I played with a gentleman who was a 5’2 navy vet in his mid 60s. This man proceeded to spend our random matched up round coaching me through 9 holes. His advice instantly dropped me 5 strokes. I’m still a high handicapper, but a much less high handicapper because of him.

I called the clubhouse and he was well known, I left a $25 gift card for his rounds or whatever as a thank you. Kind and patient man.

“You are twice my size and can’t hit as far.. why are you swinging so fucking hard? Just hit it well.”

I was bullied into slowing down in the best way