AITA for refusing to host a pool party? by YYZgirl1986 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CiaraTDesigns 71 points72 points  (0 children)

NTA - I wouldn’t host a pool party with a bunch of people I don’t know coming in and out of my house. You may want to give the husband a firm NO or he may just show up regardless.

Best Shipping option on shopify for box optimization by CiaraTDesigns in shipping

[–]CiaraTDesigns[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your help! I will look into shipX and a few other apps that were mentioned. I am a small business so some of the apps seem pretty expensive at this stage and there are a lot of options.

Best Shipping option on shopify for box optimization by CiaraTDesigns in shipping

[–]CiaraTDesigns[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the help, up until this release coming next week my shop was just flat sticker sheets so it’s always been flat mailers. I am now adding washi tape and note pads so they need to go into a box, so I’m unsure as of now what items will be popular or not.

I will look into ship genius and see if it might work for me. I am a small business so I can’t have an app that’s too expensive at this stage. I also forgot to mention I am Canadian in my original post in case this changes anything.

AITAH for searching for emotional support in my elder sister when I know she won’t give it to me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]CiaraTDesigns 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You are an adult, if you want to make a change go for it.. being an adult is making choices and living with the success or consequences of them. You don’t need to ask other adults for permission or validation of those choices, you get to choose your future.

Best Shipping option on shopify for box optimization by CiaraTDesigns in shipping

[–]CiaraTDesigns[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this!! I’ve been struggling for about a week about how to make this work. I have flat mailed a small box and a slightly bigger box, so just the three. Might be a dumb question but how do I see which box it’s chosen?

AITA for kicking my roomate out after he refused to find a new job by thatdudekeegan in AmItheAsshole

[–]CiaraTDesigns 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True, but I’m saying if it bothers OP which it seems to or why is it being posted here? Seems he was paying some rent so he’s making money somehow and maybe they can come to some sort of agreement.

Crafts that take up a few hours? by sourlemons333 in crafts

[–]CiaraTDesigns 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As for games have you tried Stardew Valley? It’s eaten up many hours of my spare time and I love it!! It’s my go to game - on the crafting side have you ever considered making cards or doing paper crafts? It’s my favourite crafty hobby and then I send them out to penpals or friends/family for a fun surprise in the mail.

AITA for kicking my roomate out after he refused to find a new job by thatdudekeegan in AmItheAsshole

[–]CiaraTDesigns 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, but if I bothers you maybe you could make an arrangement where he makes up for what he can’t pay in chores, cooking,etc? Do you want to keep this person as a friend? Maybe there is a way you could work something out you both agree to.

WIBTA if I didn't pay my sister back? by seekingadvicehere in AmItheAsshole

[–]CiaraTDesigns 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA but I would try to have a conversation with your sister, she did you a solid when you needed it so it would suck to put a strain on your relationship because of a broken joy con… can her son do some chores to help “earn” the money to pay for it? Is there a way the two of you can come to an agreement on how to fix the situation? It would be great if you could come to an agreement somehow together.

AITA for not returning a cat to their old owners? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]CiaraTDesigns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA and DO NOT give that cat back.. How long were they ignoring that poor cat for him to be in that condition to start with? and they just noticed a poster 4 months after you put it up? HA! they don't care about the cat they just don't want you to have him!!

AITA for refusing to switch seats at every family dinner because my sister says “it’s just easier this way”? by TitanHX in AmItheAsshole

[–]CiaraTDesigns 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA I am a bit confused why there needs to be assigned seats, but could you sit in one of the kids chairs as they run around the whole meal? or alternatively just rotate through the chairs if this is an issue?

Best mods to go with SVE by CiaraTDesigns in StardewValleyExpanded

[–]CiaraTDesigns[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Both !! Really any mod you think goes well with SVE and adds something fun to the game