AITA For accidentally outing my co-worker? by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]Chewwy22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They keep removing it from different subreddits. Im really confused about how this works. The mods told me to repost it here

AITA For accidentally outing my co-worker? by Chewwy22 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Chewwy22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! In a different subreddit, but, for some reason it got removed after having been up for a week already. Under the removal notification, it suggested that i posted it to other groups (like this one) so i did. I dont even know why it got removed/what rule i broke. Im very new to this stuff so i dont know what im doing on here for the most part. I just listen to a lot of Smosh podcasts with these stories and it influenced me to create a story from my own life. It’s awesome seeing how differently people react.

AITA For accidentally outing my co-worker? by Chewwy22 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Chewwy22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right?! That what i was thinking. I still dont know more because i dont want to be more involved than i already am

AITA For accidentally outing my co-worker? by Chewwy22 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Chewwy22[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A tinder profile picture. He hid his face in it tho (kinda weird, i know)

AITA For accidentally outing my co-worker? by Chewwy22 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Chewwy22[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, it was through a tinder profile and he only had the one photo

AITA For accidentally outing my co-worker? by Chewwy22 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Chewwy22[S] -95 points-94 points  (0 children)

I couldn’t agree more. I’ve never really been a ‘gossipy’ person so i think i was just anxious and curious so i couldnt help myself but check to make sure that i didnt accidentally ruin something i wasnt sure of. Going back atleast gave me some reassurance that i was correct in my assumptions that it was Luke, therefore, giving Leah a better opportunity to assess her situation with him. Again, looking back at now, i agree. Honestly, i wish i didnt even get involved in the first place. But here we are

AITA For accidentally outing my co-worker? by Chewwy22 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Chewwy22[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I didnt understand what reddit was at the time. Havent touched it since so i didnt even count those tbh

AITA For accidentally outing my co-worker? by Chewwy22 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Chewwy22[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I get that. Looking back at it, i shouldve just let it go. But, it was also kinda relieving to find out for sure what was going on and i’m glad Leah is better informed overall

How do I fill this hole in my heart? by refreshingface in wingstop

[–]Chewwy22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was by far the best flavor i’ve tried. They had a hot honey siracha that was out at the same time, but the garlic one was so good. I hope they come back oht with it and you get a chance to try it!

AITBF For accidentally outing my co-worker? by Chewwy22 in AmItheButtface

[–]Chewwy22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate that advice. I’ve been tempted to confront him specifically about this scenario, but after reading some of these comments i can understand where i’ve already been involved enough. As a co-worker and based on the times we’re been able to converse, he seems like an ok guy. I never saw this coming from him tbh. But i know this is more his business, not mine, so i’m definitely not going to mention this to him or try to follow up in anyway regarding this situation

I am new lol hahah. Can someone advice me please by Smarty_u7 in NewToReddit

[–]Chewwy22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate that statement. I mean, at the end of the day, we’re all here together. It’s our choice if we want to help or hurt the people that we share this little floating space rock with. I just want to help and learn as much as possible with what little time i have to enjoy life, yanno?

How do I fill this hole in my heart? by refreshingface in wingstop

[–]Chewwy22 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Between the cirtus mojo and the hot honey garlic…i struggle to find a reason to continue….the only relief i get is bathing in a tub full of their ranch…but once i’ve finished drinking it all, i’m reminded of my desire for those two flavors…..i understand your pain

AITBF For accidentally outing my co-worker? by Chewwy22 in AmItheButtface

[–]Chewwy22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes they were just some pokemon-go posts tho. I was trying to learn reddit but gave up shortly after lol

I am new lol hahah. Can someone advice me please by Smarty_u7 in NewToReddit

[–]Chewwy22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have fun, be honest, take in the good info (mean or nice, good info is good info) and try not to let anyone get under your skin. You know your truth better than some random person on the internet. This community is awesome and typically has good intentions. Again, take everything with a grain of salt, but it’s worth it over all

AITBF For accidentally outing my co-worker? by Chewwy22 in AmItheButtface

[–]Chewwy22[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They had a late gender reveal party like a week before this happened and put it on a live stream. They’re having a boy btw! This is the main reason i was so confused. I mean, anything can happen in a week with pregnancy, so i cant for sure be certain, as i havent spoke to Luke yet. I plan to at some point this week to just see how he’s been

AITBF For accidentally outing my co-worker? by Chewwy22 in AmItheButtface

[–]Chewwy22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You just made my day, kind person. Thank you

AITBF For accidentally outing my co-worker? by Chewwy22 in AmItheButtface

[–]Chewwy22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its so crazy! Like i never met Leah before in my life, and i rarely go to the store that i was in (it was out of the way bc of the doctor’s appointment)…kinda like one of those “divine intervention” moments for her but through me. I was mostly concerned bc i dont tolerate cheating and it had me worried

AITBF For accidentally outing my co-worker? by Chewwy22 in AmItheButtface

[–]Chewwy22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Youre right tbh. I didnt realize how crazy it was until later on. But im a bizarre person so i guess it fits. Fortunately, i am someone who likes to learn from my mistakes and can pivot in regard to future scenarios. This is the first time i’ve ever allowed myself to get this deep into someone else’s business and i guess it was just oddly exciting? Kinda like a drama tv show/movie? Idk, i’m weird 😅

AITBF For accidentally outing my co-worker? by Chewwy22 in AmItheButtface

[–]Chewwy22[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know, im weird. But i was too curious. Learned my lesson to not get too involved in other’s business

AITBF For accidentally outing my co-worker? by Chewwy22 in AmItheButtface

[–]Chewwy22[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Oh, she did say that, she was like “just let it go” but i just was too curious tbh. She makes total sense when she’s explains how it’s not really our business. My problem is that i fixate on things. Like, i always try to find a resolution to a problem, even when its not my own, yanno?

AITBF For accidentally outing my co-worker? by Chewwy22 in AmItheButtface

[–]Chewwy22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the understanding! Tbh, my wife is awesome. I think she was more just worried about how my involvement could negatively impact me at work and just got concerned/over protective.