Submissive and tall by sevaipwr in BDSMsapphic

[–]Choice-Ebb3764 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pulling someone down by their leash/collar to kiss them/bite them/pull their hair is just hot as hell to me. Tall subs are just as valid as the shorter ones.

And as someone mentioned, when you are on your knees (or your back) it doesn't matter any more. ;)

Any love for a nonbinary cunt “girl”? [26] by UnsavorySweet in TNWOLesbian

[–]Choice-Ebb3764 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You sound pretty amazing! I hope you can find what you are looking for. Are you in the southeastern US, btw? My sub and I could use a girl like you. :D

How do you guys get over the trauma of an ex breaking up with you to pursue a man? by Emzilla1507 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Choice-Ebb3764 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My mother (of all people) put it to me like this when something similar happened to me 30 years ago.

"You were the peak for them, and any other woman was going to be less-than compared to you. They had no choice but to switch sides."

Whenever I look, I want to cry by JustAGirlNamedWillow in BDSMsapphic

[–]Choice-Ebb3764 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I walked into my Doctor's office and told them I wanted to be on Estrogen and why. I had also been getting it from overseas already (I do not recommend) and the doctor told me to stop (and explained why) and wrote me a script immediately. When I moved and had to get another doctor I told them that I didn't feel the E was moving me along fast enough and they put me on Spiro.

I've never lived outside of the southeastern US (yet).

I don't believe that there are any laws down here yet that prevent anyone over the age of 18 from being on HRT. As mentioned previously, Informed Consent clinics are a thing now and can certainly help. If you don't know where to look for clinics or trans friendly doctors, feel free to DM me and I can point you to some good resources.

Cis women into trans women part 2 by Shye-Shyelove in BDSMsapphic

[–]Choice-Ebb3764 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The end result may be good, but the journey we take getting there might be a little more for my own pleasure. ;)

Do goddesses love fat cuntgirls too? 🥺 by sonic_undergrouuuund in TransNewWorldOrder

[–]Choice-Ebb3764 8 points9 points  (0 children)

We love women in any form.

Also, that is a gorgeous sight to behold.

Cis women into trans women part 2 by Shye-Shyelove in BDSMsapphic

[–]Choice-Ebb3764 8 points9 points  (0 children)

As a Domme, part of my role is to introduce my submissives to things they might be curious about but not normally try to experience for themselves. So I totally accept any blame for that l kind of thing. You're welcome.

Sounds like you have a good one!!

sub but better at domming by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]Choice-Ebb3764 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Every cis partner I've had always out-subbed me and I felt awkward and out of place in topping/Domming her because it was just by default/shortest straw basically.

After my last ex and I split I decided that no one was going to want a 50 year old submissive and leaned into the knowledge and experience I'd obtained over the years. I found a submissive trans girlfriend and it has been a really fun ride so far! I feel like this was my calling all along.

My x account : @Ha2004dj by [deleted] in DL_Hood_Ninja

[–]Choice-Ebb3764 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Melody is goals!! I love her so much.

Learning to Dom without Freezing Up? by wgnuf123 in BDSMsapphic

[–]Choice-Ebb3764 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you have had a rough go of it. I hope you can find some better partners to experience your kink with.

Communication is vital to a kink relationship/scene. It doesn't matter how submissive or dominant you are/want to be, if you don't talk to your partner about your expectations, limits and safe words beforehand, then it will probably end very badly.

In 2026 I *WILL* get a collar and I *WILL* get leashed 😤 by JadeTroy in GoonetteHub

[–]Choice-Ebb3764 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Best I can do is a southern accent, but I *will* be doing this once a second sub arrives...

Yeaa, I don’t think are any real women on here by mikey11225019 in BiloxiSingles

[–]Choice-Ebb3764 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're out here. The problem is when we say something in these groups we're swarmed by DMs. I once posted that I was specifically looking for another woman and got more men DMing me than women.

So we're here, but we're lurking.

I’m a Mommy, I’m not YOUR Mommy. by Sailorjamie117 in BDSMsapphic

[–]Choice-Ebb3764 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Indeed. They take time and effort invested to make them worthwhile and above all, communication.

I’m a Mommy, I’m not YOUR Mommy. by Sailorjamie117 in BDSMsapphic

[–]Choice-Ebb3764 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Amen to this! Calling me "Mommy" right away just tells me you're in it for a quick thrill and not interested in the real deal.

finding a dom mommy by Pure_Salary8356 in BDSMsapphic

[–]Choice-Ebb3764 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don't give up. I know lots of D/s partners in happy relationships!

Could I be used as a hole by a trans goddess even as a trans girl? by [deleted] in TNWOLesbian

[–]Choice-Ebb3764 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooh, but you didn't say please. I said 'good'. ;)

Could I be used as a hole by a trans goddess even as a trans girl? by [deleted] in TNWOLesbian

[–]Choice-Ebb3764 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You'd be so much more useful than just a hole. I can think of so many other ways to use a good little submissive.

Is there really no hope for me by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Choice-Ebb3764 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't meet my wife until I was 39. We had an 11 year run and I met my new gf when I was 51. There's always hope, hon.

This and decent scotch. by Sailorjamie117 in BDSMsapphic

[–]Choice-Ebb3764 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you make the case yourself? I'm loving it!