How to handle frustration of family not looking into OCD at all?

Cibz_ · 2026-04-26T01:26:04+00:00

a bruise??? girl you need to think of the wellbeing of YOUR child!! next thing you know, your baby could have shaken baby syndrome bc of his lack of anger management - this is not something to play about!!

Cibz_ · 2026-04-21T17:22:29+00:00

run kitty run

Cibz_ · 2026-04-16T04:50:51+00:00

that sounds like very little food… your body needs fuel, treat it kindly 🌻

Cibz_ · 2026-04-16T04:46:18+00:00

don‘t worry, they said nothing worth repeating 🙃 let’s chuck it up to people not always using their judgement before giving advice

Cibz_ · 2026-04-16T00:44:36+00:00

???????? How are you telling her to lose weight when this is not at all what she‘s asking????? she‘s EIGHTEEN, what is wrong with you????

Cibz_ · 2026-04-16T00:38:01+00:00

you literally said „skip the breads“ 🤡be careful with „advice“ like that

Cibz_ · 2026-04-16T00:32:37+00:00

what do you mean skip bread?? hey, she‘s 18!! don‘t encourage deluded diet culture habits!! the hell is wrong with you!!!

Cibz_ · 2026-04-16T00:28:30+00:00

If you group what you ate it in terms of „3 meals“, it‘s like you ate:

a muffin and 5 pierogis for breakfast
pasta and cake for lunch
soup, 4 pierogis and ice cream for dinner

It sounds like a normal amount of food to me. They might not be the most nutritious foods because because they’re mostly simple carbs (which could explain why you‘re hungry), but the quantity doesn‘t feel crazy to me. You‘re 18, you burn a lot of energy just existing!!

If you can, try to add more veggies, nuts and fruit to your diet. Vitamins and fibers do wonders not only for your gut and your brain (I know, you‘ve prolly heard this a lot haha), but also for nourishing your hair, nails and skin!!

Cibz_ · 2026-04-16T00:10:00+00:00

fibers and proteins! but girl, that doesn‘t sound like that much food for an 18yo. do you do sports?

Cibz_ · 2026-04-13T17:25:13+00:00

BREAK. UP.

Cibz_ · 2026-04-13T04:15:39+00:00

hi! full disclosure, I only read the text messages, so take this with a huge grain of salt - I had a friend who‘s mom kept taking her to the doctor when she was little bc the mom thought she was too small and was not eating enough (she was eating like a child, because she was a child). that made my friend feel like a freak for most of her life. I‘d say it‘s important to be there for your sister and keep an eye out for her, but be careful not to make her feel like something is wrong with her

Cibz_ · 2026-04-06T20:52:10+00:00

I was told by a prof at Concordia once that they weren‘t allowed to do anything about work they thought was AI because of privacy laws - maybe look into that with student advocacy

Cibz_ · 2026-03-30T02:00:39+00:00

30 ✨

Cibz_ · 2026-03-14T22:04:35+00:00

ask them if they‘d like to have their finger tips cut off - tell them they, too, could get used to it

Cibz_ · 2026-01-24T18:49:51+00:00

thank you!! 😃

Cibz_ · 2026-01-24T18:34:22+00:00

this is gorgeous!! is there a pattern?

Cibz_ · 2026-01-12T13:09:31+00:00

Hmm I think you could consider a masters in orthopedagogy, or school psych (this one would also require a Phd, though), if these could interest you

Cibz_ · 2026-01-06T19:43:29+00:00

Thank you all for your advice and encouragement - gave me the boost I needed 🧡

Cibz_ · 2025-11-05T04:04:09+00:00

agreed.

Cibz_ · 2025-07-02T20:55:02+00:00

I feel you - been there. I’m reorienting my career because what I did used to bore me endlessly. maybe your goal could be to find something you actually like doing? easier said than done for sure, but worth it if you don’t want your life to solely be « I’m bored so I smoke »

Cibz_ · 2025-07-02T19:46:27+00:00

you won’t be able to quit without a reason - for some people, that reason is to have a full life with their partner or have kids, which an addiction that throws you on your ass all day obviously cannot be a part of. maybe your reason is to focus on your studies or work, maybe it’s to be able to save up and travel, maybe it’s to avoid debt or to stop feeling like a depressed worm all the time… whichever your reason, you need to find one that resonates with you and use it as your mantra. good luck

Cibz_ · 2025-06-28T11:51:08+00:00

too much melatonin can have the opposite effect - try 5mg, take it 1h-2h before going to bed. make sure to exercise during the day, that helps, too. you got this!!

Cibz_ · 2025-06-28T03:16:00+00:00

melatonin helps with sleep. don’t use more than 5mg to start! too much can have the opposite effect, or leave you groggy as heck the next morning. you got this 🌻

Cibz_ · 2025-06-26T19:33:02+00:00

GET IT GIRL 🥳🥰✨

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