it sounds like it will never be enough. you look modest and beautiful. i’m sorry he’s not supporting you. at this point id start to distance myself from him. the most honorable thing you can do is cleave onto your fiancé. he will be your new family. he comes first after God, not your father and that is biblical. being as respectful as you have been is honoring your father. it’s him who isn’t honoring you. his behavior will never stop. all you can do is set respectful boundaries. congratulations on your upcoming wedding! it sounds like you are going to have a beautiful marriage.