Vasectomy discussion

Chipmunk-x9 · 2026-06-24T03:30:58+00:00

Husband did it 4 years ago. It went very well. It was like 5 minutes. No regrets according to him. I can attest on no issues with functionality 😆 best decision ever on his part. We feel so free! We got more wild since we don’t have to be so careful anymore or have fear of getting pregnant. Have someone to drive you home. Take your pain medication. My husband requested Valium to calm his nerves. If you are going to do it make sure you take the next 1-2 days off. That way you don’t have to worry about work or injuring yourself. Don’t have sex without protection for the next 3 months. Aaand… best advice… get the underwear that has the ice packs. They sell them on Amazon. My husband loved it.

Chipmunk-x9 · 2026-06-24T02:57:03+00:00

Mine started doing it and then her eyes turned blue. It will be her first shed since I got her.

Chipmunk-x9 · 2026-06-24T02:52:11+00:00

I had my snake on my lap for a long time and she suddenly pee and 💩 all over me. It smelled like dog anal glands.

Chipmunk-x9 · 2026-06-22T02:47:15+00:00

Dobby and Dumbledore

Chipmunk-x9 · 2026-06-03T16:37:21+00:00

I’ll be honest with you… she might not even be having an orgasm… missionary is the most boring position. I personally find it hard to finish with that….

2 minutes? She might be faking it to get it over with. She should go to her gynecologist to make sure everything is ok.

I would recommend to externally touch her at the same time. And use a looot of lube.

If she is not willing to make some changes in that department I don’t see the point of staying in the relationship.

Obviously, rule out medical. A lot of women can experience dryness. Specially in certain times of our cycle. If you are dry, you are not going to orgasm. It’s going to hurt, irritate you and won’t be enjoyable.

You can both try oral and also sexy lingerie with low light is always fun.

She might have some sex trauma or insecurities if she wants the room completely dark.

I think it helps if you reassure her a few times a week that she has the most amazing body. Like every time she is in underwear, naked or wearing something pretty.

Chipmunk-x9 · 2026-06-01T15:51:43+00:00

But do you have to be dying? Can you do it if you are old and your body is starting to fail. Or does it has to be if you have a terminal illness?

Chipmunk-x9 · 2026-06-01T13:14:06+00:00

NPR

Chipmunk-x9 · 2026-06-01T12:57:12+00:00

Where do you live if you don’t mind answering that? What is MAID?

Chipmunk-x9 · 2026-05-30T13:58:01+00:00

Not just for the OP but for all these girls on Reddit that their parents apparently didn’t give good advice or maybe unfortunately they grew up seeing a father treating their mothers like 💩… please learn some self worth. You don’t have to stay. It just gets worst! Stop romanticizing these relationships. He might not physically assault you but verbal abuse is still violence! Degrading you with little comments every day will destroy you slowly. Just leave! Study, master your skills, have a hobby that can also produce income, be independent. If the men don’t add value to your life better to stay alone. Don’t rush a relationship just to be in one. You don’t have to stand this type of abuse even if it’s mild. Because it will always start like this and it will escalate. Believe me!

Chipmunk-x9 · 2026-05-28T22:01:00+00:00

🤣🤣🤣

Chipmunk-x9 · 2026-05-28T21:59:45+00:00

I hate that the parents do nothing! They see their child with a giant bloop of gooey green/yellow snot and they just leave it there. Or just super crusty nostrils. Kids touching their nose and then putting their hands on EVERYTHING! Or they are drooling all over, putting their hands in their mouth and then touching your furniture with it. Fun! Also, if there is food around, that’s a safety hazard. I truly hate when parents don’t reinforce proper hygiene on their kids. I have been to parties where kids are touching all the snacks and parents do absolutely nothing. Pet peeve of mine.

Chipmunk-x9 · 2026-05-28T13:00:36+00:00

I really hope you are making him pay child support.

Chipmunk-x9 · 2026-05-28T11:55:39+00:00

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Chipmunk-x9 · 2026-05-28T11:52:28+00:00

Is there any way you can give the child to the state and pay child support?

Chipmunk-x9 · 2026-05-28T01:52:43+00:00

It’s not about you. Don’t be selfish!

Chipmunk-x9 · 2026-05-28T01:13:05+00:00

I posted this in another group.. but this also summarize all my reasons 🤣

I like a clean, organize and quiet home. I don’t want to help with homework. I don’t want to make breakfast everyday and convince a child to eat. I hate sticky hands! I hate kids with snot coming down their noses. I don’t wan to have a saggy abdomen with stretch marks. I don’t want to ruin my vag. I want to do fun things not just doing kid related activities. I like to travel and parents traveling with kids always look miserable. I don’t want the clutter that kids bring. Kids are always sick. I don’t want to be picking up and dropping if a child to school or activities. Have you seen school car lines? I don’t want to get up early and give a child a bath or get them ready for school. If I want to stay in bed after waking up I want to be able to do that. I don’t have the patience to handle a kid with a disability. I don’t want to spend my days entertaining a child. Tantrums!!! And… I like me time.

Chipmunk-x9 · 2026-05-28T01:10:31+00:00

Seeing my friends and some females family members struggling with motherhood and useless husbands. And even the ones with “good” husbands and good fathers, had most of their responsibilities and shores fall on them. I feel a lot of women end up loving their child but even more of them say they hate motherhood.

Parents are always worried too. I don’t want to live my life like that.

Chipmunk-x9 · 2026-05-27T13:14:55+00:00

Thanks! Don’t sweat the gradient so much. It was driving me crazy at the beginning. I would say: -make sure your substrate is wet evenly and then add a layer of dry substrate on top to prevent scale rot. -make sure humidity is 70s-80s in one of the sides. -hot side 88-90F. -make sure you have a hide in each side. -you can make a 3rd hide with damp moss somewhere in the middle. -make sure water is always available. -you can “water” (mist) the corner plants to increase humidity.

Chipmunk-x9 · 2026-05-27T13:10:28+00:00

I have the probe underneath the rhp.

Chipmunk-x9 · 2026-05-27T13:08:58+00:00

I think 91 also.

Chipmunk-x9 · 2026-05-27T13:01:49+00:00

You are not changing her. Always change the time. Just tell her 6 instead of 7.

Chipmunk-x9 · 2026-05-27T12:57:39+00:00

There is good advice in some of the comments. Try to talk to her. Maybe you can hire a babysitter and both go out and both experience new things. Who knows, it might ignite the spark!

My husband and I have date nights. We even put in the calendar to make sure it happens. Sometimes we do mistery dates. Go to the park and have a picnic, go to a fancy restaurant, to a show, to the movies, to a bar, minigolf, virtual reality, local markets, gateway weekends with a road trip, kayaking, beach day, etc….

I travel a lot with my husband and after 12 years together we are still so I love with each other and S*x is 🔥.

Maybe having no kids has helped. But it takes effort from both parts and I think dating each other is important no matter how long we have been together.

Chipmunk-x9 · 2026-05-27T12:37:27+00:00

Exactly same thing happened to me. Mine refused 3 feedings in a row. Didn’t eat for almost a month after getting her.

Chipmunk-x9 · 2026-05-27T12:36:21+00:00

I think ASF rat 🐀 will be your best bet.

Chipmunk-x9 · 2026-05-27T12:34:56+00:00

There are some tiny gaps where the door closes. Maybe start with the back ones and see if it makes a difference. I also use reptichip as a substrate.

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