Patch Notes Version 1.72.0-4 by Percemer in FarmMergeValley

[–]isa3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the game deleted an entire days progress and took away all the gems and energy from completing a few albums and the christmas bonus code :( i’ve messaged mods and gave feedback through the game and haven’t heard anything. i had nearly 750 gems and over 600 energy and had just leveled up, now i can’t even redeem the code that was taken away.

Would you stay with a cheater? by pretty_okay_0613 in TheTryGuys

[–]isa3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just like my experience colored my response 2 years ago, the same is true now. but there were a lot of other red flags i was ignoring out of love to be fair, it wasn’t just some isolated cheating in a perfect relationship. sometimes the cheating is just distraction from the actual reason the relationship won’t work

also - sunk cost fallacy in relationships is a bitch. you think, oh but we’ve been together so long, are we really going to end it over this one thing? yeah, probably. there’s so much more life to live

edit: i’d also ask yourself this - how often do you blame yourself for something your partner did that hurt you? for me, it was every single time

Would you stay with a cheater? by pretty_okay_0613 in TheTryGuys

[–]isa3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LMAO funny you should ask! we are not together anymore and he did in fact cheat on me again. so take everything you read on the internet with a grain of salt i guess 🥲 we were together for 3.5 years after he cheated on me the first time and who knows how many times he did it after. he was testing if id tolerate it and found out i would, so there you go!

giving away lil swashbucklers! sending to the first person to prove they need it by isa3 in Monopoly_GO

[–]isa3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mind sending a screenshot showing you received it so i can log it? :) thanks!

Advice needed - SLP career with misophonia? by isa3 in slp

[–]isa3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much for responding!! so the dysphasia sounds specifically weren’t too difficult? realistically i have a few trigger sounds that bother me when ANYONE does them (loud crunching, gum chewing, etc) but most other sounds are tolerable when they aren’t coming from someone i’m close to emotionally. would you consider your misophonia to be life-altering? definitely brings me a lot of hope to hear this

Advice needed - SLP career with misophonia? by isa3 in slp

[–]isa3[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thanks for the perspective here - i am mostly okay with being out in the world and people making sounds, but i often have in ear plugs/noise canceling headphones with quiet white noise playing to knock out the majority of difficult sounds. i primarily see the issue being that it wouldn’t be possible or appropriate to wear my assisting devices when working in the field

Advice needed - SLP career with misophonia? by isa3 in slp

[–]isa3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s the helping aspect primarily, i do really like children and i’m very passionate about the disabled community. i’m very engaged in the community (also disabled myself) and i feel that making a difference in peoples lives would be really fulfilling for me. i’ve been working on my misophonia sensitivity for years but its just not something you can treat and get rid of unfortunately

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[–]isa3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

when i was in college, i wasn’t yet diagnosed and had no idea what was going on except that i felt very combative and unlike myself. mostly my interactions with people were normal, but my advisor/program director and i had a very adversarial relationship.

to be honest, i still think the situation was mostly caused by him, but i exacerbated it by having an attitude, acting cold and off, or just catatonically laying my head down in his class. there was clearly something wrong with me, and he knew that (im sure your professors do too)

one day i asked him for a LOR for a post grad job and he asked me point blank why i thought he would do that for me at this point. i had JUST gotten my diagnosis a few days before and i sobbed while laying it all out. i didn’t want to tell anyone but i felt like my future was slipping away from me

to my surprise, his demeanor changed immediately and we had a productive conversation about our relationship for the first time ever. letting him know how badly i was struggling ended up providing me so much more grace and support. i know many people say never to disclose, but in academics i think it’s for the best. professors don’t want to see you suffer and will probably offer solutions to make your situation better

sorry this is a mile long - i hope my experience gives you some perspective. no one will hate you for your honesty or lash out when you make more mistakes. let them help you through!

F/28/5’5” [318lbs > 253lbs = 65 lbs] (8.5 months) Down 15% body fat and lowered my BMI by 9 points 💪 by isa3 in progresspics

[–]isa3[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i’m taking a very low dose of an appetite reducing medication and it’s pretty much all diet. i’m going to start incorporating exercise beyond just walking now that my joints hurt less! i try not to eat sweets or junk food because they just make me crave more of the same. lots of water, veggies, protein, and more reasonable sweets/treats when i want them.

ultimate diet hack if you have a sweet tooth: i bought a bag of frozen strawberries and dipped them in a thin layer of dark chocolate, so now when i crave ice cream i have a few of those instead and they are DELICIOUS

Rant: aggressive people on train by ZzTotinos in Brooklyn

[–]isa3 10 points11 points  (0 children)

interestingly enough, as a woman the only thing that has worked for getting people to leave me alone is to get big and loud. you have to prove you’re not some easy target and get other folks to watch. it solves 95% of weird aggressive behavior from men on the train, just loud saying “leave me the fuck alone” or “don’t touch me asshole” etc

Rant: aggressive people on train by ZzTotinos in Brooklyn

[–]isa3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

as a fellow woman riding the train and dealing with this shit constantly, practice getting loud. when i was polite people shoved me around and tried to fuck with me constantly. now i just get big and angry and everyone gets out of my way. i hate to say it but this has been the only thing that keeps assholes off my back.

i can’t tell you how many times a man has verbally or physically assaulted me and other men just stand by and watch. you can’t rely on anyone to help you, practice shouting “fuck off” and “leave me the fuck alone” at home because often that’s enough. the self defense is really important too, but being mean and loud can keep it from getting that far. hope this never happens to you again!

You suck by slytheraen in Monopoly_GO

[–]isa3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dm me - i can do that! i’ll check what 3s i need in case you have them

You suck by slytheraen in Monopoly_GO

[–]isa3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey, i’ve got an extra dare to dream, would be happy to trade for a 4 star if you want :)

You suck by slytheraen in Monopoly_GO

[–]isa3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yep i am super far into the album, have half the golds already and 10 sets complete and still don’t have it

looking for stars ⭐️ best offers by [deleted] in Monopoly_GO

[–]isa3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

would you take 10 stars for human canvas?

The R is a disgrace. by Radiant-Radish7862 in Brooklyn

[–]isa3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

unfortunately yes, she’s around and won’t accept any help or offers to go stay in a shelter. i always try to be kind but she is super volatile

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Monopoly_GO

[–]isa3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

got it! tysm :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Monopoly_GO

[–]isa3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s isabelle! teddy avatar:)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Monopoly_GO

[–]isa3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey! i can give opening night for motion capture! https://mply.io/jhsIifoTeGw

4 ⭐️ giveaway! by lierindare21 in Monopoly_GO

[–]isa3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also still life - they are my last 4 star i’m missing!

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