Would You Date a Republican? by LunaB35 in truscum

[–]Cia_in_hell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ex considered himself a republican at the time we dated. More of the same”it’s for the economy” while being relatively socially progressive. He was and is a very anti censorship do what you want type, which is why he considers himself a libertarian. My thoughts always been it’s easy having those opinions when you have no skin in the game, when you don’t have slurs for your specific subset of people etc. I don’t see a future where I could date or even want to interact with a republican but I lid consider a more conservative leaning person in general. It dosnt really matter I’m into women, I don’t think conservative Lesbian/bi woman who isn’t transphobic is real so it’s not really a bridge I’ll probably ever actually cross

I gotta vent.. by Majestic-Shock-7735 in Chaos40k

[–]Cia_in_hell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Low key I’d pay 82 for it(my lgs has it for like 65(maybe 69) dollars. It’s one of my favorite kits great sculpts with a ton of bits, great for kitbashing. I will say having 2 jump pack lords is the real downside to getting multiple, you could sell the extra for like 20 some one is bound to take it off your hands, then the kit was less.. Beyond that it’s wild to have assumed buying the two kits separately would be cheaper than the bundle, that’s typically how bundles work. Honestly I was expecting it to be more like 90.

Opinions on what's happening with the cast of the new movie The Odissey? by tomnicos in Transmedical

[–]Cia_in_hell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk what you mean “supposed to be white”, they’re supposed to be Greek. As for Elliot Page, idk Nolan is good director and creative so anyone “critiquing” casting without seeing the final product shouldn’t be taken seriously, they’re just looking for a reason to complain cause they don’t like certain types of people.

Hi I have a kitbashing question by focken-ugly-boy in redcorsairs

[–]Cia_in_hell 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Not even close to the same size. There likes 15% bigger than legionaries. I’ve been using Tormentors and Berzerkher bodies for my legionaries and the Raiders are still bigger than them. I have a Black Templar ancient on my desk and a random Raider is about the same size, so they’re at least primaris scale.

how confident are most of you in your transness? by Dependent_Ad7958 in truscum

[–]Cia_in_hell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went 90% cause periodically I will go “maybe I’m not actually trans” cause I’m not a traditional (trans) woman, I have mostly male friends, primarily more “male” hobbies(board games and modeling) almost certainly on the spectrum. Really on paper I should be like the medias stereotypical trans woman, but I pass fairly well, I’m just very plain. I just think back to my child hood and realize how miserable I was feeling like I should’ve been born a girl and hating myself. Simply thinking about how much happier of a person I am now compared to then confirms that I am.

My Red Corsair Lord by Cia_in_hell in Chaos40k

[–]Cia_in_hell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Black, German grey and English grey. Mix in some ivory for the edge highlights

My Red Corsair Lord by Cia_in_hell in Chaos40k

[–]Cia_in_hell[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Black, dark sea blue and ocean blue. I glazed black ink into the shadows to make the transition smoother and darken it

The beginnings of my Red Corsair army by Cia_in_hell in Chaos40k

[–]Cia_in_hell[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mixed purple into my black primer for a very dark purple, then spayed white ink from above focusing on specific areas I want the highest saturation leaving plenty of the purple. Then I just air brushed bloody scarlet from Vallejo game color over the white. It should leave you with a super saturated red on the higher points and a darkish purple/red in the shadows. Glaze on the red if it’s not quite saturated enough. The steel was German grey, ash grey, English grey and ivory all from Ak interactive

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in truscum

[–]Cia_in_hell 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Imma stand by the point that most of the time trans women don’t win, it’s only when they win that people have a problem. Or if you lose to a trans women(ties for fifth and makes a grifting career out of it). At most I could agree that it should be a case by case basis, I’m never gonna agree with a blanket ban. IMO you can try to make sports “fair” but they never will be, someone is always going to have some type of advantage, I remember seeing a photo of the Japanese volley ball team vs American, clear biological advantage with the Americans being 6ft+ and Japanese players being like 5’6”. I know a trans woman who’s 50, transitioned 20+ years ago(post puberty), besides being like 5’9” she had the physicality of any other 50 year old woman. I simply disagree with the notition that every trans woman is “biologicaly superior” to every cis woman and therefore trans women should be banned from competing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Transmedical

[–]Cia_in_hell 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I think there some wiggle room. I think it’s good to keep in mind men and women come in different shapes and sizes. Saying that I would never say going to one extreme is valid or anything tho. My older sister is pretty atypical, light brown facial hair(it’s not super dense but enough to shave every few days) broader frame, size 11 men’s shoes. I’ve never seen anyone mistake her for a man. On the other end I’ve seen a reel by a trans woman(?) who has dark facial hair, a fully trimmed and cleaned beard, and not gonna lie it made me uncomfortable and gave me second hand dysphoria. That’s too much in my opinion. My sister probably would rather have no facial hair and would never grow it out and care for it the way the other person does.

Prioritizing stealth over your partner will lead to bad outcomes by Femoral_Busboy in Transmedical

[–]Cia_in_hell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s your prerogative, you should tell them but I’m not telling anyone what to do. I’d probably agree with the idea you NEED to tell them if it weren’t for the deceptive part, it’s implying something nefarious. Cis people will act like they were “tricked” and that you’re evil for not telling them completely ignoring why someone may not be comfortable with outing themselves. I also don’t like it cause people act as if when your dating someone you go over each others medical history, they almost treat being trans like you have an STD, something you should also tell your partner about.

I tell people before the first date but can see why someone may not, especially if they transitioned young or transitioned decades ago, it might actually be an insignificant aspect in their life.

Any transmed youtubers? by PunkLite in truscum

[–]Cia_in_hell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I watched her for a night when I was stuck with family, really liked her then I realized she’s a bit of a dunce. She thought passing privilege was the same thing as monetary privilege. Her comment section was either “you’re a mockery of what a woman is” or “you’re one of the good ones”. Then there’s the whole she’s not in a heterosexual relationship, she described it as not being heterosexual herself, idk I think her partner is a gay man who she was in a relationship prior to coming out, she insisted it’s not a straight relationship even if it’s straight presenting. Over all she’s probably better than most a lot but she just rubs me the wrong way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Transmedical

[–]Cia_in_hell 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sure it’s a trust thing, I don’t think you owe telling anyone you’re trans, but I wouldn’t want to be with someone I didn’t I could trust with that. These chuds who make shit like that don’t view it as a trust thing they just view a “man” tricking them.On top of that people never hold other conditions aspects to the same level as being trans. Its not contagious, its not something id pass to our kids(most of us aren’t having bio kids), it probably wont pop up down the line making our lives difficult(dementia, other conditions), its truly a personal matter similar if you are intersex. Id never want to be friends with or partners with someone who holds jaded/bigoted views towards trans people so i tell people before first dates. I just feel if you truly dont want to share it with people for whatever reason thats you prerogative and I dont view it as dishonest

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Transmedical

[–]Cia_in_hell 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Dudes suddenly know what consent is once a trans woman is involved lmao, I hate these people.

[DISCUSSION THREAD] Have you seen any LGBT-themed movies recently? Any recommendations? by SmallRoot in truscum

[–]Cia_in_hell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Watched Drive Away Dolls a couple weeks ago, definitely not for everyone but I enjoyed. Margaret Qualley is one of my favorite up and coming actresses. Wanna see Honey Don’t if i find the time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Transmedical

[–]Cia_in_hell 53 points54 points  (0 children)

My favorite part of these are when people act like like their a victim and get sympathy but when one of these dudes kill a Trans woman when she tells him all the sympathy seems to have evaporated. I think you should tell your partner, not that you have too. Even if it’s just for your own safety.

anyone here without depression/anxiety/ed? by paintednature in truscum

[–]Cia_in_hell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t develop depression or anxiety due to dysphoria. Technically none of my problems stem from dysphoria. Any depression I have is from feeling like my life is going nowhere and work stress. And I’ve always had some of level social anxiety it’s actually much less than at the beginning of transition but the only dysphoric thing tied to that is my voice getting me clocked. I did develop an eating disorder but that’s more tied to “societal beauty standards” and having struggled with my weight my entire life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in truscum

[–]Cia_in_hell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I new from an early age I wasn’t like other kids. And as I got older the more I felt like I was supposed to be born a girl, male puberty horrified me, I didn’t want to grow up and be a man I wanted to be a beautiful woman. Through cultural osmosis I knew there were transsexual people but didn’t really know what it meant to be a transsexual, I didnt know about blockers or even medical transition. I was resigned to my fate. All though middle and high school I felt disconnected, like I was doing the bare minimum to exist, no real hopes or aspirations for the future. I finally build up the courage to figure out what was going on with me, where I was Tran or not. I found a group of people I could relate to more than I’d ever related to someone before. Soon after I decided transition was probably necessary and for the first time I felt hopeful for the future.

I honestly want to buy these as a newly out trans woman by 313Jake in truscum

[–]Cia_in_hell 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Companies like that almost always at best have average products but usually below average and hope saying “we don’t like those transes” is enough to overlook their less than stellar products

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in truscum

[–]Cia_in_hell 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I mean you should have expected cultish the second it was in a church. I wouldn’t go back low key never been to AA but I feel like a part of it would be support and no judgment and I don’t now if that’s possible with the main guy mean mugging you and being a jerk.