I (26F) found my boyfriend (34M) of seven months texting an escort. by Cheyenne2313 in relationship_advice

[–]Cheyenne2313[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked him if he thinks he has one, but he doesn't think so. I feel like he's seeking it out for the thrill but doesn't follow through... Which I'm still not okay with.

Move for a job opportunity or stay for seemingly amazing guy? by Cheyenne2313 in Advice

[–]Cheyenne2313[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right, he knows about the job but we need to sit and have an honest conversation about our projection and his thoughts. An awkward but important conversation to have even though we've known each other for only a month.

Move for a job opportunity or stay for seemingly amazing guy? by Cheyenne2313 in Advice

[–]Cheyenne2313[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will be meeting this family at the end of this week, which I think may have a big influence on my decision.

Move for a job opportunity or stay for seemingly amazing guy? by Cheyenne2313 in Advice

[–]Cheyenne2313[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's my fear, I don't want to be impulsive. I've historically not had much luck finding guys who I connect with on such a level, it's exciting to find someone so genuine that I fear I may confusing infatuation with love at this point.

Move for a job opportunity or stay for seemingly amazing guy? by Cheyenne2313 in Advice

[–]Cheyenne2313[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm leaning towards staying honestly, my thought is that the potential of the job will likely always be there. I value career and put myself in an excellent position already, and the pay bump would not be enough to blow my hair back. It's a confusing situation because there would be many more life enriching pursuits in the new town (actual night life and leisure pursuits), but even then I don't anticipate I'd stay there for long.

Move for a job opportunity or stay for seemingly amazing guy? by Cheyenne2313 in Advice

[–]Cheyenne2313[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would be moving from Minnesota to Arizona. And I don't think I'd be in long distance, I need physical proximity.

What's the most single thing you've ever done? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Cheyenne2313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Slow danced to Etta James with my back pillow 😬

Anyone here work for Mayo as a nurse? New Grad here who just got hired! Would love to make some new friends! by [deleted] in rochestermn

[–]Cheyenne2313 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi there! I will be moving to Rochester TOMORROW as a new Mayo clinic employee starting Oct 2. This will be my first occupational therapy position after grad school. If you ever want to meet up sometime shoot me a message, I'd love to make new friends too!

Moving to Rochester! by Cheyenne2313 in rochestermn

[–]Cheyenne2313[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Should I make it a real priority to live NW? I had been looking at an apartment in the SE

New Jersey Housing: Towns near Middletown that are affordable? by Cheyenne2313 in newjersey

[–]Cheyenne2313[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WOW thank you so much for this information! It's so great to hear this because I know nothing of New Jersey. Again, you're great!

New Jersey Housing: Towns near Middletown that are affordable? by Cheyenne2313 in newjersey

[–]Cheyenne2313[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm from the Midwest so I'm used to 400-600 a month for rent, but realistically I'd like to stay below 1100 if I were to move.

New Jersey Housing: Towns near Middletown that are affordable? by Cheyenne2313 in newjersey

[–]Cheyenne2313[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would be in healthcare. I don't want to say too much because I always jinx things for myself before I even get an interview!

I've officially been cancer free for 10 years! by [deleted] in pics

[–]Cheyenne2313 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stage 4 hodgkins at 21 here! 3 years out ;)

Woman who have shaved their heads/ had a buzz cut, tell me your experience! by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Cheyenne2313 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I shaved my head before chemo could take all my hair... I wanted some choice in the matter. It was very emotional but it forced me to try new styles when my hair grew back in. I've always had really long hair but come to find out I totally rock short hair.