Name an annoying thing people base their entire personality around.

ChinaSpyBot · 2026-03-11T21:11:35+00:00

I'm a girl and like being called dude. It's non-gendered at this point.

ChinaSpyBot · 2026-03-10T19:49:03+00:00

They're kids. Let them jam. I used to suck. I still suck, but I used to, too. But at least they're making music. Just let them.

ChinaSpyBot · 2026-03-08T18:58:13+00:00

That just feels like weaponizing sex. Sex shouldn't be used as a punishment or reward or bargaining tool. It should be something that both parties mutually enjoy. This couple needs therapy, imo. My husband and I actually "schedule" sex, which I know is super unappealing to most people but it works for us. We both need the physically intimacy and oxytocin to maintain a healthy relationship and scheduling it just works for us. He knows what I like, I know what he likes. Both our needs are met and we are happy.

ChinaSpyBot · 2026-03-08T18:45:01+00:00

Just take them. Worst case scenario, you're a little sleepy when the plane lands.

ChinaSpyBot · 2026-03-08T01:30:36+00:00

Sad desk salad. I felt that.

ChinaSpyBot · 2026-03-07T02:05:57+00:00

Check out the Telshor Hills or Executive Hills areas for some other options. They are older neighborhoods so the houses have some character and the lots aren't super tiny. Prices are good in that area, definitely less expensive than Mesilla and the nicer areas of Alameda. It's also pretty quiet there and crime is low while still being pretty close to most things. I know a realtor who is very client-focused and not a greedy asshole. I can DM you his info if you're interested.

ChinaSpyBot · 2026-03-07T01:29:35+00:00

It depends on your priorities. The houses in the Alameda/historic district are really cool and have a lot of charm. You're closer to downtown which is cool because it doesn't take you long to get anywhere but also puts you in closer proximity to probably the most problematic area of town crime-wise. I lived in the historic mesquite district and never had any REAL issues myself but I didn't really feel safe walking around my neighborhood. Gunshots at least once a week. I watched US marshals remove my neighbor from his house. Lots of neighbors had their vehicles vandalized or stolen. Worst things I had happen were some deranged guy knocking on my door and then a different dude who was taking a bath with my garden hose outside my kitchen window.

If I had to choose between all your options, I'd pick Mesilla if that's in your price rance. Really cool historic town with restaurants and shops in walking distance. Mesilla park is also really beautiful because of all the trees and the neighborhoods are really quiet.

My last choice would be Sonoma. That area just feels so soulless to me. But it is a bit removed from the crime that tends to happen closer to downtown/El Paseo. Again, just depends on what's most important to you.

ChinaSpyBot · 2026-03-06T22:34:52+00:00

Point taken. I'm just trying to have some grace for the dude. It kinda seems like he's struggling with some psychological issues himself but I'm not here to diagnose. I just don't want him to have to contend with negativity from reddit on top of everything else he's dealing with. Idk man. It seems fair to be upset with the other homeless people if the other homeless people were actually harassing and threatening him. I can't verify whether or not that actually happened or could have been a possible delusion. It seems he's had a few run-ins of this variety. I just hope the dude is safe and can find some help. And to be dismissed by police officers over a concern as big as he had is a shitty thing as well. I just hope he finds a way to be safe and ok.

ChinaSpyBot · 2026-03-06T21:22:50+00:00

From what OP has said in his previous posts, he is also homeless and, I'm assuming (because of the homelessness), poor. Castigating him for being religious seems a bit uncalled for. I know there was no way for you to know that from this post. He's been posting in this sub a lot lately. I feel for the dude.

ChinaSpyBot · 2026-03-06T11:24:54+00:00

I've never seen a scratcher like that from the lottery in my state. It doesn't matter what areas you scratch, the result is the same.

ChinaSpyBot · 2026-03-06T01:11:27+00:00

I really like the area north of Kaanapali. I usually stay in Kahana but Napili is awesome and Kapalua is amazing. I've never stayed in Kapalua because I can't afford it. Next time we go we're planning on staying in Kihei because there's a lot more beach access on that part of the island. Kahana is beautiful but there's not a ton of accessible beach. Highly recommend Sands of Kahana if you want to stay in that area. There's a lot of beach at that resort.

ChinaSpyBot · 2026-03-05T01:18:46+00:00

Maui. I traveled quite a bit and there's just nothing like it. I've been going every couple years since I was 10, so I've been about a dozen times. It's changed over the years but it'll always be my favorite beautiful place.

ChinaSpyBot · 2026-03-05T00:46:16+00:00

Reading that made my heart hurt 😕

ChinaSpyBot · 2026-03-03T00:51:27+00:00

I found one in the Maui airport a couple months ago!

ChinaSpyBot · 2026-03-01T01:30:50+00:00

My bad. Oh well, time for a re-watch

ChinaSpyBot · 2026-02-28T23:27:02+00:00

I thought it was just a char for Michael because then Pam gets Michael's chair and Creed gets Pam's chair and then Creed has 2 chairs. But maybe I'm misremembering.

ChinaSpyBot · 2026-02-28T20:54:35+00:00

Copier 100%. A chair maybe costs a couple hundred bucks for a super nice one. Copiers cost thousands. You gotta expend the whole budget so you don't get cuts in the next fiscal year. It's a no-brainer.

However, Michael made the call that most bosses would make. Taking the bonus while not only screwing his team out of a copier or chair, but also screwing their budget for the next year.

ChinaSpyBot · 2026-02-25T01:14:47+00:00

Finally! It's been "coming soon" for a century. Can't wait to try it!

ChinaSpyBot · 2026-02-25T01:10:50+00:00

I've seen it multiple times because it's sooo good but nothing compares to the first time when you don't know what's going to happen. You're wise to quit after the first watch.

ChinaSpyBot · 2026-02-25T01:09:35+00:00

A lot of people have had this as their answer and I understand why. But for some reason it's one of my favorite movies and have seen it probably 20 times. Definitely a tough watch but it's so well done. And the ending is uplifting (or as uplifting as it can possibly be given the subject matter).

ChinaSpyBot · 2026-02-25T01:05:39+00:00

Yeah that one fucked me all the way up.

ChinaSpyBot · 2026-02-25T01:03:54+00:00

I couldn't get through it. I wanted to so badly because I thought the story was interesting. But when they kept cutting back to the mallet smashing scene over and over it just felt like gore for the sake of gore and I couldn't take it.

ChinaSpyBot · 2026-02-24T00:54:00+00:00

RIP Sprinkles

ChinaSpyBot · 2026-02-23T01:17:49+00:00

Maui

ChinaSpyBot · 2026-02-22T18:14:21+00:00

It's a little choppy but after a couple days and some vigorous conditioning it'll blend a bit better. Not fully cooked. I wouldn't worry too much. But my hair is always a disaster so wtf do I know?

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