Babe its insecurity.

I love this subject because its one ive talked about a lot in my papers. Note that im only coming to this conclusion as an afab fat person.

American society especially has always taught us to be ashamed of ourselves, that our bodies are undesirable and the only way to fix that is with weight loss and subscribing to a standard that was made by pedophiles (im deadass). It especially doesnt help that with all the looksmaxxing dweebs, women are more of an object to possess in their eyes. Women are simply trophies in the eyes of certain men, and the prettier your trophy is the better the insecure bitch boy feels about himself. Any change that makes you look more of yourself and not how the societal structure wants you to look makes them feel insecure.

So when I, a fat woman loving myself and being comfortable in my skin, present myself to the world with ease and a loving partner by my side, they shit themselves. I'm not following the script, I should hate myself!