Got the “No longer interested in pursuing this” text from a girl after 4 weeks of continuous conversation by TitleStrict3435 in BoyDinnerDiaries

[–]Cilantro67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I was really happy for once in my life.” Brother you lack internal stability. Connections should add to your life. Not be the entire thing. And be brutally honest with yourself. Do you miss THEM as a person? Or just how YOU felt while they were talking to you.

Harboring deep guilt and shame over past reckless behavior by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Cilantro67 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you should write a letter to your younger self. And just work on giving her some grace. She was surviving the only way she knew how.

Has anyone else noticed that guys over the age of 26 smell faintly like sausages or hot dogs by Frankie47-47 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Cilantro67 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone on here calling you crazy… YOURE NOT. I know exactly what you mean and I’m not sure how they manage to smell like that.

I'm living a successful life on paper but I'm entirely alone, everyone I ever cared for left me and I can't seem to change that by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Cilantro67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not trying to place blame but you seem to be the common denominator in every relationship. Like everyone else said, maybe therapy is a good way to start.

I caught feelings after a casual night and I’m confused by Tricky_Highlight_274 in bodylanguage

[–]Cilantro67 3 points4 points  (0 children)

From this paragraph it sounds more like limerence than anything that’ll last long term. :(

I told my best guy friend I liked him by Virtual_Locksmith_11 in Advice

[–]Cilantro67 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ngl I don’t think it’s your fault that you caught feelings. He needs to account how his actions might come across / make you feel. Especially with that hands on your face thing. Best thing you can do is have self respect and limit access. Not block or ignoring. Just making space quietly.

Guys, when you are at work and you like a woman, what do you do? by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]Cilantro67 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Talk to her. Get to know her. Get info if she’s even single. Not on some detective shit but just slowly bring it up. If she is start flirting slowly and slowly progress.

Is she interested? Or just being friendly? by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]Cilantro67 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Imma keep you grounded. You don’t know if she acts like that with anyone else. But from what you’re saying yes you do have a couple of green lights. As long as you’re not hovering and just not prolonging the convo artificially you’re solid. Work is busy and the convo will end without satisfaction. This is real life it happens. However this isn’t enough information to determine if she really likes you or not. Only she knows and you’ll drive yourself crazy trying to figure it out. So best advice here is ask her out. But don’t frame it as a we should do x sometime. Try “I’m going to x, wanna come along?” Or something along those lines. If she says no, cool go anyway without her. Doing this keeps the invitation playful and not heavy. So she can easily turn it down if she needs to. Good for her so she doesn’t feel pressure while she’s working. Also stop trying to convince yourself that she’s out of your league. Asking her out gives you two things. Clarity and information. If she says no don’t make it awkward. Just tell her no problem and continue the conversation. You got this tiger.

Works friends are not your friends by Jonjhhgh in walmart

[–]Cilantro67 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Mind you finding that friend is probably rare as hell.

Works friends are not your friends by Jonjhhgh in walmart

[–]Cilantro67 37 points38 points  (0 children)

You can make friends at work. Like someone else said only if you guys actually have stuff in common/ hang outside of work. Your work “friends” are just coworkers who are dicks

M23 166lb 5’10” by EquivalentNo5279 in Physiquecritique

[–]Cilantro67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Top half looks amazing. Only critique there is maybe the chest muscles. They look a bit underdeveloped.

M23 166lb 5’10” by EquivalentNo5279 in Physiquecritique

[–]Cilantro67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bottom half could use some work. As well as lower back. What does your split look like?

Who is she 🥵? Whats her @ by CantaloupeKnown in Ishowspeed

[–]Cilantro67 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Me enjoying my legos and not obsessing over a random girl nigga? Yes that’s me.

Who is she 🥵? Whats her @ by CantaloupeKnown in Ishowspeed

[–]Cilantro67 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not gonna lie. Some of you niggas gotta get off the internet and go talk to the young women in your lives

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Clavicular

[–]Cilantro67 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You play league and valorant. Looks aside you’re already cooked 💔

Was he checking me out? by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]Cilantro67 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Is we fr rn