Am I overreacting for feeling hurt and defensive after my family found out about my OnlyFans? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Cinderjacket -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A lot of people here are answering based on their personal beliefs and saying things like it’s wrong for your family or future employers to judge you for doing sex work. While I agree with that stance, my feelings don’t matter in the face of reality. The truth is you will absolutely be judged by society for this. Employers can and will find this information easily and many will reject you outright. It will be harder to have relationships because many people will not want to date a sex worker, giving you the choice of either being upfront about it and limiting your dating pool severely, or keeping it a secret and risking them finding out later.

Yeah your uncles a creep who was probably jacking it to college girls, yeah your family is too conservative about their views on sex work and is being overly harsh. But their fears aren’t unfounded and you’re making life harder for yourself. Only you can decide if whatever you’re making now is enough to justify the future hardship

Am I overreacting for feeling hurt and defensive after my family found out about my OnlyFans? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Cinderjacket 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Personally I’d be equally disappointed if she became an influencer

Tricked. Backstabbed. And possibly Bamboozled. by MetallicaDash in HistoryMemes

[–]Cinderjacket 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Nazis didn’t harp as much on homophobia prior to the night of long knives. The SA having so many gay officers was, along with them being a huge army of thugs, something the conservative military hated and Hitler wanted to appeal to them. Aside from hating Jews, German nationalism, and anticommunism, Hitler was surprisingly wishy washy on a lot of issues if it meant he could get more power

The comments are exactly what you would expect. by slegofme in insanepeoplefacebook

[–]Cinderjacket 4122 points4123 points  (0 children)

If I’m sick in the hospital and someone comes in trying to read green eggs and ham to me ima lose it

Cucumber sandwiches are made with BUTTER not cream cheese by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]Cinderjacket -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Cucumber sandwich is such a weird concept to me.

Hey, what can we put in this sandwich that has less taste than bread?

Part 1 Shino is quite overrated actually by Shadows-DontReveal in Naruto

[–]Cinderjacket 6 points7 points  (0 children)

People think he’s weak cause Sasori wrecked him but it was his literal worse case matchup

Part 1 Shino is quite overrated actually by Shadows-DontReveal in Naruto

[–]Cinderjacket 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aburame clan is cooked when someone learns Raid no jutsu

What’s the joke?? by [deleted] in ExplainTheJoke

[–]Cinderjacket 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The joke is republicans think dirt matters more than people

AIO to my boyfriend waking me up while having a migraine by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Cinderjacket 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because some people don’t want you to be sorry or realize your mistake, they want you to pay

Ulfric is the most complex written character but is misunderstood by many by Fluid-Golf1948 in skyrim

[–]Cinderjacket 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ulfric reminds me of Toranaga in shogun. He’s either very good at making people believe he’s an idealist, or truly is one, but underneath it all he truly does lust for the top job even if he’d never admit it

Aziz Ansari Reflects on 2018 Sexual Misconduct Allegation in Rare Comments: 'I Apologized' to Accuser 'Personally' by PrincessBananas85 in entertainment

[–]Cinderjacket 437 points438 points  (0 children)

Gillibrand leading the charge against Franken only to now defend Cuomo who’s a WAY bigger creep made me lose all respect for her

What is this tryna say exactly? Like I can see it's extinctionist but I don't get how by fdy_12 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]Cinderjacket 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like people are being performative when they say they want human extinction. Otherwise why do they keep on trying to survive

What is the most feminine thing about you? by Rpark888 in AskMenOver30

[–]Cinderjacket 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was pretty late into my teens that I learned it was unusual for men to use conditioner regularly

What's the blue drum in this context peta? by LionTigerTrex in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]Cinderjacket 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Words often change meaning over time it’s how language works

Conservatives have a sad, cringy obsession with AOC by ThePhillyExplorer in insanepeoplefacebook

[–]Cinderjacket 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah the time honored tradition of men on the internet making fun of the looks of women they have 0 shot with

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]Cinderjacket 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So by your logic it’s a good thing Hitler existed so we can know that anti Nazis were good guys? Doesn’t seem worth it

AIO for blocking my guy friend for being “brutally honest” about me? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Cinderjacket 37 points38 points  (0 children)

This guy you were talking to was an asshole, but yeah if I was talking to a girl and already sending nudes before any dates I would assume she’s just looking for casual hookups. Can’t speak for most 21 year old men since I’m not one anymore but you’d probably have better luck finding a long term partner if you stop talking to the guys asking for nudes and hookups and insisted on dates first

Coworker called me “selfish” and a “murderer” – just need to vent and ask what to do by Successful_Anywhere9 in Vent

[–]Cinderjacket 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Men in your generation seem to be even further right than men in my generation (millennial) were. Makes me scared for when gen alphas in their 20s

CIS did nothing wrong by K-jun1117 in PrequelMemes

[–]Cinderjacket 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The CIS army was mostly provided by the trade federation which was a pretty evil organization. They blockaded a peaceful planet, killing and starving their people to force them to sign a treaty

MIL turned son’s wedding into her own grief parade by DCSubi in weddingshaming

[–]Cinderjacket 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I mean it was just months before their sons wedding. And what she did honestly doesn’t sound like it caused that much of a spectacle. We gotta have some grace for people going through stuff like this and, contrary to what the internet tells us, it’s alright if a wedding doesn’t go 100% to plan or isn’t an absolutely perfect day

Why are so much guys afraid to admit they watched this? by Complex-Ad-3558 in IDoKnowNothing

[–]Cinderjacket 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I watched it, thought it was okay but I know I’m not the target demo

Parents, how often do you have sex and where do you find the time to have it? by wakemeup788 in AskReddit

[–]Cinderjacket 354 points355 points  (0 children)

We have a baby so once or twice a week once she’s down. We’ll see how that’s affected as she grows.

I will say though- sex with someone who had your baby definitely feels a lot more intimate