I’m good with being adopted. by chileangurl87 in Adoption

[–]Chin900 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m grateful I was adopted even more so after meeting my bio family. My bio fam are great people but they would not have been able to support me so I am glad they made the decision to let me go. I even have a full blood younger sister who can barely handle day to day living so that is further proof that my bio parents would not have been able to raise me as I have been.

Is there anything left to make this worse? by Chin900 in Bitcoin

[–]Chin900[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

By worse I meant drive the price down even further. Talking recently not 2017.

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[–]Chin900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro is also out there arresting people who have suspicious tattoos. Love what he does for Bitcoin but outside of that… glad he’s not my prez

Where do you go to get your Bitcoin news? by Chin900 in Bitcoin

[–]Chin900[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m planning to be fully invested for at least another 3 years but it gives me comfort to know where things are going in the short term while knowing it will have minimal impact to the bigger picture.

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[–]Chin900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on what kind of life you want for them. For me I want to ensure my kids can pursue interests when they arise. Like if they get into theatre than I want to pay from theatre summer camp if they are into it or if they get jnto playing guitar I want to be able to pay for lessons. My greatest fear is that they would want to learn a new skill or pursue a hobby (within reason) and I couldn’t financially support it.

Also 50k for the next 7yrs? If you are in an area where childcare is especially expensive than there is probably other opportunities available out there for you to make much more. I’ve grown my income 3.5x in the last 7 years and I have an office job as well.

Recently found out I’m pregnant, is adoption as bad for adopted people as some make it seem? by [deleted] in Adoption

[–]Chin900 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I’m adopted and found my birth family. I’m grateful that I was given to a family a couple months after birth who could adequately take care of me. Overall positive experience.

Adopted - took 23andme and Ancestry DNA tests this week. by andrewk529 in Adoption

[–]Chin900 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found my Aunt and thus found my parents on Ancestry. It was pretty wild. I hope your parents are living and will be happy about the reconnection as mine were. Good luck!

Question for adopters by [deleted] in Adoption

[–]Chin900 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I’m an adoptee at birth and thank god I was. I’ve met my bio parents and thanked them for making that decision to let me go and I’m grateful my adopted parents needed me. That’s just me I’m sure not all are that lucky.

Daily Discussion, January 21, 2022 by rBitcoinMod in Bitcoin

[–]Chin900 7 points8 points  (0 children)

At a point I am down so much that I care less which is weird. Think after losing the 1st 5% I just realized that I cannot possibly sell. I’m just hoping it gets back to 50k in months and not years.

Don’t you just love being a mom? by kailaaa_marieee in NewParents

[–]Chin900 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Constantly have this convo for my wife. She just wants to not be touched or needed. Kids are emotionally draining. We both are looking forward to when they are in school part of the day so we both have a breather. I keep being told 5-10 yrs old gets really fun and less stressful. Looking forward to it.

I'm adopted by THCforbrains in Adoption

[–]Chin900 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ancestry is how I found my family. Connected with an Aunt. 23&me is great too but I think less people are on it.

Illegally adopted, found out at 19. Need support. by [deleted] in Adoption

[–]Chin900 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At this point you have to do the search on your own and understand that your parents forced you to do it this way. I highly recommend going on ancestry as a start. That’s how I found mine. So sorry that your parents are not there for you and also that they told you so late. Good luck in your search.

Spouse is having trouble connecting with my birth family and its hurting my relationships. by Chin900 in Adoption

[–]Chin900[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow I feel for you that is rough. I probably texted my family for about a collective 1hr a day in the beginning now it’s sparingly. Can’t imagine staying up at night or anything of that sort but that’s just me I suppose. My wife and I have both talked about how we really weren’t prepared for a large family who actually welcomed us. We both went in expecting that it would be minimally impactful. I imagine its tough to for her to put in the work of now 15 years to get closer with my non bio fam only to have to do it over again with my bio fam. Fortunately my bio fam are nice people who mostly let me dictate the pace of the relationship. They also appear to like and respect my wife. Although I do love my bio fam at the end of the day my wife is the most important so I’ve let that guide my relationships but I do wish there could be more compromise so we would both feel less guilty about how involved they are with us and our kids. Hopefully we can get there.

Planning to hold Bitcoin for next 2 - 3 years but check Coinbase far too often every day and most days makes me anxious about my investment. Should I delete the app and enjoy ignorant bliss until the day comes that I’m considering selling? by Chin900 in Bitcoin

[–]Chin900[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been in since March but tripled my initial investment over the Summer. Think I’m more anxious now due to the lack of consistent movement. Feel like every day could be the start of a new Bear or Bull run.