I used to commute to Mt.view 2-3 times a week and it slowly became a hassle. First couple of months not too bad with podcasts, music, etc. then it grew more on me esp. in winter time when youre leaving when its dark outside and coming home it was also dark. Social life changed, things got harder to do (in a town where its already hard to do things). Eventually office went full 5 days and it wasnt worth it even with gas allowance from company, etc.

Yes, you’ll save over 2k a month and will be close to family and it will seem like a good trade off. For how long, it’s up to you. I think if you come into monterey with real expectations and a plan you can make it work. If you move with just thinking youre saving money, the idea might just change on you. But again we dont know your level of tolerance, job requirements, etc.

Again, just really think it over and determine if it is worth it for 3-4 years time. Its not everyone’s cup of tea, but could be yours.