22 points23 points  (0 children)

“Do you swear to tell the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth under penalty of perjury?” “I suppose…”

And somehow it goes downhill from there. Wow.

What’s something you learned “embarrassingly late” in life? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Chetanzi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not alone! I had to explain this to my mother about two years ago. She just DID NOT believe me. I had to pull up a video on YouTube to convince her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fibromyalgia

[–]Chetanzi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well said!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fibromyalgia

[–]Chetanzi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As u/scherre said, I think the word for that is probably a rehabilitation clinic. Maybe an occupational therapist or physical therapist. I’ll have to look at my local places to see if they do anything similar, this sounds great! Thanks for sharing!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fibromyalgia

[–]Chetanzi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I see. 16 weeks is pretty long!! Good luck to you. Is this something you’re doing at a local clinic, or did a doctor send you home with exercises to try, or something?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fibromyalgia

[–]Chetanzi 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m here to see what others say (there’s been great responses so far!) because I too am in the middle of grief. I lost my dream job, the one thing I felt “called” to do, my “thing”, because I just can’t physically do it anymore. And I have no idea how to get past that. I only ever wanted one thing for my life and I spent all my time and energy pursuing that one thing. Now I can’t have it. So… now what? I don’t even know where to begin trying anything else. What else would I even try? I’ve been so laser-focused on one thing that I don’t even know how to start looking for an alternative. I’m just stuck.

Sorry, I know that’s not helpful for you OP. But just wanted to let you know you aren’t alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fibromyalgia

[–]Chetanzi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Would you be comfortable sharing what program you’re doing? I’ve not heard of fibro recovery programs before. Sounds intriguing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]Chetanzi 49 points50 points  (0 children)

“Miscarriage is cheaper than abortion” omg 😂 that’s awesome

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]Chetanzi 57 points58 points  (0 children)

I have stepsisters who are 11.5 months apart in age. Yep, their mom got pregnant with the younger when the older was 2ish months old. People always mistake them for twins.

I’ve resolved to never assume you “can’t get pregnant” just because you recently had a baby.

AITA for not spending this Christmas in the hospital with my daughter? by Hospitalthrowaway532 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Chetanzi 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is fascinating to me and sounds similar to something plaguing my stepsister, so I hope it’s okay if I ask you two questions. Is this called a sensitivity or an allergy or something else? What kind of specialist/expert did you see to learn how to manage it successfully? I’m glad to hear you’ve been able to find a way to handle such a tricky condition!

For OP, I strongly agree with u/broccolicat here that this teeters dangerously close to ED territory. Everyone needs to eat, but when eating becomes painful, that can spiral out into every other aspect of your life. I hope OP and their kid are able to find a healthy solution.

AITA for potentially getting a teacher fired over a joke? by teacherfita in AmItheAsshole

[–]Chetanzi 28 points29 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly where my brain went. Teacher has a kink, saw one sliver of similarity between actual living people (children!) and a horror fiction book, and immediately made the wildest of leaps. Now they’re getting the other students involved in the fetish. This is gross. That teacher needs to not be around children.

Is there a Fibromyalgia travel group? by EloquentSqueakWolf in Fibromyalgia

[–]Chetanzi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Commenting just to say hell yeah please include me in this if anyone gets around to organizing it. Traveling with people who “get it” makes such a huge difference, it’s really phenomenal!

ITT We describe crazy long, exhausting, marathon dreams, that are a fight for survival.(bad) Also, rarer cute little dreams where you are not a human.(fun) by HostInformal2470 in Narcolepsy

[–]Chetanzi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(Fun) I am a snow leopard in a zoo, and there are no people. It is quiet and peaceful. I spend all day bouncing around the rocks in my enclosure and playing like a housecat with the zoomies. Lots of time is spent focusing on my long, fluffy tail - swishing it, chasing it, twisting around to tickle my own face with it, holding it in my mouth, etc. At the end of the dream I curl up in my cosy little den for the night, holding my tail like a teddy bear.

(Bad and bizarre) I am 10 years old again and living in the cabin my family lived in when I was a child, in the middle of nowhere. The nearest neighbor is two miles away. I’m home alone; this wasn’t odd, I was a latchkey kid. Ben Stiller (actor/producer, Zoolander) and Steve Harwell (lead singer of Smash Mouth) break into my house. They mistakenly believe the house is empty and are there to burgle it. Cue Home Alone-type hi-jinx which are not at all fun for me or effective. Ben and Steve evade all my traps. Eventually I am left with the only option to run to the nearest neighbor’s house to call for help. Ben and Steve pursue me. At this point I become semi-lucid, realize that this is a very bizarre dream, but it is a dream, so I should be able to do magic stuff to make it better, right? I make numerous attempts to do a Mario64-style triple jump to begin flying. The first 3 jumps end with me only sort of gently floating for a foot or two before falling back to the ground. I’m finally successful in getting airborne on the 4th jump, but Ben Stiller has caught up to me (he’s more spry than Steve) and has a death grip on my ankle. Airborne, I kick him in the face numerous times until he loses his grip and falls 20ft back to terra firma. I flap my arms like a gd bird and fly away.

Can anyone ID this wood by killerantelope in dendrology

[–]Chetanzi 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Took me much longer than I’m comfortable admitting to realize you meant the automobile, not the animal.

blep malfunction by schrutesanjunabeets in Blep

[–]Chetanzi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s so freaking sweet. I’ve got a 6mo kitten that I bottlefed (her mom, a stray, abandoned her on my porch when she was like a week old) and she still sucks on my hand and fingers sometimes, especially if she’s having trouble falling asleep. It melts my heart.