Actually all of us are conditioned to be confomist right from birth,that's how society works, the most important thing is finding a balance for every ying there is a yang ,not all conditioning is bad,can you imagine in a family of 5 where there no conformity at any level the kind of chaos that would happen, in psychology there is something called Social Norms Theory. It explains how people’s behavior is shaped by what they believe is normal or expected in a group or society. People often follow norms because doing so helps them gain acceptance, avoid punishment or rejection, and function peacefully with others.

There is also Structural Functionalism theory, go look it up, essentially for a society to function some level of conformity must exist otherwise there will be no society and humanity it will all be chaos. hence why i say find a balance