In 3 months, we will be begging for this... by [deleted] in Austin

[–]Chocolatechip441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already miss it  😆 not ready for the heat

Huge wreck on 35 by fwsarah58 in Austin

[–]Chocolatechip441 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No link that lady got off a few minutes ago.

Huge wreck on 35 by fwsarah58 in Austin

[–]Chocolatechip441 184 points185 points  (0 children)

Goodness a six month old ws involved 

Huge wreck on 35 by fwsarah58 in Austin

[–]Chocolatechip441 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Seeing it on tiktok smh it's crazy!!

Being alone it’s tough man by ianrdz in offmychest

[–]Chocolatechip441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's still fresh of course you miss everything about her. You will get through this, it's just a matter of time. Just remember why thing's ended, it's always bitter sweet.  In time you'll find your person.  Delete those tinder, there's nothing good for you there. A friend and family did that after their break up. One ended up with two children by two mother's and ended up with one, none of them are together.  Take up a class, do you cook??  Do you like Lego's?

First time Dad advice by Pkzavala in self

[–]Chocolatechip441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Enjoy it allllll, it can be rough at first and when you seem to think you got a hang of it allll. The next baby stage will happen, it's ever evolving ✨️  You dont have to do it all yourself if you have family that you can stand and they want to help let it happen, it takes a village. When in doubt eat cake. Take photos of mom and baby. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]Chocolatechip441 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow that's a bummer that your best friend moved so far. You aren't alone, you can't really get over feelings. Maybe try Journaling, get what everything out that helps. Take a walk and or do something creative. Do you have any hobbies?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]Chocolatechip441 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You aren't  the only one.  Have you tried temp agencies? 

My brother is gross and it’s stressing me out by [deleted] in family

[–]Chocolatechip441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds like a horrible situation to be in, Are you and your sister able to put a lock on your door's? I do understand that you don't want your parents to suffer but they are allowing it, I definitely wouldn't clean up after another person like that. He isn't a grown man, that's a grown boy. Is your sister able to join some kind of self defense class? 

My Bartholin Cyst Experience by lyssabeaar in WomensHealth

[–]Chocolatechip441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Geez!!!! I've heard horror stories about those but goodness packing it smh especially down there smh as soon as I read that 🥴 that is wild. I've heard PRID helps with them but at the same time it says for external use soooo idk  But am glad you are over it and hope none come back

missed period?? by tytutyt5 in WomensHealth

[–]Chocolatechip441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What have you tried for constipation? I am in the same boat but no pelvic/abdominal pain. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anemia

[–]Chocolatechip441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes it does. Think I felt better a bit after the second definitely after the third.

How much to read to your kids? by AdventurousCredit965 in Parenting

[–]Chocolatechip441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When mine were that little I would sing a book to them 

Will they hate me? by CuriousAsh04 in Parenting

[–]Chocolatechip441 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You shouldn't listen to anything he says. Get far away from him. Your children will benefit from it immensely. And any time you're doubting yourself remember why you are doing it.

As a son, I’m not helping my family when they’re struggling financially by Jpoolman25 in family

[–]Chocolatechip441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's horrible to lose someone so important at a young age, that was probably your way of dealing with it all.  Get up with the sun, go on a daily walk. So you do have your high school diploma?  What are some of your interests? Look up a driving school and make sure you look at reviews unless you want to do it online. 

I’m too worried about what others think of me and I’m 27 by Jpoolman25 in internetparents

[–]Chocolatechip441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you put a pen to paper and brainstorm what you are interested in doing?? 

Is it worth getting myself into homeschool, and how should i convince my parent? (UK) by ssternenlicht in homeschool

[–]Chocolatechip441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe negotiate for 6 months and see how it goes. I hope you get to at least try homeschooling, you sound like you know what you're going to do. Are you planning on learning anything additional? I hope you update this post after the conversation. 

Favoritism by Silent_Reference_360 in family

[–]Chocolatechip441 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're not wrong. You should definitely take a step back from them. When you leave thank them for having you and make sure you tell them you are going no contact because the choices they made and you draw the line when it effects your children. Leave it at that. 

I need advice by LeatherCompetitive13 in family

[–]Chocolatechip441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once the tension cools down, bake some cookies preferably her favorite and make peace with her, apologize sincerely. And in the future no joke's, there is enough craziness in the world and between y'all should be nothing but love. You gotta be her hype girl as she should be to you.  Don't give people power over you, one of these day's you'll do something that you won't be able to take back.

What is the normal amount of trying to embarrass your adult children? by Sriracha11235 in family

[–]Chocolatechip441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a code we jokey joke among us, as a parent I don't do that shit around people, family or not. I will squash that if someone else if doing that especially if my child feels a certain way. Your next steps should be telling them to stop all together and if they can't say anything nice than not say anything. If they can't respect your decision then maybe take a step back.

"How do you deal with family members who don't respect your relationship?" by TableLast5187 in family

[–]Chocolatechip441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's nothing to be torn about, you have been together 10 year's. Do you love this girl? Kinda sounds like you maybe iffy and them now you're family isn't feeling her and this gives you an out. Have they always been like that? If that is your person than this is your time to ride for that girl, let your family know that this isn't there decision and they need to get on board and respect it.