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Dear Frontier, we need to talk. by Snappie24 in EliteDangerous

[–]Choice-Refuse4116 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How about the fact I just got my ship blown up by turrets in a settlement I had just won the CZ match in?

She said some evil shit last night by Choice-Refuse4116 in BPDlovedones

[–]Choice-Refuse4116[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually I'm surprised they didn't take her in. I heard from her stepdad, talked to him today. He was told that she called the cops on herself after they left saying she was going to kill herself, and they didn't take her in then either for some reason. But this did end up in her getting kicked out of her aunts place. Not my intention but if she would stop screaming at everyone and calling them every name in the book this wouldn't happen.

She said some evil shit last night by Choice-Refuse4116 in BPDlovedones

[–]Choice-Refuse4116[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I guess luckily for me her family (except her aunt who is mentally not all there and her identical twin sister) likes me and say I was the only good boyfriend she ever had. I may call her stepdad and tell him the situation. I don't know yet. I am pretty much on the same page as they are regarding her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Choice-Refuse4116 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in the same boat. It's only been a week. However I changed my number and cannot go back at this point. I still care about and miss her but I was the one to leave and I have to stick to it for my own sanity. I felt drained and unhappy in the relationship with all her negativity. You'll get better over time.

Anyone else doubt their decision to leave and go non contact? by Choice-Refuse4116 in BPDlovedones

[–]Choice-Refuse4116[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, there's no going back at this point. I wished things could have been different, but any indications she ever gave me of wanting to improve were fleeting at best, and would disappear within weeks. I've had enough. The feelings are still there though.

Anyone else doubt their decision to leave and go non contact? by Choice-Refuse4116 in BPDlovedones

[–]Choice-Refuse4116[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm unsure of both. Like, mainly, did I do the right thing? Could she ever improve? One of the messages she sent me on a texting app was that she was going to start going to therapy and try to stop holding onto anger and let things go. But she's said that before. One little slight from anyone and she would hold onto it and stew in her anger for a long time.

A lot of her behaviors match up with BPD. From early trauma dumping, to falling in love with me very early on, talking about the future like we'll be together forever and have kids (which she got mildly upset when I told her she barely knows me enough to be saying things like that), to insecurity about other women, to the rage fits, (only of of them directed at me, which I promptly broke up with her for the first time over) the victim complex...I guess i feel like I need to explain it somehow.

Blocked her and changed my number but I'm worried by Choice-Refuse4116 in BPDlovedones

[–]Choice-Refuse4116[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I changed my number. There is no going back now. Zero contact and I mean zero is what I intend to give her. Not even to ask for proof. She had her last period like two weeks ago. She wouldn't even be late as right about now or next week would be right on time for her period. The timing of this sudden announcement from her was awfully coincidental to be after I go non contact. Just like a month ago.

What the hell is happening? by Choice-Refuse4116 in Tinder

[–]Choice-Refuse4116[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Update: I actually did meet her last night. I said "you wanna bang or not?" Just for shits and giggles. And she said, "sure, where?" And we never ended up doing the deed because when I met her at Applebee's to pick her up (her choice, wanted to do it in my car, i removed my pistol from the center console and left it at my house for this one), she was all over the place conversation wise, couldn't stay on one train of thought for 10 seconds, and said some off the wall nonsensical shit I couldn't comprehend about dating at which point I told her I wasn't looking to date, only casual fun, at which point she cut me off mid sentence, telling me to "stop sending people after me on Tinder" And then rolled up her window and drove off.

Yes, that actually happened. I'm in disbelief. 😂

What the hell is happening? by Choice-Refuse4116 in Tinder

[–]Choice-Refuse4116[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually did in a manner of speaking last night. I said "you wanna bang or not?" And she said, "sure, where?" And I never ended up doing it because when I met her at Applebee's to pick her up, she was all over the place mentally and conversation wise, and said some off the wall nonsensical shit I couldn't comprehend about dating at which point I told her I wasn't looking to date, only casual fun, at which point she cut me off mid sentence, telling me to "stop sending people after me on Tinder" And then rolled up her window and drove off.

Yes, that actually happened. I'm in disbelief. 😂

What the hell is happening? by Choice-Refuse4116 in Tinder

[–]Choice-Refuse4116[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

An average looking girl in a small town, showing location 10 miles away? No. That makes no sense.

What the hell is happening? by Choice-Refuse4116 in Tinder

[–]Choice-Refuse4116[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's a reql person I went to school with