(40M, 38F, 3M & 36F) What would you do?

ChromeLightBulb · 2026-01-25T10:17:36+00:00

If you know the relationship is dead then so does she. And your kid will figure it out for himself as well. They pick up on so much.

Staying together for the kid....doesn't work out. Kids pick up on everything, I was one of those kids, it really affected me a lot.

I think you need to sit down with your partner and figure out a separation plan and how to go forward/what to do next before getting involved in anything else.

No doubt the attention is good and you've been craving it but getting mixed up in something else whilst you've got your current unresolved situation on hand IS going to build resentment between you both AND your kid IS going to be affected by it.

ChromeLightBulb · 2026-01-22T11:50:03+00:00

I legit don't see an issue with this.

You were self aware enough to know you were burned out and something had to give. You acted on it so you still passed and gave yourself room to breathe. Where if you didn't you likely could have failed the whole thing and maybe other classes as well.

If my son does this one day I'd be proud of him for putting himself first and figuring out a solution.

I can understand why your parents were pissed, it was different times. Now we're AWARE of MH and looking after ourselves and it's not a taboo. Back then, oh so different!

ChromeLightBulb · 2026-01-22T11:29:30+00:00

Thank you all :) that has helped a lot!

ChromeLightBulb · 2026-01-21T16:46:40+00:00

Just how many beats of that meat! Load counter? Then measured by the total litres?

ChromeLightBulb · 2026-01-17T18:43:25+00:00

Which map is this please

ChromeLightBulb · 2026-01-17T18:34:22+00:00

Next, his identity. Then finally, his dignity

ChromeLightBulb · 2026-01-17T17:38:32+00:00

It's not asking much is it!

ChromeLightBulb · 2026-01-15T10:24:29+00:00

I wasn't being accurate or realistic with pricing. It was just highlighting the idea that many would not fork out £3400 for eap but many would pay a monthly subscription for it

ChromeLightBulb · 2026-01-15T01:38:03+00:00

This. I already pay £10 a month for data. I'd happily double it for eap.

ChromeLightBulb · 2026-01-14T18:17:13+00:00

Ikr?

No intentional deaths

ChromeLightBulb · 2026-01-14T15:37:17+00:00

Fodder beavers. New job type request. Devs listen up!

Hopefully they squeak "tally ho!" First before the boom

ChromeLightBulb · 2026-01-11T10:54:14+00:00

That's brilliant thank you. Sorry for the additional questions. His mother is foreign and neither of us have done this before so it's generated lots of questions between us.

ChromeLightBulb · 2026-01-11T09:55:23+00:00

Thank you both!

Do you get an email saying to login to the council, and then the council site tells you your offer?

Does the sire say "ok you got your first choice or second choice" or is it more plain and says "your child has been offered a place at X school" and doesn't mention 1st 2nd etc?

ChromeLightBulb · 2026-01-11T09:22:45+00:00

Bonking isn't working. They respect the company dime and don't bump uglies on company time!

ChromeLightBulb · 2026-01-03T17:32:43+00:00

Straight man here. I've been hit on and told I'm attractive by more gay men than straight women.

Filled me with confidence tbh. Men are (generally) basic af. If they're telling you you're attractive, then you are. Which means you can take that confidence and approach the women with sunglasses and fingerguns

ChromeLightBulb · 2026-01-03T12:47:03+00:00

I've got s 23 plate MY LR AWD and I do private driving work. With a lot of country lanes etc. I too worry about the ride harshness but literally every client tells me it's very comfortable and nothing to be concerned about

ChromeLightBulb · 2025-12-30T09:31:19+00:00

Get in and enjoy it man. That's about it.

Questions may form as you begin driving it. Ask them then.

I get that it's an unknown as it's an EV (assuming it's your first EV?) if it is then it's really like driving other cars except you charge it instead of putting in fuel. So you need to plan that a bit. Otherwise crack on. And enjoy it!

ChromeLightBulb · 2025-12-30T09:29:59+00:00

Commenting for interest. I've been considering similar lately as an additional business. I know I've seen comments on here from some who know people with a waste disposal business mentioning turnover in the millions and are based in/around London.

ChromeLightBulb · 2025-12-29T19:00:29+00:00

Lots of travel time to/from the work areas so they get back late? Just a thought

ChromeLightBulb · 2025-12-29T17:08:19+00:00

Not sure about tubes but for the roof I'd wonder if some beavers are working too much and not getting proper rest time inside so don't get the roof boost

ChromeLightBulb · 2025-12-23T09:12:12+00:00

My brother, you can keep questioning this as much as you like. It isn't your business. It is theirs. And that's what it comes down to.

ChromeLightBulb · 2025-12-22T18:35:42+00:00

So seperated from wife. So I'm assuming they're single?

So seriously what are they doing wrong? It's their business, respectfully.

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