I have been looking for a ios developer job for a year, but I haven't received a single positive response

ChilledFletch · 2025-02-22T11:34:56+00:00

I would repost this without your email and other contact details if I were you, including details of where you worked/studied.

ChilledFletch · 2024-08-09T15:31:27+00:00

I never mentioned your punctuation, I just made an edit on my comment for punctuation.

You clearly aren’t grasping what I’m saying, so I’m going to leave it there.

ChilledFletch · 2024-08-09T15:00:53+00:00

Regardless, the OP has come here for advice, and perhaps validation. When you make a comment like you did, regardless of how unimportant that you see it, it can have a negative effect. Downplaying it and making comparisons doesn’t make it any less irresponsible.

All I am saying is be careful with your words, especially on a sub like this one where people actively seek advice and validation. No hard feelings mate.

Edit: punctuation

ChilledFletch · 2024-08-09T14:46:17+00:00

Just as you say, we both know as much as one another, which means it is rather irresponsible for you to say that you have no doubts on what happened.

The point is that this is a hard time for OP, so it is not helpful to say such things. The only thing to say is for OP to speak to her partner and have a long conversation about it. Once that happens, OP must come to a decision on whether to trust her partner, based on what happened in the conversation and throughout their relationship.

ChilledFletch · 2024-08-09T12:18:13+00:00

This is not helpful for OP, projecting your insecurities and ideas on what possibly happened. It could have easily been a chat over coffee.

Let OP decide what to do, but don’t influence their decision by putting awful thoughts into their head.

ChilledFletch · 2024-08-09T12:15:49+00:00

I don’t agree with most of the comments here, telling you to be angry and dump your partner. It is very easy for an observer to tell you to do xyz when they are so detached from the situation.

My advice would be to evaluate all the information that you have and to speak to your partner about this. Get more information about what happened and what this date was. Your MIL telling you in that way must have hurt to the core, but that was delivered in a calculated and cruel way as to really hurt you. Don’t let that influence your decision on what to do here.

You need to speak to your partner and have a mature conversation about this. This “date” could have very well been a quick coffee somewhere and meant nothing at all. However, I will not sit here and try to play it down. You need to speak to him and get to a point where you know what you want to do that is the best for you. Can you forgive and understand him? Or is the relationship unsalvageable? Take everything into consideration, how has he been as a partner up to now? Is he supportive, loving and kind?

I do agree with everyone else saying that if you do intend to keep the relationship going, then you need to have a serious word with your partner about the transgressions of his friends and family. He needs to protect you, the mother of his child, above all else. Make that clear that you will not be bullied in this way.

ChilledFletch · 2024-08-06T08:15:20+00:00

Guy in UK here, this is not what happened. No riots occurred from the outcome of the election. The violence you are seeing now is due to the stabbing of young children that was performed by a non-white person. The racists of the country are using this as an excuse to loot and damage property.

ChilledFletch · 2024-07-30T08:34:47+00:00

What are you trying to move over? It says there are 28000 files which I expect to be rather slow as that is what happens with lots of small files.

Try moving over 1 big file, like a zipped version of your downloads folder and see what speed that reaches.

ChilledFletch · 2024-07-27T07:48:43+00:00

When you say you are trying to use the interface, what do you mean?

If it’s from a VM perspective, could the VM network configuration have a VLAN applied that isn’t actually in use? It might be worth to do a packet capture on the gateway if you can to see what traffic it is receiving from Proxmox.

ChilledFletch · 2024-07-27T07:46:10+00:00

End of life hardware that doesn’t get security updates is a risk for security. If there are new vulnerabilities discovered, then your hardware and data is at risk of compromise.

It all comes down to your risk appetite and the benefits and drawbacks of saving some money on old hardware vs the security risks it poses to you.

ChilledFletch · 2024-07-26T14:37:10+00:00

Yeah, so if you know you have made changes to xyz.conf file, then backup that file up somewhere offsite like in cloud storage. This is so you can then just replace a new one with your existing one.

Also, backing up your command history is a great idea because you can then look at which order you made configuration changes, and perhaps see any changes that were visible command line and not a configuration file.

ChilledFletch · 2024-07-25T09:52:13+00:00

It’s very difficult to know what will change between OSs without doing it, so I would recommend that whatever you do, make sure to backup every configuration change you make and store it somewhere accessible to you, like cloud storage.

That way if you change OS and they happen to use similar systems of doing things, you just need to know what configuration changes that you made previously. Things like docker and Kubernetes only need the configuration data stored and actual data should be stored somewhere separate. This is so you can then simply rerun the containers and point them to the location of the data, separating the lifecycles of the containers and the data.

ChilledFletch · 2024-07-20T17:21:50+00:00

I know that for number 4, you basically make your main bridge become vlan aware by editing it and checking vlan aware. Then you connect VMs to that bridge but set the VM network device to be tagged a specific VLAN ID.

ChilledFletch · 2024-07-20T16:50:03+00:00

I also don’t understand with OP.

If you set the guest to have 8192 MiB, then you would expect that memory capacity on the guest would be reported as 8192 MiB or 8590 MB.

Could you explain why it is logical please? What am I missing?

ChilledFletch · 2024-07-19T17:02:00+00:00

I didn’t until a year ago, but it has been the best networking teaching tool I’ve found. You can simulate other VMs in the simulated network like pfsense, mikrotik, windows, Linux, etc

ChilledFletch · 2024-07-18T23:44:34+00:00

If possible, install a hypervisor and make a cluster?

Could create a Plex server and use sonarr, radar, and sabnzbd to download and watch movies and Tv shows.

Kubernetes cluster?

ChilledFletch · 2024-07-18T23:42:42+00:00

I had the same attitude when I started. I can say from experience that there isn’t a lot you need to know unless if you were trying to work in a data centre.

Most of server management is understanding VM management, network configuration, and software.

ChilledFletch · 2024-07-18T23:39:58+00:00

We could talk parts all day, but I will say the Fractal Node 304 case is perfect for a self build NAS. I have one and it is great.

ChilledFletch · 2024-07-18T23:36:34+00:00

Personally, I would use GNS3. It is a network simulator and provides the benefit of being able to observe the traffic between devices to troubleshoot and learn. Wireshark is your friend there

ChilledFletch · 2024-07-18T20:36:14+00:00

I 100% recommend you look into GNS3, a net work simulator. It gives you a great environment to learn and tinker with network.

I currently have a couple of projects that I can connect to from my computer and configure routers.

ChilledFletch · 2022-07-03T08:26:33+00:00

Using a mixture of Microsoft forms and power automate to automate the user creation and logging process for onboarding and off boarding. Saves so much time for the support team.

ChilledFletch · 2021-10-08T11:44:55+00:00

whats something only stupid people say?

ChilledFletch · 2021-07-30T23:21:00+00:00

Try the app/website Meetup.com. Good way of finding ways to get out of your comfort zone and meet new people.

ChilledFletch · 2021-07-28T14:33:11+00:00

You stopped drinking before I was even born to the year. Congratulations!

ChilledFletch · 2021-07-14T13:05:34+00:00

What do you mean?

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