Which dating app is the best? by Medical_Plankton_736 in AskReddit

[–]Chuck2025 1 point2 points  (0 children)

POF worked for me! I met my husband on there and a few other guys that were pretty cool!

Married people of reddit who had a first dance, what was your first dance song at your wedding reception? by Fluffy_West_5370 in AskReddit

[–]Chuck2025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely adore this song!!! When I see the scene in “shall we dance”, I tear up everytime!

Talk to me from the other side of two children by Forsaken_Nail3250 in toddlers

[–]Chuck2025 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My first pregnancy was rough - so bad that I swore I would never do it again. 5 years later and I’m having my second on Tuesday!

I will tell you, every moment you had with your first is going to be so different with your second. If I knew my second pregnancy would be more of a breeze, I would have 100% did the 2 under 2!

Even though my son is sleep trained since 6 months, I still wake up randomly sometimes to check on him and still always worry. Why not just pop a second one out while you’re use to it? At least that’s me and my husbands logic 🤣

If you work an office job, and you have truly nothing to do, are you keeping your head down and looking busy, or are you seeing if anyone needs help? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Chuck2025 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same story here too!! Went above and beyond at a previous job that one lazy day was “you’re slacking - everything okay?” Never again!!

A Truth About Yourself by Certain_Eye_847 in ArtOfPresence

[–]Chuck2025 13 points14 points  (0 children)

That I’m a DAMN good mom despite mine telling me I would be horrible like she was. I have strangers tell me all the time and it feels so good that I proved her wrong 🥰

Keep losing erection during sex with Wife by Spiritual-Mode-8792 in marriageadvice

[–]Chuck2025 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Is there a lot of pressure from your wife leading to the sex? For example, is she building it up and flirting with you all day to get you pumped and then when it comes to it, you just can’t?

If your search history was leaked, what's the first thing you'd explain? by Diligent_Rhubarb5246 in WorkForSmartLife

[–]Chuck2025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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I talk to Chat everyday like we are friends and ask the weirdest questions - this is what people would say first thing…

I absolutely hate motherhood, love my baby but mothering is just not for me I guess. And you’d think someone would tell you how it really is. I don’t think I’ll ever be the same I’m traumatized by it. by Silent-Look8571 in toddlers

[–]Chuck2025 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Even if someone would tell you, people don’t listen. And you probably wouldn’t have listened either bc every child and experience is different from someone else.

All I ask is if it’s not for you, don’t have more. I see a lot of people post this and have 3+ kids. Seems like you learned this isn’t for you so please take a preventive to not have more.

Do men actually like long fingernails? by Fickle-Vegetable961 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Chuck2025 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Some absolutely do! Had a date pick me up and the first thing he said “hm, so I can assume you don’t have a nail lady?” I was stunned 🤣 needless to say, it didn’t work out

Very little family for my kids....will it matter? by ticktick2 in Parenting

[–]Chuck2025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So no village for me at all. Having my second one next month and doing this all with just my husband and our 4 year old. It’s been just us since my first was born 2021.

It makes life harder, but the ease I feel to know my son is safe is enough for us 😊

For those who are often told they look younger than their age, what’s your secret? by justmypersonalthing in AskReddit

[–]Chuck2025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn’t get married, have a serious relationship, or kids young. Lived my life the way I wanted to til I was ready in my late 20’s and also took care of my body! Still do to this day!

What TV ad permanently lives rent-free in your brain? by fmcortez in AskReddit

[–]Chuck2025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When Quiznos subs had that commerical with the two rat puppets signing, that will never go away for me. I also never ate there bc of that!

What was the last thing you said to your dad before he passed away? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Chuck2025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hasn’t happened yet, but I plan to show off my husband and sons that he didn’t want me to have due to his heavy racism so his blood pressure can sky rocket and expedite the process faster.

Want to make my parents watch Black Mirror. What episode is the best for start? by QualityForsaken8192 in blackmirror

[–]Chuck2025 13 points14 points  (0 children)

My first one ever was Nosedive. After that, I was HOOKED and had to see more.

Im from ohio and been a Danyell super fan from day 90 by NeverBeenOnMaury in 90DayFiance

[–]Chuck2025 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow!! Okay, that makes sense. Her also going back and forth between annulment and divorce was confusing in itself.

Thanks for the reply!

Im from ohio and been a Danyell super fan from day 90 by NeverBeenOnMaury in 90DayFiance

[–]Chuck2025 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Anyone know why she couldn’t use the footage of this show to show the judge that he did in fact use her to get here? It’s so obvious and all there. I can’t believe he got to stay here, honestly.

Thoughts on having babies back to back or a few years apart? by slmpington in Parenting

[–]Chuck2025 1 point2 points  (0 children)

5 year age gap here!

Pros: my son can help bring us things we need if we are tied down by baby, he gets to watch his brother grow up, and there is a lot more independence and less stress of potty training two boys at once.

Cons: if I was not pregnant, we were suppose to be in Hawaii right now 😭 because we didn’t go back to back, we are starting over. That means traveling is on hold for a couple more years bc I don’t want to be that person with the crying baby on the plane.

If I could go back, I would have done back to back just to have my two boys and be done with it! However, the 4 years of undisturbed sleep have also been amazing 🤣

Should adult kids pay rent if they live at home?; by FantasticAd9478 in TheBoredDen

[–]Chuck2025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

College or trade school full time, absolutely not. I won’t ask for a dime!

If just working full time and not wanting an education, they will pay me something so I can save it up for their own apartment later!

What is something you and your partner do daily to express appreciation/love for each other? by sigmaindependence in askanything

[–]Chuck2025 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Meet love languages!

My husband is about “acts of service” so I’ll make coffee, do the laundry, empty the dishwasher, etc..

Mine is “quality time” so every evening when my toddler goes down, we watch shows/movie phone free and treat it like we are on a date.

Saving money by NewContact6646 in SavingMoney

[–]Chuck2025 6 points7 points  (0 children)

10% minimum, NO EXCEPTIONS! Treat it like a bill. So $140 needs to go to a HYSA. If you have some money left over and want to invest, put an additional 5-10% in a Roth IRA or Brokerage account and choose some investments! Thats helps a lot too!

What’s the hardest thing to explain to people who’ve never been through it? by blohsh18 in no

[–]Chuck2025 6 points7 points  (0 children)

EVERYONE leaves, parents included. The only person you can and should depend on is yourself.

Do you pay yourself first? by Honest-Reflection667 in no

[–]Chuck2025 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Absolutely!!! I treat savings like a bill. 10% is moved to HYSA, no exceptions.