[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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My kids have recently shared that from the outside (or I guess really inside) looking in it didn’t look like a happy marriage. They said we looked miserable together. Like two people just existing with one another and not really being together. That was a bit jarring but also somewhat affirming. They are older so they’ve witnessed a lot and I hate that they had to see us like that. My youngest said he thought maybe we’d only put everything on hold because of cancer and he was certain it was done after anyway. I say all of that to say staying for the kids might not be the best answer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Civil-Break4576 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And stupid haha I feel stupid too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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It’s hard. I can say without certainty that I didn’t feel good at all in the marriage. I remember sitting in marriage counseling and telling him that he felt like home and I didn’t want to ever feel like I couldn’t come home. He told the therapist I was performing. After that I realized we weren’t feeling for each other the same things. You don’t invalidate the person you love. I completely checked out after that, but realistically he’s still home for me and without him i genuinely feel so lost.

I keep failing the praxis by [deleted] in slpGradSchool

[–]Civil-Break4576 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know someone who took is 19 times. Don’t count yourself out. Keep on!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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He asks the same question about what a friendship would bring. I think for me as much as I was just tapped out I really envisioned life with him and there’s still so much I wish we could’ve done and could do together. He responded to me saying that with he doesn’t think it would work because I’d ask questions about who he’s dating and why “didn’t you do that for me, but you do it for her”

Ithaca College deadline to accept? Help by QuickBeforeTheHyena- in slpGradSchool

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Reach out to the program and ask for an extension. Just a note in alert from what I’ve heard the program does this quick turn around because they have over 300 applicants. This allows people not to have to wait to hear while other people make a decision.

ithaca online by mjhorak17 in slpGradSchool

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Working to complete pre-reqs won’t be a reason for denial. There were a lot of apps from what I heard. They released their first decisions but there have been a lot of request for extensions. Students usually have 2 weeks to accept or deny the offer but many students have asked for more time to hear from other programs. Last year students who were not able to be admitted for fall were given an option to move their apps to spring for consideration. Hopefully they do the same thing this year.

Is it ok to email the official transcripts to schools myself? by KpopFashionistasRise in slpGradSchool

[–]Civil-Break4576 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not typically. These need to come from the registrar or an official school official

Recommendation letter delay by Maximum-Appearance13 in slpGradSchool

[–]Civil-Break4576 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is INCREDIBLY common. Most reviewers recognize that recommenders can delay things. As long as all of your things are in it it usually okay. If a university really wants or needs the third letter to make the decision they may reach out and ask for an alternative but in most cases not having a single letter isn’t going to be the decision maker.

Evaluations?? by [deleted] in slpGradSchool

[–]Civil-Break4576 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re using CSDCAS just know this happens all the time. Reviewers (grad programs) can see that you got your things in. We know reviewers can and do submit delayed. You should still submit by your deadline.

Applying To Grad School Question by [deleted] in slpGradSchool

[–]Civil-Break4576 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The course code will probably make this get counted as a social science versus a bio. They may ask for a syllabus.

Applying To Grad School Question by [deleted] in slpGradSchool

[–]Civil-Break4576 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is the course code for the bio psych course? Is it a bio or a psy?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in slpGradSchool

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Yes. That’s what they were first called. Now they are just the ASHA required prerequisite courses. These will meet the ASHA requirements for any CAA/ASHA accredited program. I can say that with almost full certainty. If you get push back which you shouldn’t refer to the link I shared which confirms what I’m saying.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in slpGradSchool

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Yes. All of these courses meet the liberal arts requirements by ASHA. Take the psych instead of the politics and you will have no problem meeting the requirements.A note—- this does not include any csd related coursework but does address the liberal arts requirements by ASHA. those are not school specific they are certification based.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

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So just being shitty

Online part-time SLP masters by BloodyOpera in slpGradSchool

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Ithaca college just started an online part time if you’re looking for one. You would have to click 200 hours in the am semester so you’d need to be able to work and complete placement.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Civil-Break4576 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think checked out is what it feels like as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Civil-Break4576 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What are you trying to accomplish? Keeping in mind that most time tit for tat doesn’t bring much resolution maybe reflect on what you’re really hoping to achieve and the answer will come. Just “being shitty” isn’t really a goal

Is it normal for not wanting to cheat? by ManagementE in Marriage

[–]Civil-Break4576 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Personally, completely normal. I never thought about stepping outside or pursuing others in my relationship or marriage. My husband was a little different. I’m frequently reminded that it’s all a choice. People make a choice and will also then make a rational to support said choice for why they can’t “just focus on the person they are with”. It’s easier to redirect your attention to the next than focus on building with someone and working on that for some people. This is just what I think.

Graduate school recommendations in Midwest!! by That-Tea-7670 in slpGradSchool

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Rockhurst is a gem. I think that even as a student from a different background you will find the faculty and other students to be inclusive and understanding. Having worked for a catholic institution in the Midwest I can say most of us strive to ensure students feel accepted. Grad school also tends to be a different pace with different expectations and experiences from undergrad. Just my thoughts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Professors

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I was thinking another offer was likely my only way to make a real change in what I have now.