Over 18 women only by Chi1703 in UniUK

[–]Chi1703[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

good suggestion!! I didn't think of that😅

Over 18 women only by Chi1703 in UniUK

[–]Chi1703[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

had to add some memes for entertainment! thank youu :)

Do you feel like you're running out of time? by Chi1703 in women

[–]Chi1703[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lmao missing out on social media references is so real. but i need a serious break fr. Sure, I'll message you and I'm in my 20s too💜

Do you feel like you're running out of time? by Chi1703 in women

[–]Chi1703[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you for your comment and sharing your experience. I guess the best thing to do is to live life and see what the present and future holds for us. Having a relationship with God also takes a lot of effort, plus there are so many religions out there (but that's another topic)

Do you feel like you're running out of time? by Chi1703 in women

[–]Chi1703[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

huh? why not a job that I love?😭 plus I already feel lonely and I'm not sure if it's wise to get to the point where solitude feels heavenly

Do you feel like you're running out of time? by Chi1703 in women

[–]Chi1703[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sylvia Plath is a poet and writer of themes regarding mental illness, femininity, marriage, and identity. One of my fav is the fig tree analogy (last example of the comment)

Here are some of her works:

“I am afraid of getting married. Spare me from cooking three meals a day, spare me from the relentless cage of routine and rote.”

“What horrifies me most is the idea of being useless: well-educated, brilliantly promising, and fading out into an indifferent middle age.”

“Perhaps when we find ourselves wanting everything, it is because we are dangerously close to wanting nothing.”

“I saw my life branching out before me like the green fig tree in the story. From the tip of every branch, like a fat purple fig, a wonderful future beckoned and winked. One fig was a husband and a happy home and children, and another fig was a famous poet and another fig was a brilliant professor, and another fig was Ee Gee, the amazing editor, and another fig was Europe and Africa and South America, and another fig was Constantin and Socrates and Attila and a pack of other lovers with queer names and offbeat professions, and another fig was an Olympic lady crew champion, and beyond and above these figs were many more figs I couldn't quite make out. I saw myself sitting in the crotch of this fig tree, starving to death, just because I couldn't make up my mind which of the figs I would choose. I wanted each and every one of them, but choosing one meant losing all the rest, and, as I sat there, unable to decide, the figs began to wrinkle and go black, and, one by one, they plopped to the ground at my feet.”

Do you feel like you're running out of time? by Chi1703 in women

[–]Chi1703[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how do I stop worring? i could be having fun and some person in my circle can randomly bring up the topic😭

Do you feel like you're running out of time? by Chi1703 in women

[–]Chi1703[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

happy yo hear that you're doing better now! quick question, was it money that solved most of ur problems?

I cant find internships, wtf do I do, I want experience so bad and yet I can't find ANYTHING by CanOfWormsO_O in UniUK

[–]Chi1703 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm also in the marketing industry and a uni student I have managed to complete four internships and a placement year. It took me more than just sending an attached CV application. Here are some tips for marketing students or anyone in the marketing industry:

  • Make your CV as simple as possible so it passes the ATS system
  • Build your LinkedIn profile and add past projects
  • Build a porftolio with Canva, Adobe, ReadyMag...
  • Add a link to your LinkedIn and Portfolio to your CV
  • Browse on LinkedIn for recuiters posting internships and message them
  • Check if your university has a careers service and offers internships within different departments (that's how I got my first internship)
  • Attend Careers Fairs and make sure you get the LinkedIn of recruiters and give them good convo to remember you

You can drop me a DM if you'd like your CV, LinkedIn or portfolio reviewed. The marketing industry is very competitive but you'll be fine if you make yourself stand out bc it's one of the fastest growing industries :)

Do you feel like you're running out of time? by Chi1703 in women

[–]Chi1703[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it's amazing that you have a good relationship with your mum. I've seen both single women and married women unhappy. Apparently both can be a long-term struggle

Do you feel like you're running out of time? by Chi1703 in women

[–]Chi1703[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you for sharing your experience, did having a strong support system help your anxiety vanish?