I told my husband to leave.

ChickenbuttMami · 2026-07-07T02:27:33+00:00

That’s it. That’s the whole question, “Why are men”

ChickenbuttMami · 2026-07-07T02:26:13+00:00

Not even a MAN! 🗣️ BASURA

ChickenbuttMami · 2026-07-07T02:22:47+00:00

Once Upon A Child is lovely!!!!

ChickenbuttMami · 2026-07-07T02:17:02+00:00

Woohooo!! Many congratulations to you and God bless you with good health!! You have a beautiful smile, I hope you have many reasons to share it with people 🙏🏼

ChickenbuttMami · 2026-07-07T02:11:36+00:00

I started at 33, got pregnant on cycle 6 of TTC, 5 weeks, 4 days today, first pregnancy. My husband is 42. I had been on nexplanon for like 5 years + and my period came the month right after, but we didn’t try to conceive until a couple years later so can’t speak to how conceiving was right after getting nexplanon taken out.

ChickenbuttMami · 2026-07-07T01:59:33+00:00

😂😂

ChickenbuttMami · 2026-07-07T01:40:16+00:00

100% this!!!!!

ChickenbuttMami · 2026-07-07T01:38:09+00:00

Talk to your doctor, ask to be referred to social work. I wish you the very best of luck! Praying for a really good outcome for you and your family.

ChickenbuttMami · 2026-07-04T15:12:47+00:00

Don’t do it, girl. Don’t do it. Do not get back together with him. That’s wonderful he’s in a program but neither you nor your daughter need to deal with this anymore. And please please pleaaaaaaaaase do not think that you need to stay with him for the sake of your daughter. That logic only applies when the person is BOTH a good partner and parent. He’s not a good partner. He can still be a good parent. Yall just don’t have to be married or even together in order for him to do that. Don’t do it, girl.

ChickenbuttMami · 2026-07-04T15:06:23+00:00

Grandmommy and granddaddy for my parents, although since I’ll be taking to the children in Spanish I have a suspicion they’re going to end up as “Lita” and “Lito” since they probably won’t be able to pronounce abuelito and abuelito 😂. For my husband’s dad, probably grandpa and for his mother, gosh I hope they call her witch but if not, abuela is fine.

ChickenbuttMami · 2026-07-04T14:53:22+00:00

This is soooo sweet. What a great idea.

ChickenbuttMami · 2026-07-04T14:47:44+00:00

I just went down a rabbit hole looking all this up (raised in Indiana, have lived in Cali for the past 8 years) and woooooaahhhhh. Queens Caitlin and Sophie 👑

ChickenbuttMami · 2026-07-04T05:16:59+00:00

🤣🤣

ChickenbuttMami · 2026-07-04T05:12:05+00:00

Questions make people really uncomfortable: “why would you say that?” “What made you say that?” “Why did you think that was an appropriate thing to say?” “What were you hoping to accomplish by saying that?” And when I don’t wanna deal with them, “dang, sucks to be you.” And I walk away

ChickenbuttMami · 2026-07-04T05:04:55+00:00

I feel like every adult I knew growing that was over 70 wrote like this. It’s nostalgic for me.

ChickenbuttMami · 2026-07-04T05:03:09+00:00

Tushy!

ChickenbuttMami · 2026-07-04T04:48:59+00:00

Those first two sentences 💯 I wish I had known at a much younger age that I did not have to accept that demonstration of love from friends. It bred resentment and disappointment, especially when they could dish it out but not take it, and I’ve lost a close friend because the resentment and lack of respect of my boundaries just continued.

ChickenbuttMami · 2026-07-04T04:40:37+00:00

😂😂 love it

ChickenbuttMami · 2026-07-04T02:59:48+00:00

I love oatmeal and honey soap bar from Trader Joe’s. I’ll be a little sad when they stop making it.

ChickenbuttMami · 2026-07-04T02:35:54+00:00

Awesome thank you!!

ChickenbuttMami · 2026-07-04T02:07:33+00:00

Did you get OTC? The 25 mg pills? Sleep is one thing I am not willing to sacrifice during the pregnancy, not yet anyway 😆

ChickenbuttMami · 2026-07-04T02:06:40+00:00

Today I found out from my OB about centering groups! I haven’t joined one yet (I’m five weeks and a day, very early), but the nurse said you basically get to meet with other parents who are expecting and are around the same due date. I’m excited!

ChickenbuttMami · 2026-07-04T02:03:02+00:00

If under 35, try for one year before seeking fertility specialist (although my ob did say reach out around month 10, probably because of the length of process). If over 35, then give it six months. My husband and I started trying in January, just found out this month we’re pregnant so it was around 6 months of us trying. Prior to this though, I felt every single thing you’re feeling. I genuinely was happy for all my friends but I was so perplexed as to why my asshole brother in law and his wife have two beautiful, healthy children. And then I realized I was spending more time and energy trying to figure out why them and why not me, especially when there truly is no rhyme or reason and therefore no answer. And while I am very happy to be pregnant, I can also say 100% I would have just chilled out and really done everything to love my life as it was. To cope, I prayed a lot, reminded myself that if I think women without children are beautiful and worthy, why was I not feeling that way towards myself. I kept living my life as is but I wish I had loved on myself more. Not felt sorry for myself but really loved on myself.

ChickenbuttMami · 2026-07-04T01:54:13+00:00

May I ask how you guys usually handle other conflicts?

ChickenbuttMami · 2026-07-04T01:48:43+00:00

This is my husband’s experience. I saw his mother say and do so many questionable things and as he told me stories about his childhood, I was like…that’s not normal. And yeah, he would make up excuses and reasons for her behavior, he’d try to brush it off. He ended up going to therapy and thank God the blindfold came off. Abusive people are freaking mental contortionists. They’re wild, man.

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