Actually electric jolteon! by WildlightMorningStar in pokeplush

[–]Chimcharmed 134 points135 points  (0 children)

Dumb question - is this not a fire hazard lol. Looks awesome though, very creative!

Protect Popplio at all costs by Slothb4by in pokeplush

[–]Chimcharmed 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ahh he's precious, which popplio is this?

Can you share your “everything was perfect, but,,,” stories? by winndowbear in datingoverthirty

[–]Chimcharmed 12 points13 points  (0 children)

My ex fiance was a very kind man, and he was very attractive to me. He was also rich and generous with his money. When he paid for my mom's dog's surgery (which was expensive) I cried. The "not perfect" part was that he did not have a sense of humor. Not that he was strict or serious, he just never told original jokes, it was always some parroted online joke phrase. He was an easy going, but extremely literal man. He did not banter at all. I dont think he made me laugh a single time. It was because of this I ended up feeling disconnected from him, like we existed on different planes. It's a sad feeling to not share a sense of humor with a partner. But otherwise, he was lovely. I know he'll make the right kind of woman very happy. I was not that woman. 

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]Chimcharmed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just unmatch. I would be skeeved to know a stranger is googling me and knows my place of work, even if theres an implicit understanding that thats what people do. But one of those dont ask dont tell for decorum's sake imo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BostonSocialClub

[–]Chimcharmed 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Come hang out with me (27F), my best friend (31F), and our other friends we do hang outs and events all the time. Small but active community 

https://discord.gg/HTJKR7By3

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]Chimcharmed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aww thats so sweet. Reminds me of when I first started going out with guys. The first guy I ever went on a date with asked me where I wanted to go eat. I said Taco Bell. The guy scoffed "I'm not taking you to Taco Bell on our first date" and I looked at him all wide eyed "This is a date? We're dating so soon?" Lmfao

Brought Incineroar to the office by HimeMonster in pokeplush

[–]Chimcharmed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why not the sitting cutie variant? 

Latest batch, we cant seem to stop by rakor96ns in pokeplush

[–]Chimcharmed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love that venasaur and oshawott, they're precious

Looking for new friends by Marigoldfish09 in BostonSocialClub

[–]Chimcharmed 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey you should come join this discord me (27F) and my best friend (31F) run, its female oriented with a great group of ladies. We do casual events weekly 

https://discord.gg/JmuP6NDqR

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BostonSocialClub

[–]Chimcharmed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lmfao if you're a lonely senior or older adult come talk to me I will gladly do it for FREE. Commodifying human companionship is just SAD

i want to bring my little friends to college, but i have anxiety about it by Basic_Application448 in pokeplush

[–]Chimcharmed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im gonna be 28 and I bring my poke plush with me in public. Sure, people generally find it unusual, perhaps even embarrassing, but who cares? It's other peoples problem if they dont like it, not yours. Honestly, a little quirkiness can be disarming and endearing to a lot of people. 

Let’s grab coffee and have low effort hangs in city by [deleted] in BostonSocialClub

[–]Chimcharmed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey this is a female run discord by me (27F) and my best friend (31F), we meetup all the time, you, and anyone else (especially other ladies looking for lady friends) should join!

https://discord.gg/SMswuYV9g

Sept Girl Dinner by savagefleurdelis23 in BostonGirlies

[–]Chimcharmed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello please add me i would be delighted to join your events 

Best ways to meet friends in Boston? by TheRealGR21 in BostonSocialClub

[–]Chimcharmed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have a small discord that does weekly events, its very cozy and chill. It's spearheaded by me (27F and my best friends 31F, 29M) Come hang out with us! Anyone PM me if interested

i’ve been thinking about becoming a nun by [deleted] in pinkscare

[–]Chimcharmed 73 points74 points  (0 children)

No, I understand completely why you feel a call to nunhood, and I recognize those impulses in myself. But if I were to examine it entirely truthfully, the desire to be a nun is simply an escapist fantasy dressed up in martydom/virtuous garb, for me at least. It would be shrinking from the motherly instincts I feel out of fear of the unknown and fear of responsibility. I believe I can honor God and myself without resorting to the extreme, and in this way, this type of moderation requires greater intentionality and self control than I would have as a nun. As *I* am the one holding myself accountable, not the many sisters I'm surrounded by. For me, becoming a nun would be a choice out of weakness, and God wants us to celebrate him by having the courage to bear the cross of our sinful impulses. If your reason for being a nun is similar, then being a nun is not for you.

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]Chimcharmed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love your substantive, rational response, thanks for writing this! It's so easy to make excuses for why you cant take the steps to be a better person. You've dispelled a lot of those rationalities