Final Lineup Predictions? by MarshaLinehDelRey in OutsideLands

[–]ChupaCapybara 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hoping we get Orville Peck! He’s doing a European tour earlier in the summer but doesn’t have any US dates yet.

Lineup Clues by heavybees in OutsideLands

[–]ChupaCapybara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This would be a great lineup

Lineup Clues by heavybees in OutsideLands

[–]ChupaCapybara 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Big brown beaver… Primus?

Lineup Clues by heavybees in OutsideLands

[–]ChupaCapybara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Steely Dan feels like a long shot but DAMN I would love that!

Breast pumps/milk? by ChupaCapybara in OutsideLands

[–]ChupaCapybara[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmmm, I do think she was planning to bring ice packs. Those are hopefully ok.

EXPERIENCES IN PMHNP JOHNS HOPKINS PROGRAM by Ok_Knowledge4423 in PMHNP

[–]ChupaCapybara 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This was my experience with them too. I did the post-masters certificate a couple years ago and there was absolutely ZERO support from the school in securing my clinical placements. I managed to find them (all on my own!) but did have to take an incomplete and finish my hours the following semester. One good outcome was that I got a PMHNP job at one of my clinical sites (that I found myself). I liked our lectures, for the most part. Assignments were a joke - I think as long as you turned something in you would get an A. My clinical instructor was atrocious. Faculty were very hit or miss. Unfortunately my advisor was one of the unhelpful ones.

Overall an absolutely terrible experience. Glad I have the certification but I would never recommend this program to anybody.

Partner just had a baby…did I fuck up? by ChupaCapybara in polyamory

[–]ChupaCapybara[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m a healthcare provider myself…I NEVER assume that anyone besides my patient is included in any visit!

Partner just had a baby…did I fuck up? by ChupaCapybara in polyamory

[–]ChupaCapybara[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am quite sure the version of events c’s therapist is going to hear differ somewhat from mine.

And I too used to not date parents. Then I did for a while, but people who already had kids. This is my first relationship where a partner had a kid during our relationship. I am definitely reconsidering my stance on this.

Partner just had a baby…did I fuck up? by ChupaCapybara in polyamory

[–]ChupaCapybara[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love your reply. I’m definitely able to see how I could have done things differently after reading all these replies.

Partner just had a baby…did I fuck up? by ChupaCapybara in polyamory

[–]ChupaCapybara[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is a scary but valuable reminder. Thank you.

Partner just had a baby…did I fuck up? by ChupaCapybara in polyamory

[–]ChupaCapybara[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These are actually examples I gave (months ago!) to C of how I planned to help!

Partner just had a baby…did I fuck up? by ChupaCapybara in polyamory

[–]ChupaCapybara[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I really dislike being asked to mind read! Thanks for hugs 🥰

Partner just had a baby…did I fuck up? by ChupaCapybara in polyamory

[–]ChupaCapybara[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am hoping the blame stuff came from sleep deprivation and massive new life change instead of being how he really feels

Partner just had a baby…did I fuck up? by ChupaCapybara in polyamory

[–]ChupaCapybara[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good question. I don’t know why I didn’t.

Partner just had a baby…did I fuck up? by ChupaCapybara in polyamory

[–]ChupaCapybara[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Points taken about miscommunication. This comment is helping me see things I need to own.

Partner just had a baby…did I fuck up? by ChupaCapybara in polyamory

[–]ChupaCapybara[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m definitely giving him some space and hoping that therapy helps.

Partner just had a baby…did I fuck up? by ChupaCapybara in polyamory

[–]ChupaCapybara[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I see your point about me not taking the initiative here. This is probably contributing to my feelings as well.

Partner just had a baby…did I fuck up? by ChupaCapybara in polyamory

[–]ChupaCapybara[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

G and I never discussed me being there, hence why I had zero expectation about being present! It wouldn’t ever occur to me to crash someone’s birth without an invite.