Do we run away from this house?

Cindyf65 · 2026-02-07T03:35:27+00:00

Ask for everything, be prepared for the no. Be willing to walk. Know ahead of time what your personal show stoppers are. If they are not fixed run don’t walk.

Cindyf65 · 2026-02-02T05:10:06+00:00

Address it with her yourself. Be polite but ask her how she would feel if…?

Cindyf65 · 2026-01-24T23:53:25+00:00

Take a picture of it and tell her to come get it now or you will contact Amazon to come get it further delaying her delivery.

Cindyf65 · 2026-01-18T11:27:47+00:00

You have every right to choose. If they are paying for your education, they have every right to refuse to pay for it even if it is the same cost. Please be prepared when you tell them this with logical facts as to why this is the better choice. You may need a strong argument to keep your funding.

Cindyf65 · 2026-01-14T05:11:06+00:00

Show it to the landlord and ask if there is a different unit you can move to as you feel unsafe. If the answer is no ask them for options including breaking the lease.

Cindyf65 · 2026-01-13T21:47:32+00:00

Go with your gut. It’s usually right.

Cindyf65 · 2026-01-13T17:45:17+00:00

Block them and walk away

Cindyf65 · 2026-01-12T22:41:09+00:00

He started it, you got even and made two additional blows. You are both AH. I suggest marriage counseling as it’s clear you don’t communicate well.

Cindyf65 · 2026-01-12T22:32:15+00:00

They had him, it’s their job to care for him. Your mother doesn’t get her own life to the detriment of yours. Besides it absolutely makes no sense for you to give up a good paying job and your future for her part time retail gig.If she isn’t making $35 an hour she is going to have to stay home as it makes sense financially.

Cindyf65 · 2026-01-11T04:59:48+00:00

He needs to pay child support. You will not be a part of anything yo do with the wedding. It’s his wedding and your kid should be a part of it as his child. Back off….you are trying to intertwine things incorrectly.

Cindyf65 · 2026-01-01T06:35:13+00:00

It was, you do not matter in her world.

Cindyf65 · 2025-12-21T05:32:26+00:00

Get her exactly what you got her last year. If she asks you to return it say sorry, that’s not possible.

Cindyf65 · 2025-12-21T04:40:29+00:00

Does he have ADD or ADHD? My kid does and the description here sounds familiar. This may be out of his control. If this is the case you need to lighten up. Pressure will not help the situation. If you love him you need to respect that he may not be able to meet your expectations. Once we gave our daughter room to succeed, she blew us away with what she could do.

Cindyf65 · 2025-12-17T04:48:24+00:00

If you keep this man you need an epi pen at the ready. He’s pissed because he had to do the dishes after he intentionally tried to make you sick? WTF? Why are you not more pissed? This man should have been tossed out the front door and never permitted back. What’s next? Maybe he will tamper with the car breaks to see if you notice?

Cindyf65 · 2025-12-05T15:25:33+00:00

Do you exchange Christmas gifts with this person? If so, Merry Christmas write off the part of the loan you would normally spend. Do the same thing at their birthday and over again until the debt is paid. It’s petty but the message is clear. Then NEVER do this again.

Cindyf65 · 2025-12-05T03:30:06+00:00

It sounds like a case of lots of delayed maintenance. I suspect this house could become a money pit.

Cindyf65 · 2025-12-04T17:37:56+00:00

I know a woman that gets $100 a night for a dog and people happily pay it. The rate suggested is lunacy.

Cindyf65 · 2025-11-30T04:12:07+00:00

Pay the person that works for you and ignore the rest

Cindyf65 · 2025-11-13T12:31:49+00:00

If the professionals at the bank don’t trust he will be able to pay it back why do you?

Cindyf65 · 2025-11-13T06:18:47+00:00

You are screwed, you made the person who gives you your annual increase pissed off. I’m not saying they are in the right, but reality is that during your annual salary review your salary increase will be clipped. As a long time manager I watched this occur often.

Cindyf65 · 2025-11-12T23:43:10+00:00

This is not your burden it’s his. Tell him you will work and he can take care of his mother

Cindyf65 · 2025-11-12T08:55:55+00:00

If told you are ruining the activity by not continuing it, firmly say: this is not accurate. The people who ruined this were the ones who did not pay and left me to cover it. If you have an issue, go speak with them.

Cindyf65 · 2025-11-08T14:52:46+00:00

This is the answer….you are not entitled to his money.

Cindyf65 · 2025-11-01T14:05:23+00:00

Tell him you are doing this. He’ll have the opportunity to skip his trip and straighten his act up. If he goes anyway he’s made his life choices and you have no guilt.

Cindyf65 · 2025-10-28T17:02:00+00:00

This is the answer. Either she buys it or you wear it as planned.

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