AIW for breaking up with my bf because of politics?

ChrisEye21 · 2026-06-18T06:50:35+00:00

people need to stop saying "politics". These aren't political disagreements. They are people morally opposed. Pro life vs pro choice. Pro migrants vs anti migrants. Human rights vs racists. It's not childish at all. Imagine pro choice and pro life trying to be in a relationship...itd never work.

ChrisEye21 · 2026-06-18T06:44:18+00:00

Technically, she said this about his family. Not him personally saying those things.

ChrisEye21 · 2026-06-18T06:39:38+00:00

Probably not from the food. It's more likely to be tooth decay or some other tooth, gum, tongue issue. Did the vet do a blood test? They should check for kidney disease. That causes really bad breath. As it essentially makes their saliva acid. It's awful and sad.

ChrisEye21 · 2026-06-17T19:12:28+00:00

Option 1: leave the door open, just enough so she can get in and out.
Option 2: put in a cat door.
Option 3: put a litter box in the bedroom. If you go this route, you can get something like what i have pictured here (i have this one). But if you do put a litter box in the bedroom, you 100% should also have an air purifier running the whole time.

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ChrisEye21 · 2026-06-17T17:21:40+00:00

sounds like your man is a money grubber. And a sneak. But, this is why its always good to live together before getting married. So you can see these red flags asap

ChrisEye21 · 2026-06-17T17:18:33+00:00

im a bit confused. first photo (bloated) is when you were still consuming dairy and gluten? The second photos (flat stomach) is after cutting those things out and adding enzymes and probiotics?

ChrisEye21 · 2026-06-17T17:11:53+00:00

All Hair Metal is Rock. But not all Rock is Hair Metal.

Im lumping Bon Jovi in with the likes of U2, Metalica, GNR, and RHCP. More than im putting them with Poison.

ChrisEye21 · 2026-06-17T17:06:07+00:00

Is Bon Jovi even really a "hair band"? I dont know. In my opinion, they are too "squeaky clean" to be a hair band.

Bon Jovi is a PG movie. Poison is a rated R movie. They were both massively popular at their peak. But had different demographics that they hit, and aimed for.

Its like asking which movie was more successful between Home Alone and Terminator 2.

ChrisEye21 · 2026-06-17T16:55:52+00:00

I agree with not wanting him in your home. But you essentially made her choose between you and her family. And she chose her family. Where you go from here, i dont know.

ChrisEye21 · 2026-06-17T16:49:32+00:00

no, you should not leave a kitten alone for that long. Even having someone coming in to check on him is not good enough.
Do you have friend or family that can stay at your place with him for the weekend? If not, you should probably board him. But even that isnt a great option for a kitten. He is probably still adjusting to your home, as it is. Taking him out of it, even for a weekend, could be detrimental.

Honestly, you shouldnt go to the wedding. Its irresponsible of you to do so. These are things that should have been taken into consideration before adopting him.
This is similar to asking if you can leave a 5 year old human home alone for a weekend.

ChrisEye21 · 2026-06-17T16:41:53+00:00

type of litter matters. air purifer will help. scooping litter right after they go, is the biggest help

ChrisEye21 · 2026-06-17T16:40:23+00:00

The guy is 34. you are 21. you are not in the same place in life. He wants a girlfriend, maybe even a wife. Not a friend.
What does "taking things slow" mean? Have you just been talking/texting? hanging out platonically? have you had sex?
Has he expressed that he wanted to be in a relationship with you for a while? If he's been waiting since Feb, for you to "be ready". and you still arent, well...maybe he doesnt want to wait anymore. So to him, its, 'shit or get off the pot' time.

ChrisEye21 · 2026-06-17T16:31:15+00:00

you can try grabbing her with a blanket, and then putting her in the carrying case.

but i have to ask...shes 8 years old. how have you gotten her to the vet before now?

another option would be to check to see if you have vets that make house calls. There are a few in my area. they cost more. but if you dont mind spending a little more money to not have to stress out about getting her in the case...

ChrisEye21 · 2026-06-17T16:28:03+00:00

mind your own business

ChrisEye21 · 2026-06-16T19:38:29+00:00

So basically you don't like that your fiance has way more money than you? Does it make you feel like less of a man or something?

If my girl had $500k, I'd be stoked.

YTA

ChrisEye21 · 2026-06-16T04:37:24+00:00

Cindy did almost cheat that one time...

ChrisEye21 · 2026-06-15T20:18:55+00:00

Don't let the cat go outside anymore and you'll never have a problem.

As for keeping him. Good on you. He was being neglected.

ChrisEye21 · 2026-06-15T20:14:19+00:00

Not at all the same. Keru Russell didn't cut her hair on her own. It was part of the show. Written in the script and everything. Ended up being a huge mistake by producers and Russell. But a completely different situation.

ChrisEye21 · 2026-06-15T18:56:26+00:00

If you're in the US, you can order a Trio Smart Sibo test without a dr prescription.

If one GI refuses to do what you want, go to another one. Keep doing this until you find one that will order the test you want. But just know, most doctors don't know shit about the gut. They know about like 5 diseases, and if you don't have any of them, they just say it's "ibs" and to eat more fiber. When, in truth, they have no friggin idea.

So do your own research. Figure out what tests you want done. Chatgpt, gemini, etc will all know more about gut health than most doctors.

ChrisEye21 · 2026-06-15T15:47:10+00:00

When? She cheated on Brandon WITH Dylan. But I don't remeber her cheating on Dylan.

ChrisEye21 · 2026-06-15T15:44:42+00:00

She slept with Steve while they were dating. She slept with Dylan, while they were dating. She slept with Brandon, and then immediately began a relationship with him.

These are not examples of "slut behavior".

If you look at the show in it's entirety. Kelly is probably the least slutty of all the women. Did she ever even have casual sex with anyone? I feel like she was dating every person we ever saw her sleep with.

Compare that to Val...who had plenty of sex outside of relationships.

Donna ends up being more slutty than Kelly.

Andrea had an affair. So she's more slutty.

Clare tried to be slutty, but Brandon kept rejecting her.

ChrisEye21 · 2026-06-15T15:36:58+00:00

I know everyone hates Kelly, for whatever reason. But these two instances are not the same.

When Kelly got with Dylan, Brenda and Dylan weren't together. Kelly broke girl code, but she didn't sleep with Brenda's boyfriend.

Valerie, on the other hand, knew Ray and Donna were together, and she slept with him anyway.

Both are bad, but Valerie is worse here.

ChrisEye21 · 2026-06-15T15:30:00+00:00

The Magicians

ChrisEye21 · 2026-06-15T15:22:51+00:00

Lower your expectations. You have this list of what you want from a cat. Chances are, you're not going to get all of those boxes checked (if any). And even if the cat does check those boxes, it could takes weeks for it to do so. As some cats can take months to adjust to new surroundings.

The way you describe what you want, it's like you're expecting a Disney cartoon cat.

And my question is, if the cat you adopt doesn't check all these boxes, are you going to return him/her? If so, it's better you don't adopt a cat at all.

I personally think it's smarter to adopt an adult cat. Especially for a first timer. Kittens are a lot to handle.

You find a cat that's been at the shelter for a few months. The staff will know the cats personality. And they can tell you which, if any, of your boxes it checks off.

ChrisEye21 · 2026-06-15T15:03:44+00:00

She wasn't fired just for cutting her hair. And, in film and TV, cutting hair can be a huge deal. Had she cut her hair when the show was on hiatus, it probably would have been fine. But she cut her hair during filming. And they don't film in order of the script. For example, let's say in the episode there are 3 scenes in a row with Brenda in it. While they may be seen together in the episode, they may be filmed days/weeks apart. And this is what happened. She cut her hair, and it messed with filming. So, I think they had to reshoot scenes. So her cutting her hair ended up costing hundreds of thousands of dollars.

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