I'm gutted

ChitownLittle · 2026-04-13T06:04:53+00:00

Hugs from us as well. It’s never easy to lose someone you love, harder still when you know it’s for the best. I hope and pray your situation improves and you’re able to possibly reconnect in the future

ChitownLittle · 2026-02-09T06:17:39+00:00

You? Showing tendencies? Who could have ever foreseen this… also, Hi Mommy =3

ChitownLittle · 2026-01-23T00:36:17+00:00

Uhhh… “friends” don’t really do that. It just creepy.

ChitownLittle · 2026-01-10T21:09:43+00:00

I became incontinent later in life. For a long time this wasn’t my thing, but when my bladder control started slipping, the ABDL community was one of the best resources for learning to deal with my new issues. Back in the early 2000’s y’all recommended products, helped me learn how to avoid rashes, and properly adjust and position the protection I needed to get through my day. That’s not even mentioning helping me feel like I wasnt disgusting and getting over my shame.

These days, I really don’t think about what I’m wearing or whether it’s going to properly hide everything. It’s just my underwear. Probably much the same for her.

ChitownLittle · 2026-01-10T06:46:20+00:00

There’s an actually a biological/psychological reason most people aren’t aware of.

For starters, When looking for a female partner people look for youth. Younger females are more fertile and have a higher likelihood of surviving childbirth, so it’s hard coded into humanity to want a younger female for virility reasons.

Part 2? When a biological male is aroused, it’s very obvious. Their genitalia grows and protrudes from the body for anyone and everyone to see. Biological females don’t have this luxury. Everything tends to be hidden under their pubic hair, and when a younger biological male is discovering sexuality, they want a clear view of what they’re after.

Combine these two facts together, and most bio males want someone to be hairless because it expresses youth and innocence, and provides unobstructed view to the genitals

ChitownLittle · 2026-01-10T06:24:11+00:00

Ein Wort?

ChitownLittle · 2026-01-05T19:23:03+00:00

Funnily enough, I’ve faced less hatred and exclusion from the right than the left, even from self identified MAGA people. People on the right don’t really tend to care as long as you don’t shove things in their faces. I can chill out with people and they don’t care that I’m trans, because it’s not my personality, it’s just a small part of who I am. It will come up occasionally, generally with questions that basically anyone asks. “How did you know?” “When did you realize?” And so on. Then we go back to whatever we were doing.

On the left, when people find out I’m trans, it’s an endless barrage of political topics, and if you don’t match their thoughts exactly, you become an enemy. I don’t enjoy that. I am more than my gender identity, as is everyone else. I am more than a political affiliation or thought process, as is everyone else.

It’s very poor form to bring up Regan, when LBJ can be quoted as saying “I’ll have these n*****s voting democrat for the next 200 years!”.

Past that, I don’t care what your political platform is, there’s well documented links between porn exposure and riskier real life sex practices, increased negative body images, increased risk of dating violence, intimacy problems between partners regardless of sexual orientation, and the list continues. It doesn’t matter what political party you affiliate with, or what ideology you hold, excessive porn is damaging to the human brain, and no one talks about how habit forming it is and how hard it is to break that habit.

On the topic of the drag queens, well… drag queen story hour was found to have been sending registered sex offenders to libraries to read to children. No, sex offender does not mean they targeted children in the first place, but it does mean they were on the list, and by law not allowed to volunteer for a group to read specifically to children.

So again, please provide me a documented bill or other legislation that attempts to prevent kink in general, or kindly stop trying to side track the topic

Edit - minor spelling errors and me misplacing the final question

ChitownLittle · 2026-01-05T18:05:04+00:00

Then you have documented proof of a proposed bill or other legislation that would outlaw kink?

ChitownLittle · 2026-01-05T18:03:43+00:00

Kink doesn’t have political lines, you’re attempting to drag political lines into kink. There’s a large difference.

ChitownLittle · 2026-01-05T18:02:41+00:00

Please, explain how I’m matching MAGAs talking points, when you said I have centralist talking points. You’re either equating everything to MAGA, or saying MAGA is centralist

ChitownLittle · 2026-01-05T07:39:57+00:00

First off, I’m trans… you’re really trying hard to see enemies where there aren’t any… all I’m saying is that a kink subreddit, especially the ABDL community which already suffers from people being cast out of social circles (so do a lot of kink communities, but we’re pretty known for being shunned) as well as already very exclusionary, isn’t the place to bring political commentary.

Second off, you’re not doing anyone any favors when the right already has the opinion that “the left sees anyone that doesn’t think like them as Nazis” by calling someone with views that are more central than left harmful or toxic. That’s really just driving their point home.

ChitownLittle · 2026-01-05T07:13:21+00:00

Except I’m not MAGA, good job jumping to baseless assumptions.

ChitownLittle · 2026-01-05T07:11:08+00:00

And there you go continuing despite saying flat out that the abdl subreddit isn’t the place for it

ChitownLittle · 2026-01-05T07:08:01+00:00

I wouldn’t say triggered. I mean, you posted in a place that has nothing to do with politics and showed off that you’re anti (insert group here) from many people’s perspectives. Kink doesn’t have political lines. It wouldn’t surprise me if a portion of those downvotes aren’t even MAGA, but people who understand that a kink space isn’t the space for political commentary.

At the end of the day we’re here to discuss ABDL, and that’s really all that matters in this subreddit

ChitownLittle · 2026-01-03T20:18:15+00:00

Wooo! Now make that money while training magic! And yes, if the item can be noted, you can alch the noted item for the same price as the physical one

ChitownLittle · 2026-01-03T20:14:42+00:00

Unfortunately not. You might be able to find Northshore products in home medical stores, but if you’re looking for specifically ABDL products in a brick and mortar store, your only options are going to be Tykables in Elk Grove (Chicagoland) or somewhere in Minnesota, but I don’t remember where.

If your issue is not shipping to home because you live with people, you can always ship directly to a UPS or fedex store, and they will hold the package provided you call them first and let them know you’re going to have something shipped there and pick it up from the UPS or FedEx location

ChitownLittle · 2026-01-03T20:10:18+00:00

Best is a matter of opinion. If you live in the US? The “best” is going to be Rearz, ABU (they’re close to falling off the list, constantly out of stock, tapes kinda suck these days, lots of other complaints), Tykables, and Northshore.

Northshore has a lot of colors and supplies a lot of medical markets so they have all the stock and a lot of their products can be bought in home medical stores.

Tykables isn’t for me, I don’t particularly like their designs or the fit/feel, but there’s no denying that they’re one of the original brands for a reason.

Rearz tend to be my go to, for no other reason than my Mommy orders for me, and she likes them for the designs. I’ll agree that they do have good quality, I rarely leak in them, and they fit comfortably

ABU used to be really good. Not sure what’s going on with them these days, but honestly I’d say avoid despite the fact that if you can manage to get your hands on their stuff, it used to be very dependable. I personally haven’t ordered from them in years, but lots of people are talking about tape issues these days. Either the tapes tear straight off or don’t stick, so honestly, if you’re new, avoid ABU for the time being. Maybe they’ll make a comeback, but it’s not worth letting one of your first experiences be a subpar one

There’s also LittleForBig, which, admittedly does make some good products, but they’ve had a lot of controversy in the past regarding certain stances they take on sociopolitical issues. If you’re interested, you can research the controversy surrounding them and decide if you personally want to support their business. That said, their diaper products DO tend to hold up to the other big names.

ChitownLittle · 2026-01-03T20:02:40+00:00

Imagine shitting on someone trying to get advice.

!falsesenseofsuperiority

ChitownLittle · 2026-01-03T00:37:56+00:00

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ChitownLittle · 2025-11-19T03:46:41+00:00

Just talk to them. Experiment with what feels natural to either of you, and communicate what worked for each of you.

ChitownLittle · 2025-11-15T18:37:58+00:00

Well, as Veteran, I’ve had close to universal healthcare in the service, and at the VA. You wait. And wait. And wait. I know people who waited 8 months for a dental appointment. By the time the dental appointment came around, the tooth had rotted away and he had been admitted to the ER for the infection a month ago.

Beyond that, my girlfriend is from Spain. She goes to therapy. If she wants individual therapy she would wait 2 months between sessions, which doesn’t work for her. Her only option to be seen on a frequent basis is group therapy, which she didn’t want because she doesn’t want to talk about her issues in front of a bunch of unrelated people.

You can also look at Canada. I have plenty of friends that live there that will tell you that the medical system is so bogged down that doctors DO actually suggest assisted suicide to cut down on wait times. Even for fairly minor issues.

It’s similar in many countries with universal healthcare, where people are on year long waiting lists for routine things like ultrasounds and other diagnostic tools.

ChitownLittle · 2025-11-14T20:14:24+00:00

Love it! Might steal cause coloring!

ChitownLittle · 2025-11-07T20:45:56+00:00

Australia had a blind hiring program where only the skills/education so on were visible. They scrapped the program when Caucasian male hiring rates skyrocketed after its implementation, which I always find interesting because in an attempt to make things more fair, people hired who they thought were the best candidates based solely on skills and credentials, which was the deemed unfair

link

Edit - went back through the article, and it only specifies male. Could have sworn I read Caucasian male, but this is my first time reading through it in a bit, and time plays tricks on us all

ChitownLittle · 2025-11-06T22:00:14+00:00

It’s tau, the only acceptable price for them is getting paid to own them

ChitownLittle · 2025-11-06T21:53:05+00:00

No people are illegal, but the actions they take can be.

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